Most brides think they’re setting boundaries… but what they’re actually doing is trying to get other people to change.

And that’s where things get confusing.

In this episode of The Aisle Help Podcast, Courtney Delgado breaks down the real difference between a boundary and an attempt to control someone’s behavior.

She shares how to create boundaries that feel calm, kind, and clear—and why they actually make your relationships stronger, not harder.

You’ll also learn how boundaries and manuals are connected, and why you can only set clean boundaries once you’ve stopped trying to manage how other people act, feel, or think.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• The difference between a true boundary and a hidden “rule” for someone else
• Why clean boundaries can only be created after you’ve dropped your manual
• The simple formula that makes boundaries clear and enforceable
• How to follow through on a boundary without anger, guilt, or drama
• Why calm, loving boundaries create deeper connection, not distance

Boundaries aren’t about being difficult.

They’re about being honest, clear, and emotionally responsible… especially during wedding planning, when so many people have opinions about what you “should” do.

💍 If you’re ready to plan your wedding with more calm, confidence, and joy, join the Vision to Vows Priority List. It’s Courtney’s one-of-a-kind program that helps brides plan their weddings in a simple, stress-free way while building the kind of self-trust and communication skills that strengthen marriage from the very start.

✨ Visit courtneydelgado.com/join for early access, behind-the-scenes updates, and a special Founding Member invitation.

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