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Betrayal cuts deep, leaving wounds that can take years to heal. In this powerful exploration of why people cheat, we pull back the curtain on the psychology of infidelity to reveal that cheating is never a mistake—it's a choice rooted in emotional disconnection, fear of vulnerability, and unhealed trauma.

We dive into six revealing patterns that often precede infidelity: inconsistency between words and actions, emotional unavailability, excessive need for external validation, blame-shifting without accountability, push-pull dynamics that create emotional whiplash, and the rare but important case of someone realizing they're gay while in a heterosexual relationship. Each pattern reveals a different facet of why people betray those they claim to love—not to excuse the behavior, but to understand its deeper roots.

The most transformative insight might be recognizing that attracting serial cheaters isn't random bad luck. It often stems from being an over-giver who craves validation, confuses chaos with passion, or carries the subconscious belief that you must prove your worth to be chosen. Breaking this cycle requires raising your standards, redefining what healthy love feels like, and choosing from wholeness rather than fear of loneliness.

For those healing from betrayal, I offer practical guidance on rebuilding trust—in yourself first, then potentially in others. Remember that you didn't deserve to be betrayed, but now you get to rise. This pain doesn't define your worth; it reveals where your soul is asking for more honesty, self-honor, and aligned love. And for additional support, look for my bonus meditation episode "Releasing the Betrayal" designed to help you reclaim your self-worth and stop sabotaging your future happiness.

Ready to break free from patterns of betrayal and create the honest, devoted love you deserve? Listen now and begin your journey toward real connection—with yourself and others.

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