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Why is it so hard to change problem behavior - in our kids, our colleagues, and even ourselves? Conventional methods often backfire, creating a downward spiral of resentment and frustration, and a missed opportunity for growth. What if the thinking behind these old methods is wrong? What if people don’t misbehave because they want to, but because they lack the skills to do better? Or as renowned psychologist J. Stuart Ablon asks, what if changing problem behavior is a matter of skill, not will?

Have you ever felt like you're talking, but nobody is listening? Renowned five-time TED Talk speaker and author Julian Treasure reveals how to speak so that people listen - and how to listen so that people feel heard. As this leading sound expert demonstrates via interviews with world-class speakers, professional performers, and CEOs at the tops of their fields, the secret lies in developing simple habits that can transform our communication skills, the quality of our relationships, and our impact in the world.

This audiobook provides you with the key secrets you’ll need to unlock the next level of fluency and open an entirely new world of fluency. With this audiobook by your side, you’ll discover that taking your skills to the next level wasn’t nearly as difficult as you originally imagined it to be. Being able to speak well and effectively can give you a lot of opportunities. People will take you seriously and consider you as a professional if you speak confidently with the voice of a professional.

If you're like many people, you might associate debate with a school club, or perhaps a TV political debate that features two or more candidates talking over each other. But if these are your only associations with debating, you're missing out on an intellectual pursuit that can help you in all aspects of your daily life. The ability to debate - to present persuasive arguments, pierce the logic of others, and turn the tables against withering cross-examinations - is one of the truest tests of one's intellectual capacity.

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Psychologist John Gottman has spent twenty years studying what makes a marriage last. Now you can use his tested methods to evaluate, strengthen, and maintain your own long-term relationship. This breakthrough book guides you through a series of self-tests designed to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, where your strengths and weaknesses are, and what specific actions you can take to help your marriage.

The art of speaking can be systematically learned, and if you have the desire, discipline, and determination - not to mention one of the world's greatest presenters as your teacher - you too can become a persuasive and powerful speaker. Tracy reveals time-tested tricks of the trade you can use to present powerfully and speak persuasively, whether in an informal meeting or in front of a large group of people.

★男性の友人が言っていました。「男も35過ぎると、ガツガツしなくなるんだよね。女性から来てくれないと、なかなか発展しない。」女性も若い時のように「待ち」で解決しなくなります。攻守交代時代の恋愛を、中谷さんから教わりました。こんな方に、オススメ♪□最近、モテなくなってきた女性。□何のために、男の修行をしているのか見失った男性。□いつまでもセクシーでいたい方。●「女性は、『モテる』からの下降線をたどる。」●「激戦で、切磋琢磨しよう。」●「『モテ』を定義しよう。」●「英語の勉強とエッチの勉強は、同じ。」●「セクシーな人生は、どれだけディテールを楽しめるかで決まる。」●「童貞時代は、財産。」●「体験した後、妄想はふくらむ。」★何度も聴いて、妄想体質に!

「ファミコン世代の想い」シリーズは、任天堂の岩田社長が亡くなったことがきっかけになったという。ファミコンネイティブの余暇通信社の山岡禎幸とゲーム戦隊いっぺいのSaori Maedaという二人が、前回に引き続き、任天堂ゲーム機の枠から飛び出たポケモンGOというゲームを巡って語り合った１本です。

モテないのは、あなたが「王子教育」を受けてこなかったから!?このセミナーは、こんな人にオススメです。1.ズバリ!モテたい方。2.気品ある立ち居振る舞いができない方。3.「王子教育」を受けそこなった方。●物と長くつき合える男が、モテる。●靴にこだわる男は、モテる。●上着をきれいに脱ぐ男が、モテる。●お店での立ち居振る舞いの美しい男が、モテる。●「王子教育」で、男はモテる。気品ある男は、「王子教育」を受けてきた。何度も聴いて、気品あるれる「王子」になりましょう! ※本商品は、CDセミナー(「別冊・中谷彰宏」Vol.5「ハンガーにきれいにかける男が、モテる。」――女性がほっておかない男性のマナー術、5,000円、2007年、リブラ・エージェンシー刊)のダイジェスト版です。

★子供は、恥ずかしがり屋、照れ屋さん。子供は、それでいいのです。でも、大人がそれでは大人といえません。子供から大人への道のりは、それらの克服。恥ずかしさを乗り越えての告白。照れを乗り越えての熱唱。手の内をさらけ出しての商談。「恥ずかしい」を乗り越える方法、中谷さんから伺いました。★こんな方に、有効です。□恥ずかしがり屋で、理性が外せない方。□自分がケダモノであるという自覚がない方。□お願い事が素直にできない方。「野生を、蘇らせよう。」●「理性が外れる瞬間が、魅力的。」●「野生は習慣から生まれる。」●「モテるには、習慣を変えること。」●「恋愛に、世間の一般論を持ち込まない。」●「目当てを打ち明ければ、受け入れられる。」●「大人の余裕で、利用されよう。」★何度も聴いて、「恥ずかしい」「照れ」を超越しましょう!

★人は誰でもついつい他人と比較してしまうもの。嫉妬したり、劣等感を持ったりするのも人間らしさ。でも、せっかくなら、そういう感情を有効活用しては?あなたの「負の感情」をエネルギーにする方法、中谷さんが教えてくれました。こんな方に、有効です。□つい嫉妬してしまい、敗北感を持ってしまう方。□完璧を求め、思う存分楽しめない方。□見栄っ張りで、お金がかかって仕方がない方。 ●「ウィークポイントが、個性になる。」●「『外す体験』で、直感力を磨こう。」●「他人と戦うのではなく、自己記録と格闘しよう。」●「芸術家の世界に競争はない。」●「関西人には競争がない。独自の世界に生きている。」●「嫉妬する相手から学べば、嫉妬は消える。」●「正しい・正しくないという価値軸を捨てよう。」●「『好き』で生活すれば、安上がり。」 ★何度も聴いて、コンプレックスをエネルギーに!

★論理的な話なんて、聞きたくない。抽象的な話なんて、おもしろくない。私たちが聞きたいのは「物語」。人を魅了する人の話は「物語」に満ちています。日常生活のなかの「物語」をいかに集め、いかに語るか。これが会話上手の人たちの知的鍛錬。話し上手は、物語り上手。物語りする方法、中谷さんから伺いました。★こんな方に有効です♪□話し下手な方。□20代でモテなかった方。□「スルー」できない方。★別ナカ69――7つの学び○「論を語らず、物語を語ろう。」○「話し上手は、物語り上手。」○「役割があると、居心地がよくなる。」○「話がつまらない人の話を観察しよう。」○「20代でモテない人が、モテる。」○「危ない目に遭って、人は学んでゆく。」○「アバウトなコミュニケーションをしよう。」 ★何度も聴いて、物語り上手に!

Dr. Lee Pulos is a leader in the field of mind/body/spirit. Let him show you how visualization, a mental technique that uses the imagination, can lead to success and make your dreams and goals come true. Benefit from his short hypnosis, self-talk, and subliminal programs to achieve results quickly in any area.

Every woman is searching for a happier, healthier, more fulfilling life. Many realize the significant role that an intimate, tightly knit circle of friends plays in creating a more fulfilling life, but with hectic schedules, frequent moves, and life changes, it's more important than ever for women to establish natural, meaningful friendships. In Friendships Don't Just Happen!, Shasta Nelson, friendship expert and CEO of GirlFriendCircles.com, reveals the most important proven steps, processes, and secrets vital to establishing the five different levels of friendships.

Improve Your Communication Skills is your practical guide to effective verbal, non-verbal, and written communication in business. Full of proven tips and techniques, it will help you keep the interest of a large audience, impress a potential employer, or simply win the argument at an important meeting. Better communication skills can have a direct impact on your career development. This book provides vital guidance on improving your conversations, building rapport with colleagues, learning skills of persuasion, and more.

Building on the premises of Power Thoughts and Living Beyond Your Emotions, Joyce Meyer examines the tremendous power of words. - which are the vehicles that convey our thoughts and emotions - and provides a series of guidelines for making sure that our talk is constructive, healthy, healing and used to good results. In a "Dictionary of God's Word" at the end of the book, Joyce provides dozens of scripture verses, arranged by topic, that she recommends reading and saying out loud as one way of using and claiming healing words.

Why do we so often fail to connect when speaking with business colleagues, family members, or friends? Wouldn't you like to make yourself heard and understood in all of your relationships? Using vivid examples, easy-to-learn techniques, and practical exercises for becoming a better listener and making yourself heard and understood, Dale Carnegie will show you how it's done, even in difficult situations.

The key to success in life and business is to become a master at Conversational Intelligence. It's not about how smart you are, but how open you are to learn new and effective powerful conversational rituals that prime the brain for trust, partnership, and mutual success. Conversational Intelligence translates the wealth of new insights coming out of neuroscience from across the globe, and brings the science down to earth so people can understand and apply it in their everyday lives.

Papyrus rolls and Twitter have much in common, as each was their generation's signature means of "instant" communication. Indeed, as Tom Standage reveals in his scintillating new audiobook, social media is anything but a new phenomenon. From the papyrus letters that Roman statesmen used to exchange news across the Empire to the advent of hand-printed tracts of the Reformation to the pamphlets that spread propaganda during the American and French revolutions, Standage chronicles the increasingly sophisticated ways people shared information with each other....