從濫好人、無私奉獻，
一路聊到免費幫忙、專業該不該收錢，
還有人情到底能不能當作無限次使用的折價券。

老實說，
最怕的不是幫別人一次，
是你幫久了，對方就忘了那叫善意，
開始以為那是你的義務。

From chronic people-pleasing and giving way too much, to doing favors for free, wondering whether professional work should actually be paid for, and asking whether “you owe me one” somehow comes with unlimited uses.

Honestly,
the scary part isn’t helping someone once—
it’s helping them for so long that they forget it was kindness,
and start treating it like your responsibility.

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從看到別人太強、心裡先不爽，
一路聊到工程讀書會、高手包圍、自我懷疑，
最後才發現與其站在旁邊問「他憑什麼」，
不如直接坐進去一起讀。

老實說，
最可怕的不是打不贏別人，
是你還在想怎麼贏，人家早就已經在下一個等級等你了。

From seeing someone way better than you and instantly getting annoyed,
to joining an engineering study group, being surrounded by absolute monsters, and questioning your entire existence, we eventually realized that instead of asking, “Why is this guy so good?” you might as well sit down, join the group, and start leveling up too.

Honestly,
the scariest part isn’t losing to someone better than you—
it’s realizing that while you’re still figuring out how to catch up,
they’re already waiting for you at the next level.

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DJ 都到了，
有些人卻連人影都沒到。

從離職趴延遲開場、臨時 No Show，
一路聊到黑名單、另一半亂入，
還有那些約久了才發現根本不值得再約的人。

老實說，
最累的不是辦一場聚會，
是你以為自己在辦畢業趴，最後卻辦成了朋友圈淘汰賽。

The DJ showed up.
Some people, apparently, did not.

From a delayed farewell party and last-minute no-shows, to blacklists, unexpected plus-ones, and those people you keep inviting until you finally realize… maybe you shouldn’t.

Honestly,
the hardest part isn’t organizing the party—
it’s thinking you’re throwing a farewell celebration,
then realizing you accidentally hosted the Friendship Hunger Games.

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