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Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher

Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher

著者： Emily Fletcher
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Welcome to Why Isn't Everyone Doing This with Emily Fletcher. Each week we’ll explore some of the most spine-tingling, potent modalities that can give you the kind of bliss and pleasure that is your birthright. No topic is off limits: We’ll dive into everything from breathwork to psychedelics, from meditation to BDSM. Join Emily in conversation with scientists, doctors, healers, and innovative thinkers to reveal the tools that have radically changed their lives, and that very well may change yours, too. We can’t wait to hear which one has you asking, “Why isn’t everyone doing this?”2023
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  • 145. Why Isn't Everyone Priestessing Themselves? with Elayne Kalila

    145. Why Isn't Everyone Priestessing Themselves? with Elayne Kalila
    2026/09/22
    What if the word apocalypse was never about the end of the world, but about what gets revealed once the veils come down? In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Elayne Kalila, a psychotherapist turned priestess and the founder of the Priestess Presence Mystery School, for a conversation that travels 30,000 years back to trace the deliberate erasure of feminine spiritual authority. Elayne walks through the Venus of Willendorf, the moment agriculture and land ownership gave rise to patriarchy, and why the women burned as witches were so often the post-menopausal landowners, healers, and midwives, not young women at all. They also get into Freud's diagnosis of hysteria and its roots in the idea of a wandering womb, why 43 million American women between 45 and 65 are entering their power rather than their decline, and Elayne's own confronting practice for holding the men causing harm on an altar of healing instead of hatred. This is a conversation about rage as initiation, aging as beauty, and what it means to priestess yourself and everyone around you through change. In this episode, Elayne explores: Why the witch burnings targeted post-menopausal landowners, healers, and midwives, not young women How agriculture and land ownership seeded patriarchy 10,000 years ago Why "apocalypse" actually means the lifting of the veils Her altar practice: naming powerful men who've caused harm and calling them into their hearts Freud's diagnosis of hysteria and its roots in the idea of a wandering womb Why 43 million American women between 45 and 65 are entering their power, not their decline Isis and her twin sister Nephthys, and Inanna's seven gates as the oldest map for this transition Why rage in perimenopause is information, not dysfunction Key Moments: 00:00 – Emily's tribute to Elayne, and welcome to Why Isn't Everyone Priestessing Themselves 01:20 – Introducing Elayne Kalila: psychotherapist turned priestess 04:50 – Going back 30,000 years: the Venus of Willendorf and the first evidence of goddess worship 05:42 – How agriculture and land ownership seeded patriarchy 10,000 years ago 06:56 – The witch burnings: who was really targeted, and why 09:59 – The apocalypse, meaning the lifting of the veils 13:34 – The case for the feminine, made directly to the man who thinks this isn't for him 21:48 – Elayne's altar practice: naming powerful men who've caused harm and calling them home 35:42 – What it means to priestess yourself: navigating the unknown without a map 47:54 – Isis and her twin sister Nephthys, and the echo of Inanna and Ereshkigal 50:53 – Hysteria: how a wandering womb became a medical diagnosis for a woman's power 53:04 – 43 million American women are entering perimenopause, and why that's power, not decline 58:05 – Premenstrual rage as information, not dysfunction 1:00:45 – Inanna's seven gates as the oldest map we have for this transition 1:01:54 – Aging as beauty: the story of her partner and her white hair About Elayne Kalila Elayne Kalila Doughty, MA, MFT, is a psychotherapist turned priestess and the founder of the Priestess Presence Mystery School, where she has spent over a decade ordaining women into the Divine Feminine mysteries. She is the author of The Sacred Call of the Ancient Priestess and The Magdalene Rose Oracle, and hosts The Red Podcast. Website: elaynekalila.com Instagram: @elayne.kalila This episode is sponsored by Timeline. Support your mitochondrial health and get 20% off Mitopure at timeline.com/ziva 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA: Join Ziva Insiders: whythis.zivameditation.com Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.com Free masterclass: learn.zivameditation.com Follow us on Instagram: @zivameditation
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  • 144. Why Isn't Everyone Using Pleasure to Reclaim Their Power? with Regena Tomashauer

    144. Why Isn't Everyone Using Pleasure to Reclaim Their Power? with Regena Tomashauer
    2026/09/15
    What if the darkest season of your life isn't a punishment, but an initiation? In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with her friend and former roommate Regena Thomashauer, known around the world as Mama Gena, for a conversation about her new book, On Our Knees. Regena is the New York Times bestselling author of Pussy: A Reclamation and the founder of the School of Womanly Arts, and this book was written by hand, one card and one page at a time, over years of 5am mornings. Regena walks through the myth of Inanna's descent into the underworld, why she believes hell is a patriarchal invention built to keep women small while the underworld exists to make them whole, and what it costs a woman to keep playing “fine” instead of the full range of who she is. She also shares her own story: a goddess who visited her bedside at five years old, an acting class that told her she had no sensuality, and the years at what she calls “the Vatican of orgasm” that taught her pleasure is a biological miracle, not a luxury. The conversation closes with Regena reading live from the book's chapter on Kali, the goddess who arrives precisely when a life has grown too small to hold who you're becoming. Get the book: On Our Knees by Regena Thomashauer, available now → https://mamagenas.com/onourknees/ In this episode, Regena explores: Why hell is a patriarchal invention, and why the underworld belongs to the feminine instead The myth of Inanna, and why a throne can get a woman adored but never whole Her own childhood visits from an unnamed goddess, and years spent searching for her The acting class that sent her looking for orgasm instead of a callback Life inside what she calls “the Vatican of orgasm,” and the neurochemistry that let her heal Why pleasure regulates the nervous system in ways therapy and to-do lists cannot A live reading from On Our Knees: the Kali chapter Raising sons inside a goddess-centered household, without leaving them out of the story Key Moments: 00:00 – Welcome back Regena Thomashauer, and the poetry behind On Our Knees 03:11 – Why she's proudest of how vulnerable this book is: “Broken is the new shiny” 04:48 – The erotic as the doorway that opens both radiance and rupture 08:49 – Hell versus the underworld: two very different stories about the dark 12:02 – The myth of Inanna, and why the goddess runs an initiation, not a prison 14:45 – The 88 keys: why “I'm fine” is the smallest note women are allowed to play 19:47 – What the goddess says instead of “you're failing”: “You're mid initiation” 21:38 – Isis and her twin sister Nephthys, and Emily's own discovery of the unmanifest 22:45 – The goddess who visited Regena's bedside at five years old 25:02 – The acting class that sent her looking for orgasm instead of a callback 28:15 – Inside Lafayette Morehouse, “the Vatican of orgasm” 30:01 – The neurochemistry of pleasure: oxytocin, dopamine, endorphins, and prolactin 32:15 – For the exhausted single mother who thinks pleasure is a luxury she can't afford 38:02 – Why pleasure regulates the nervous system in ways nothing else does 41:56 – Live reading from On Our Knees: the chapter on Kali 46:35 – Why she wrote the book for every gender, but chooses to lead with the feminine 48:08 – Raising sons inside a goddess-centered household without leaving them out 53:59 – Regena's deepest hope for what this book changes About Regena Thomashauer Regena Thomashauer, known to millions as Mama Gena, is the New York Times bestselling author of Pussy: A Reclamation and the founder of the School of Womanly Arts, where she has spent almost three decades helping women reclaim their pleasure, power, and erotic aliveness. Her new book, On Our Knees: Loving Your Life Even When You Hate What's Happening, is available now. Website: mamagenas.com Instagram: @mamagena 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA: Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.com Free masterclass: learn.zivameditation.com Get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: whythis.zivameditation.com Follow us on Instagram: @zivameditation
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    58 分
  • 143. Why Isn't Everyone Raising Conscious Children? with Dr. Shefali

    143. Why Isn't Everyone Raising Conscious Children? with Dr. Shefali
    2026/09/08
    The average age a child first sees porn online is nine to eleven. They are not looking for it. It finds them. In this episode, Emily Fletcher sits down with Dr. Shefali, who has been on Oprah more than any other guest and is one of the most trusted voices in conscious parenting alive today. She joins Emily with two new books just weeks apart, Raising Conscious Sons and Raising Conscious Daughters, and the two go deep on the questions Emily is sitting with in real time as a mother to a seven-year-old boy. They talk about what a screen is actually giving a child that a parent can learn to give instead, why the average boy is never initiated into his own sexuality or his own masculinity, and why that single gap traces a direct line to shame, misogyny, and the abuse now surfacing everywhere from the Epstein files to a website called Motherless. Dr. Shefali also opens up about what writing these two books dissolved in her, a judgment of an entire generation she didn't know she was carrying, and a new compassion for men she wasn't expecting to find. In this episode, Dr. Shefali explores: Why the average age for a child's first exposure to porn is nine to eleven, and why no one is looking for it What a screen is actually giving a child, and how to build an analog version of that same reward at home Why sons need to be initiated into their sexuality the same way a daughter is initiated into her body The tribal initiation story behind the book Of Water and the Spirit, and what it reveals is missing today Why testosterone is a hormone of pursuit that needs somewhere to go, not a behavior to suppress The four pillars of raising a conscious son: mentors, authenticity, accountability, competency What changed in Dr. Shefali's own judgment of an entire generation once she wrote these books Why remothering the good men already in your life may be the fastest path to protecting your daughters The risk no parenting book saw coming: chatbot friends, chatbot lovers, and children gambling their parents' money online What never changes about a child's needs, no matter how fast the world moves around them Key Moments: 00:00 – Welcome back Dr. Shefali, and why this conversation was two years in the making 02:11 – The real challenge of raising a son across two households 03:44 – Detox and withdrawal: what happens the moment the iPad disappears 05:55 – Building an analog surrogate for the dopamine a screen provides 09:38 – The average age kids first see porn, and why it finds them unbidden 11:04 – Sacred sexuality, shame, and what pornography is teaching in its place 12:08 – Talking to a son about arousal the same way you'd talk to a daughter about her period 14:00 – A hundred kids interviewed, and the one answer nobody expected 17:33 – Life force is neutral: Emily's own kundalini awakening and learning to receive 20:38 – Why Raising Conscious Sons exists: Adolescence, misogyny, and a culture in crisis 21:34 – Isis remembers Osiris: the myth behind putting a wounded masculine back together 22:27 – The site called Motherless, and 81 million views in a single month 24:01 – Of Water and the Spirit: a stolen initiation into manhood, reclaimed 26:38 – Sovereignty for daughters, tribe for sons: why the initiation is different 29:46 – The Urban Explorers: how boys build their own dangerous rites of passage 34:39 – The Hadza hunt, and why testosterone needs somewhere to go 37:11 – The four pillars of conscious masculinity 42:52 – What writing these books dissolved in Dr. Shefali's own judgment 46:37 – Mother Mary, Mary Magdalene, and remothering the men already in your life 49:05 – The Pac-Man fix: what happened when Emily brought a screen into her own house 51:20 – Why the books are already outdated: chatbots, AI relationships, and kids gambling online 53:59 – What never changes: safety, soothing, and significance 58:44 – Retiring as "the mother," and letting a 23-year-old daughter adult on her own About Dr. Shefali: Dr. Shefali Tsabary holds a doctorate in Clinical Psychology from Columbia University and is a New York Times bestselling author who pioneered the conscious parenting movement. She has appeared on Oprah more times than any other guest and is the author of nine books, including The Conscious Parent, The Awakened Family, A Radical Awakening, and The Parenting Map. Her two newest books, Raising Conscious Sons and Raising Conscious Daughters, are available now. Website: drshefali.com Instagram: @DrShefali ✨ Explore quantum energy with LeelaQ's Infinity Bloc. Get 10% off: leelaq.com – use code ZIVA 🔗 MORE FROM EMILY & ZIVA: Learn Ziva Meditation: preview.zivameditation.com Free masterclass: learn.zivameditation.com Get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: whythis.zivameditation.com Follow us on Instagram: @zivameditation
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