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It's a common myth that couples enter counseling fighting like cats and dogs. In truth, says licensed marriage and family therapist Colette Fehr, her office is usually far quieter. It isn't fighting but, rather, conflict avoidance that causes the deepest ruptures in romantic relationships. But most couples don't see the problem until it's (almost) too late. In The Cost of Quiet, Colette Fehr shines a light on the epidemic of avoidant attachment and shows us how to break the cycle once and for all.

In The Cost of Quiet, Colette Fehr shines a light on the epidemic of avoidant behavior and shows us how to break the cycle once and for all. Drawing from the latest attachment science and evidence-based therapies she’s used to repair hundreds of couples, Fehr gives us the tools to approach our partner with openness, honesty, and vulnerability. The ultimate goal: a closer, securely attached relationship that doesn’t avoid conflict but rather engages with it in a positive, productive way.