You ever notice how grown adults will talk in full circles just to avoid saying, “Hey, I like you”?
People will write whole essays through subtext, emojis, half-sentences, and late-night “accidental” messages, acting like they’re sending government-classified codes instead of admitting they’re interested.

In this episode, we’re breaking down the 30 ambiguous things people say when they want you… but they’re scared to show their hand.
You know the lines:

“I don’t usually open up to people.”
“You’re different.”
“We should hang out… sometime.”
“Lol you’re trouble.”

Every one of them is a breadcrumb, a little test, a tiny invitation wrapped in fear.

We’re talking:
• why people hide their attraction
• how to tell the difference between interest and politeness
• how fear makes people speak in riddles
• how to respond without losing self-respect
• how to stop being the “weaker” one giving coded signals

If you’ve ever wondered, “Are they into me or just weirdly friendly?” …this episode is for you.

Why do avoidant partners pull away when things feel close, yet return to the one person who stays steady, grounded, and emotionally light? In this episode of You are Probably Right, MCM breaks down the psychology behind avoidant attachment and the power of relief and controlled presence.

You will learn:

• why avoidants retreat when emotions rise
• why calm confidence creates emotional safety
• how relief lowers their defences and pulls them closer
• what controlled presence looks like in real relationships
• what avoidants respond to and what pushes them away
• how to stay centred without chasing or overgiving

This episode is a clear guide for men and women who want healthier relationships without losing their self respect. If you have ever been confused by mixed signals, silent retreats, or the distance that shows up right when things start feeling real, this one will help you understand the pattern and break it with strength.

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There comes a point where you have to stop asking, “Why are they doing this to me?” and start asking, “Why do I keep allowing it?”

In this episode of You’re Probably Right, MCM speaks straight to the ones who have given more to one person than they ever have to anyone else – more money, more time, more patience, more emotional support – and got the least in return. You showed up as the best version of yourself, and they responded with crumbs, confusion, and bare minimum effort.

This is not about calling you weak. It is about understanding why you overgive, why you accept disrespect, and why you keep fighting for people who would never fight for you in the same way. We break down what is really going on when you become the permanent giver, and why the real pattern is not just about “takers” – it is about how you see yourself.

In this episode, MCM talks about:

• What an unbalanced relationship actually feels like in your body

• How childhood roles and people pleasing turn into overgiving in adult relationships

• The quiet “deal” you make in your mind when you hope effort will buy loyalty

• The emotional cost of overgiving: exhaustion, resentment, and losing yourself

• Why respect matters even more than “I love you” in male and female relationships

• How takers learn your limits by watching what you allow

• Why you have to stop trying to earn love through suffering and sacrifice

• Practical steps to rebuild self worth, set real boundaries, and stop trying to fix people with effort

• How to start loving yourself without turning cold or bitter

If you have ever wondered, “Would they still be here if I stopped doing everything?” this episode is for you. It is not about blaming you for their behaviour, it is about giving you your power back so your love and your self respect can finally walk together.