After my conversation with Sasha Pallari about breakups that don’t make sense on paper, I found myself sitting with something deeper…

What happens when you’re with someone who is objectively incredible
Kind. Stable. Supportive. And yet something still feels missing?

We talk a lot about red flags. But nobody prepares you for the green flag breakup.

In this solo reflection, I open up about:

• Staying in “almost right” relationships• Cognitive dissonance and emotional self-gaslighting• The sunk cost fallacy in love• My own breakup at 32 that completely shook my identity• Why leaving a good person doesn’t make you the villain

If you’ve ever felt ungrateful for being unhappy…If you’ve ever tried to logic your way into love…If you’ve ever stayed because it looked good on paper…

This episode is for you.

This is about emotional filters.This is about trusting your gut.This is about choosing truth over convenience.

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If someone sees you.Understands you.Holds you.Chooses you.

That’s enough… right?

But what happens when the person who makes you feel the most seen you’ve ever felt… is also battling addiction?

In this clip from Why Do I (Season 2), Sasha Pallari opens up about loving someone who could show up for her… but couldn’t show up for himself.

We talk about:

- Fire and ice love.
- The heartbreak of asking, “Why didn’t he fight for me?”
- Realising you can’t save someone from themselves.
- And the painful truth that sometimes love isn’t enough.

If you’ve ever loved someone through addiction…
If you’ve ever tried to help someone heal…
If you’ve ever had to walk away from someone you still love…

This one’s for you.

🎙️ Watch the full episode with Sasha Pallari on the channel now.

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We grow up thinking love is supposed to feel a certain way...

Butterflies.

Intensity.

Stability.

Someone choosing you.

But what happens when you’ve had the wedding… The divorce… The once-in-a-lifetime love… And you’re still asking, what do I actually want?

In the first episode of Why Do I (Season 2), I’m joined by Sasha Pallari!!

Sasha opens up about her marriage, her divorce and the complicated truth that sometimes love isn’t enough.

If you’ve ever walked away from something that looked perfect on paper…

If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re asking for too much…

If you’ve ever loved someone deeply but known it wasn’t right…

This one’s for you.

Season 2 starts here!!

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Sash: https://www.instagram.com/sashapallari/?hl=en

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#WhyDoI #Relationships #Breakups