Most of us assume the women who "do the things" (i.e. eat a certain way, or work out consistently, etc) must love it, or at least have more motivation than we do. So we keep waiting to fall in love with the process before we fully commit. Today, I’m sharing why that wait might never end, and what the most consistent people actually do differently when they don’t feel like it (hint: it’s not more discipline).

I’m also getting honest about something that might surprise you: after years of lifting and phase after phase of periodized training, I still don’t love working out. If you’ve ever told yourself “if I loved it like she does, I’d do it too,” this one matters, especially as we head into the season of “find your motivation” and New Year’s resolutions.

In this episode you’ll hear:

• The thought I still have mid-workout after all these years, and why it doesn’t mean what most women assume it means
• Why “find something you love” is great advice for beginners, and how it becomes a trap later on
• The 3 things that can co-exist, and why only one of them needs to be strong for you to stay consistent
• The 3 separate events that happen every time you “don’t feel like it,” and the one most people never realize they’re skipping straight past
• What a medical student, a job you don’t love, and a poopy diaper all reveal about the difference between enjoying something and valuing it
• The two internal conversations, and why one of them is exhausting experienced women without them noticing
• The 4-step process that turns “I’m trying to be someone who...” into “I’m someone who...,” without ever learning to love it
• The 4 kinds of discomfort that are actually a signal to reassess, so this never becomes another “just push through” message
• Why progress doesn’t always mean the resistance goes away, and what changes instead

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