What if the reason you’re struggling to orgasm, feeling numb, disappointed or disconnected in bed… is you’re making a few very common mistakes that are quietly sabotaging your pleasure?

In this episode, we’re getting VERY honest about it.

• Why you might be letting someone inside your body way before you’re actually ready
• The difference between wanting sex and your body genuinely being ready to receive

• The sneaky way guilt around receiving can have you rushing through pleasure instead of actually letting yourself fucking HAVE it
• Why spending longer with your own anatomy can teach your partner how to spend longer there too 👀

• And the uncomfortable truth about how much time we actually give our bodies to open, awaken and receive

This is your reminder that your pleasure isn't something someone else is supposed to give you.

You have a relationship with your own body first.

And when you deepen that relationship?

Everything in the bedroom can change. 🔥

✨ WANT TO ACTUALLY EMBODY THIS?

This is exactly why I created SORCERESS.

A 4-week online yoni massage programme for women who are ready to stop sacrificing their pleasure, reconnect with their own anatomy and bring their internal tissues back to life — whilst gently releasing the shame, disconnection and trauma that can live in the body.

Because knowing what you should do is one thing.

Actually teaching your body how to receive, feel and experience pleasure is another.

SORCERESS is where we take everything we're talking about in this episode and put it into your body.

If you’re ready to stop performing pleasure and start embodying it, come join me inside SORCERESS.

[JOIN SORCERESS →] https://thewildfem.com/sorceress

🔥 FOR THE WOMEN WHO ARE CALLED TO GIVE THIS WORK

And if you’re a practitioner, therapist, healer or woman who knows there is something much deeper here…

PRIESTESS is my 3-month trauma-informed yoni massage facilitator programme.

This is where you learn to hold this ritual hands-on for other women — supporting them to move through numbness, shame, disconnection and sexual trauma, and guiding them back into relationship with their own bodies.

Not just learning a massage technique.

Learning how to facilitate a deeply embodied healing experience.

[DISCOVER PRIESTESS →] https://thewildfem.com/priestess

⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR PUSSY:

Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.

⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM:

The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings

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INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

Stay wet, Love Charlotte xxx

In this episode, we’re going deep into the alchemy of sexual trauma —

and how the very places where you’ve carried shame, fear and disconnection can become some of the most powerful places of pleasure, safety and embodied femininity.

✨ Inside this episode:

• Why I don't believe you need to “get rid of” sexual trauma to heal
• The difference between releasing the past and rewriting what your body believes is safe
• Why “feel it to heal it” can be impossible when your body doesn't yet feel safe enough to feel

• The moment I experienced this for myself — and why one session of yoni massage changed everything for me
• How self-blame can begin to dissolve when you meet the parts of yourself that have been hurting with holding instead of fixing

• How we can begin to programme safety into tissues that have learned to expect danger
• And the most delicious possibility of all… what if the thing you thought would haunt you forever becomes part of what makes you feel the most alive?

This is the kind of alchemy that doesn't ask you to become who you were before.

It asks:

Who could you become because you survived?

If you're ready to explore this work in your own body, SORCERESS is my 4-week yoni massage journey for women ready to meet themselves somewhere deeper

— with safety, slowness, pleasure and radical compassion.

🔥 Join the next round of SORCERESS: begins October 7th 2026
https://thewildfem.com/sorceress

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START HERE > ..

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)

⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR PUSSY:

Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.

⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM:

The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings

_________________________________________________________

INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

_________________________________________________________FACILITATOR TRAINING …

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess

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PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE -

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.

💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off

Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleed

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Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx

What if you’ve been doing… BRO BREATHWORK? 👀

Yep. We went there.

I’m joined by Georgina Rose, creator of Feminine Codes® Breathwork, for a deliciously polarising conversation about why so many breathwork modalities weren’t created with the female body in mind.

We talk about:

🔥 Breath + sexual trauma healing

🔥 The pelvic bowl & feminine physiology

🔥 Why your breath matters SO much in the bedroom

🔥 Awakening your eros & sexual energy

🔥 Why women are still being taught to disconnect from their anatomy

🔥 And what changes when you stop forcing your body to perform… and start listening to it.

Because what if your breath isn't just something you do to calm your nervous system?

What if it's a doorway back into your pleasure, instinct, sexuality and wildness?

New episode of WET & WORTHY WOMAN 🎙️🔥

Go listen. And then come tell me…

Have you been doing bro breathwork?

Connect with Georgina:

Instagram

Work with Georgina & try her feminine codes breathwork for FREE

code WILDFEM10 for your special discount on 1:1 breathwork sessions with feminine codes method ❤️

____________________________________________START HERE > ..

⁠🍯⁠ WISE NECTAR:⁠⁠ Self yoni massage course to connect to your body - create safety to surrender - & release lifetimes of numbness, trauma & tension

(get ready to feel 10x more confidence + pleasure in the bedroom)

⁠🎁⁠ FREE CEREMONY TO START RECONNECTING TO YOUR PUSSY:

Reconnect, let go of the past trauma, & start to feel SAFE in your body & the bedroom.

⁠🎁 FREE MEMBERSHIP FOR WOMEN’S SEXUAL HEALING ON TELEGRAM:

The naughty corner - a free sisterhood space to share, get private podcasts & first access to my new offerings

_________________________________________________________

INSTAGRAM - FOR DAILY WILD WISDOM:⁠

⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/thewildfem/⁠⁠

_________________________________________________________

FACILITATOR TRAINING …

BECOME CERTIFIED IN TRAUMA-INFORMED CEREMONIAL YONI MASSAGE :

Apply for PRIESTESS training here> https://thewildfem.com/priestess

_________________________________________________________

PLEASURE PRODUCTS I LOVE -

💦⁠ ⁠TANTRIC TOOLS⁠ ⁠- Upgrade to a crystal or glass pleasure wand & thank me later .. Use code 'wildfem' for 10% off.

💦 Free-bleed Blankets - Code ‘CHARLOTTELITTLE’ for 10% off

Squirt & bleed without stress, I LOVE this for making love during my bleed

https://free-bleed.com/?ref=wildfem

_________________________________________________________

Stay wet, Stay worthy. Love Charlotte xxx