Chris and I are finally filming in our new house, and we’re jumping into a spicy one: how I can be against feminism without being “anti-woman”—and why the internet makes this conversation so unbelievably messy. We talk about the tradwife movement hitting “aesthetic + brand” status (including a major tradwife influencer divorce story), the way some men weaponize “submission” for control, and why the manosphere’s version of “traditional” is basically a total inversion of sacrificial, Christian masculinity.

I suck at homemaking.

Or at least, I used to.

For years, I would see an overflowing trash can, a sink full of dishes, or a mountain of laundry and somehow…still not do anything about it. And every homemaking system I tried seemed to be designed by someone who was already naturally good at this stuff.

So what do you do if you actually WANT to care for your home well…but organization, cleaning, routines, and maintenance just don’t come naturally to you?

Well, after 5 years of marriage, I’ve finally figured out how to make homemaking work with my more creative, Type B brain instead of constantly trying to turn myself into a Type A person (news flash: it doesn't work).

We’re talking procrastination stations, the “container rule,” decluttering without destroying your entire house in the process, and why the real answer is less about finding the perfect hack and more about building simple rhythms you can actually maintain.

Your home doesn’t have to be perfect.

You just need to learn how to steward what you have...even if you kind of suck at it right now.

In This Episode:

0:00 Being A Bad Homemaker

4:43 Struggles Caused By Your Creativity

8:21 Projects vs Rhythms

11:30 Tip 1: Procrastination Stations

14:18 Tip 2: Laundry

15:13 Tip 3: Groceries

16:06 Tip 4: The Container Rule

19:04 Tip 5: The Anti-Marie Kondo

20:29 Tip 6: Embrace Rhythms (NO HACKS!)

Resources

A Slob Comes Clean by Dana K. White: https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/

Organizing For The Rest Of Us by Dana K. White: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08ZMB6XQS/

Decluttering At The Speed Of Life by Dana K. White: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B072TMNCBH/

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Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/

Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/

The internet has ruined everything.

Humanity is at a huge crisis point, fueled by social media algorithms.

We're waking up to this and are instituting some new routines in our home to start moving back to a more analog way of life...a life free from HOT TAKES.

Do we really need to know what Matt Walsh or Ben Shapiro think about every single thing in the entire world?

And I'm not just picking on them...it's everyone, with everything, all the time.

Something's going to break. And I don't want it to be my family's mental health.

In This Episode:

0:00 Intro

0:29 The Garage Sale Life

2:39 The Internet Has Ruined Everything

6:30 Hayden Panettiere and Lindsay Clancy

9:31 CS Lewis on News

12:01 The Algorithm's Hot Takes

13:59 Our Need For Control

18:06 How We're Cutting Back In Our Home

24:19 The Future Is Analog

Resources:

The Machine Stops by E.M. Forster: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B071HG139S

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Feminist to Feminine by Justice Kuehl: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1957616512/

Follow Justice on IG: https://www.instagram.com/justicehopekuehl/