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  • Navigating Commitment and Connection in Today's World - Tom's Tips #6

    Navigating Commitment and Connection in Today's World - Tom's Tips #6
    2025/05/02

    In this solo episode of Why Do Men, we unpack the fear of commitment...

    Why do so many men struggle with it and where does it really come from?

    I reflect on how childhood, masculinity, dating culture, and emotional avoidance shape modern relationships.

    Whether you’re someone who fears commitment or dating someone who does, this episode dives deep into the psychology, myths, and solutions behind it all.


    👉 Make sure to go watch the full episode with David Chambers if you enjoyed this!


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    10 分
  • How to Avoid Casual Dating Pitfalls - Best Moment #6

    How to Avoid Casual Dating Pitfalls - Best Moment #6
    2025/04/29

    In this episode, Tom and guest David explore how modern dating has made men more hesitant to commit.

    David shares why asking clear, open questions early on is crucial to finding out if someone is serious, and how being intentional about what you want attracts deeper, more meaningful relationships.

    If you enjoyed this clip, make sure to check out the full episode too!


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    4 分
  • Why Do Men Fear Commitment? - David Chambers #6

    Why Do Men Fear Commitment? - David Chambers #6
    2025/04/25

    So Why Do Men Fear Commitment?
    In this episode of Why Do Men, we explore why many men fear commitment, with special guest David Chambers, a male relationship and intimacy coach.

    We unpack the roots of avoidance, societal pressures, childhood dynamics, and the impact of modern dating.

    It's a powerful, vulnerable, and enlightening conversation for both men and women navigating relationships today.


    Chapters:

    (00:03) Male Fear of Commitment Unpacked

    (09:49) Men's Fear of Commitment and Bullying

    (16:02) Navigating Relationships With Boundaries

    (19:02) Setting Healthy Relationship Boundaries

    (24:16) Navigating Fear of Commitment in Relationships

    (32:50) Avoidant Men and Fear of Commitment

    (35:54) Navigating Men's Fear of Commitment

    (46:55) Exploring Fear of Commitment and Growth

    (54:40) Overcoming Fear Through Growth


    If you do enjoy this episode please leave a rating & subscribe - it helps more than you know :)

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    55 分
  • Facing the Fear of Rejection! Toms Tips #5

    Facing the Fear of Rejection! Toms Tips #5
    2025/04/18

    Why Rejection Hurts (Especially for Men)
    In this reflection episode, we break down why rejection cuts deep - from childhood wounds to ghosting - and how men often deal with it in silence.

    With some of the best insights from my episode with the lovely Anna Mathur.

    Make sure to go check out the full episode with Anna if this resonated with you!


    If you do enjoy this episode please leave a rating & subscribe - it helps more than you know :)📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom🔥 My Favourite Supplements:Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPODGet in Touch: 💬Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=enThreads: https://www.threads.net/@stroudtomTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com© Why Do Men Podcast

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    11 分
  • Building Confidence and Overcoming Rejection - Best Moment #5

    Building Confidence and Overcoming Rejection - Best Moment #5
    2025/04/15

    Dating, Stress & the Power of Being Misunderstood
    Dating can be an emotional rollercoaster - but what if the key to navigating it is regulating everything else first?

    In this clip, we explore how managing your baseline stress, building a strong support network, and gently leaning into discomfort can transform the way you respond to dating challenges.

    Plus, a powerful reminder: being misunderstood doesn’t mean you’ve lost your power.

    If you enjoyed this moment, make sure to check out the full video.


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    4 分
  • Why Do Men Struggle With Rejection? Anna Mathur #5

    Why Do Men Struggle With Rejection? Anna Mathur #5
    2025/04/11
    Why Do Men Fear Rejection? | With Psychotherapist Anna Mathur This week on Why Do Men, we’re diving into one of the most common but least talked about experiences in male behaviour: rejection. Whether it’s in dating, relationships, or friendships, rejection hits hard - and men often don’t talk about it. To unpack this, I'm joined by Anna, who specialises in emotional intelligence and human connection. We explore how men process rejection, how childhood and self-worth come into play, and why so many guys are afraid to put themselves out there. If you do enjoy this episode please leave a rating & subscribe - it helps more than you know :) 📚 My Top 10 Books On Dating & Relationships → https://www.amazon.co.uk/shop/stroudtom 🔥 My Favourite Supplements:Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD Chapter Timestamps (00:00) - Exploring Male Behavior in Relationships (04:56) - Understanding Male Rejection and Vulnerability (18:01) - Navigating Rejection and Vulnerability (26:48) - Vulnerability in Relationships (33:36) - Overcoming Fear of Rejection in Relationships (43:35) - Navigating Misunderstanding and Authenticity (51:21) - Authenticity in Dating and Relationships Get in Touch: 💬 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stroudtom/?hl=en Threads: https://www.threads.net/@stroudtom TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@stroudtom 📩 For Podcast Enquiries: wdmukpod@gmail.com © Why Do Men Podcast #relationships #annamathur #moderndayrelationships #tomstroud
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    55 分
  • Exploring Jealousy in Gender Dynamics & Recognising Emotional Abuse - Tom's Tips #4

    Exploring Jealousy in Gender Dynamics & Recognising Emotional Abuse - Tom's Tips #4
    2025/04/04

    In this reflection episode, I unpack my powerful conversation with psychologist Dr. Mark Rackley on jealousy and emotional abuse.

    From the roots of jealousy in childhood and gender dynamics to how it can spiral into insecurity or even coercive control!

    Learn how to spot red flags, build emotional awareness, and strengthen your relationships through honest communication and boundaries.

    👉 Listen to the full episode now to explore these insights in depth and hear Dr. Mark’s expert advice firsthand.


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    10 分
  • Can Perfectionism Ruin Romantic Relationships? Best Moment #4

    Can Perfectionism Ruin Romantic Relationships? Best Moment #4
    2025/04/01

    Dr. Mark Rackley, an expert in male mental health and emotional intelligence.

    In this clip we discuss how perfectionism can ruin relationships!

    If you do enjoy this clip, check out the full episode underneath this & please leave a rating for the show - it helps more than you know :)


    🔥 Some Of My Favourite Bits:

    Science-backed supplements for your brain, body & gut → https://www.yourheights.com/WHYDOMENPOD

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    2 分