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In Addiction to Love, recovering love addict Susan Peabody explains the variety of ways this disorder plays out, from the obsessively doting love addict to the addict who can't disentangle from an unfulfilling, dead-end relationship. Peabody provides an in-depth and easy-to-follow recovery program for those suffering from this unhealthy and often dangerous addiction and explains how to create a loving, safe, and fulfilling relationship.

In Forbidden Psychology 101, you’ll learn the forbidden, secret psychological techniques that will turn your life upside down, and there won’t be any obstacles preventing you from gaining the respect and freedom you want and deserve.

In a playful response to the book He's Just Not That into You, the authors demonstrate how to stop searching for love from impossible sources and find it within yourself. They tell a tale based on a true story of two traumatized friends attempting to get past the abuses they suffered as children.

Develop habits and skills by retraining your brain to recognize fear and take control of your life. Improve your happiness, freedom, and sense of control. Teaching you how to stay in control, interpret your emotions, and cope with the demands of life, Fear Is Not My Enemy will help you to become more aware of your fears, understand them, and build resilience to manage its impact on your life.

A lawyer turned counselor examines the chaos many families endure when addiction disrupts their lives. Based in part on her own family’s journey, Van Vechten explains the science of addiction, the theory of treatment, and the 12-step model of recovery, providing sensible information and tips for reasoned action in support of a loved one while fostering personal growth and recovery.

People in resilient relationships are co-owners, experience reciprocity, and are better prepared to meet challenges authentically and effectively. This invaluable sequel to the best-selling Irrelationship reviews the concept created by the authors and develops the DREAM Sequence, a tool for couples to address the perennial issues facing relationships, striving for meaningful connection, and maintaining intimacy, which results in the desired goal of “relationship sanity”.

Confusing. Crazy making. Draining. Does this describe your relationship? Do you wonder if they will ever change? Do you want to know why they lie so much...even when the truth would work better? Have you wondered why they never seem to change - no matter how much you are willing to do for them, or how much love, understanding, rehab, religion, therapy, second (or 22nd) chances you’ve given them? If so, you are not alone and this book is a great place to start.

If you’re the family member of an addict, you may feel confused, guilty, and scared of doing the wrong thing. And when you don’t know how to help, you may find yourself in a codependent role. Addict in the House offers a pragmatic, step-by-step guide to dealing with a loved one’s addiction, from accepting the reality of the disease to surviving what may be repeated cycles of recovery and relapse. You’ll learn how to encourage your addicted loved one to get help without forcing it and finally find the strength to let go of codependence.

The best news on the planet is that your mother doesn't have to change in order for you to be happy. In fact, author Karen C.L. Anderson will take it a step further and say your mother doesn't have to change in order for you to be free, peaceful, contented, and joyful. You can emotionally separate without guilt: Inspired by her own journey, Anderson's Difficult Mothers, Adult Daughters shows women how to emotionally separate from their mothers without guilt and anxiety so they can finally create a life based on their own values, desires, needs, and preferences.

If your life has been affected by addiction (yours or someone else's), abuse, trauma or toxic shaming, you may also be struggling with another invisible problem - codependency. Without your even being aware of the connection to the above issues, it has created additional life-long challenges such as endless guilt, anxiety, perfectionism, need to control, depression, a history of dysfunctional relationships and much more. This easy-to-understand, interactive book will reveal how codependency has sobotaged you, the lies it created in your beliefs and the truths that expose them.

Per chiunque è impossibile evitare di influenzare o di non subire influenze. Ogni persona è sorgente sia di un campo elettromagnetico che di un campo psichico. I campi psichici si influenzano vicendevolmente, in maniera positiva-costruttiva oppure in maniera negativa. Non ci sono dispositivi che ci schermano in automatico. È dunque indispensabile imparare a difenderci da influenze negative e dai fenomeni di manipolazione che irrompono in molteplici forme nella nostra vita quotidiana (disinformazione, pressioni psicologiche, indottrinamenti religiosi, ecc.).

Ti sei mai chiesto perché a volte ci si sente fatalmente attratti verso relazioni che già intuiamo genereranno in noi delusioni e sofferenza? Perché si tendono a sviluppare i medesimi modelli relazionali negativi che inevitabilmente finiranno nel fallimento come quelli precedenti? La risposta va rintracciata nelle "vasana", ovvero nelle tendenze della propria personalità che inducono a reazioni emotive negative automatiche e che, se non modificate, continueranno a produrre insuccessi relazionali. Quali tipi di relazioni desideri?

Che tipo di amore stai vivendo? Un Amore che ti fa stare in Inferno, in Purgatorio o in Paradiso? Sia Dante nella Divina Commedia che Arjuna nella Bhagavad-gita hanno le stesse aspirazioni e necessità: riscoprire la propria natura profonda che è costituita di Amore, ma l'Amore va distinto dalle sue contraffazioni che rappresentano una pseudo-realtà. Come puoi riconoscere il vero Amore dalle sue contraffazioni? Lo pseudo-amore si riconosce perché comporta la perdita di quote significative di libertà.

Ancor prima di amare, è necessario conoscere il significato autentico di Amore. Non è una tempesta di emozioni che induce alla confusione mentale e priva l'individuo della facoltà di scegliere in modo responsabile e, quindi, della propria libertà. A causa di eccessive aspettative, spesso si perde il confine tra realtà e sogno. In assenza di lucidità e obbiettività, le persone soffrono e si lamentano perché deluse, inconsapevoli che le delusioni sono il frutto amaro delle loro stesse illusioni. Se chiamiamo amore ciò che amore non è, stiamo percorrendo un sentiero pericoloso.

Highly acclaimed international life coach and licensed therapist, Shannon Rios Paulsen, MS, LMFT, guides you to discover your own self-love. The deep insights and powerful step-by-step coaching exercises in this book form a roadmap of transformative change.

In Prodependence, Weiss presents a research-based social and psychological understanding of human interdependence, accepting and even celebrating human interdependency in ways that are healthy and life-affirming for each person.

Imagine how different your life would be if you knew how to deal with jealousy effectively; to stop this negative emotion from damaging your life and relationships. In this insightful and functional audiobook, Katherine Chambers gives listeners a firsthand look into the overriding concepts of jealousy.

In The Incurable Romantic, Frank Tallis recounts the extraordinary stories of patients who are, quite literally, madly in love: A woman becomes utterly convinced that her dentist is secretly infatuated with her and drives him to leave the country; a man destroys his massive fortune through trysts with more than 3,000 prostitutes - because his ego requires that they fall in love with him; a beautiful woman's pathological jealousy destroys the men who love her.

En nuestra vida cotidiana no podemos evitar encontrarnos con personas problemáticas. Jefes autoritarios y descalificadores, vecinos quejosos, compañeros de trabajo o estudio envidiosos, parientes que siempre nos echan la culpa de todo, hombres y mujeres arrogantes, irascibles o mentirosos? Todas estas personas 'tóxicas' nos producen malestar, pero algunas pueden arruinarnos la vida, destruir nuestros sueños o alejarnos de nuestras metas. ¿Cómo reconocer a la gente «tóxica»? ¿Cómo protegernos y ponerles límites?

L'amore è l'essenza della vita; chi lo considera alla stregua di un accessorio gioca con la propria esistenza. Senza amare non è possibile apprezzare la bellezza in ogni cosa, la si può solo depauperare. L'essere umano è un universo da esplorare e racchiude in sé un tesoro immenso, che può essere portato in luce solo conoscendo il vero significato di "Amore". Le domande su questo tema conducono a un'indagine profonda: "Dio ci ama talmente tanto, da lasciarci scegliere se allontanarci o avvicinarci a Lui.