In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Monkey, a self-described “nerdy computer scientist turned tantric guide,” who shares his incredible journey of transformation. Growing up in India, Monkey repressed his sexuality for decades—struggling with shame, a stutter, and a failed arranged marriage—before discovering healing through psychedelics, tantra, and radical self-acceptance.

We dive deep into his five pillars of intimacy: self-love, knowing yourself, communication, sensuality, and play. Monkey reveals how these principles helped him release people-pleasing, honor his boundaries, and turn what many would see as weaknesses—like his stutter—into authentic strengths.

This episode explores:

• How taking 100% responsibility for your reality creates freedom in relationships.
• Why self-love and self-knowledge are the foundation of intimacy.
• How tantra and embodiment practices can heal sexual shame.
• Practical tips for setting boundaries without guilt.
• Why playfulness and sensuality are essential to keeping attraction alive.

Whether you’re navigating dating, healing from heartbreak, or deepening intimacy with a partner, this conversation offers practical tools and inspiring insights to transform your love life.

You can find Naughty Monkeys workshops and book at https://artofintimacy.org/

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