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In this transformative episode of Biblical Bifocal, Winnie shares the four powerful truths that changed his marriage forever—and could change yours too. With humor, honesty, and deep biblical insight, he tackles why so many marriages struggle and how to fix them. From understanding what real love means (hint: it’s not butterflies), to the spiritual importance of “dying daily,” and the power of your words, Winnie breaks down key teachings that blend faith and real-life application. Plus, he explains why having a joint venture with your spouse could be the secret weapon against infidelity—and how a ruler might just redefine how you see your role in the home.

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Chapters:
00:00–02:45 — Intro & Winnie’s Personal Marriage Journey
02:46–08:15 — Why Marriage Has Bad PR & The Reality of Marital Expectations
08:16–15:30 — Reason 1: You Don’t Actually Love Each Other (Biblical vs Cultural Love)
15:31–24:20 — Feelings Are Consultants, Not CEOs
24:21–29:00 — Soulmates & Compatibility: Do They Exist?
29:01–35:25 — Reason 2: You’re Not Dying Daily (What That Actually Means)
35:26–43:45 — Ambition vs. Marriage: Seeing Your Spouse as a Tether, Not a Weight
43:46–50:05 — Reason 3: No Joint Venture With Your Spouse (And Why That Matters)
50:06–55:40 — Working Together Even When You Don’t Work Well Together
55:41–59:30 — Biblical Order vs. Value: Rethinking Headship in Marriage
59:31–01:04:15 — What It Means to Be the “Ruler” in the Home
01:04:16–01:11:50 — Reason 4: Your Tongue Is Damaging Your Relationship
01:11:51–01:20:00 — The Power of Words: How Women Build or Break Their Men
01:20:01–01:26:00 — Peace, Respect, and Why Affairs Often Start Elsewhere
01:26:01–01:31:40 — Communication Tips: Texts, Timing, and Tone in Marriage
01:31:41–01:36:30 — Final Thoughts, Mentorship, and Shoutout to Kevin & Angela
01:36:31–End — A Challenge for Viewers & The Purpose of Marriage Revisited

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