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Boundaries are the foundation of any healthy relationship, yet so many of us struggle to establish and maintain them. This raw, unfiltered episode tackles a heartbreaking question from a listener whose boyfriend has completely stopped showing interest in her wellbeing - he no longer asks how she's doing, doesn't send thoughtful messages, and seems to reserve all his kindness for other women while only approaching his girlfriend when he wants something.

What do you do when someone who once treated you wonderfully suddenly stops caring? The answer lies in direct communication followed by unwavering boundaries. After expressing your needs clearly and giving your partner time to adjust, you must be prepared to walk away if nothing changes. As we discuss in this deeply personal episode, you cannot change another person, no matter how much you wish you could.

"When somebody shows you who they are, you need to accept who they are." This powerful truth forms the cornerstone of our approach to dating and relationships. Using examples from personal experience - including the host's boundary around not dating men with young children despite having young children herself - we explore how boundaries aren't about controlling others but about controlling what you accept in your life. The episode culminates with the empowering philosophy: "I am the table, so what are you bringing to my table?" This perspective shift challenges listeners to stop constantly proving their worth and instead evaluate what others bring to their lives.

Ready to stop compromising your happiness? Listen now, and learn how to establish boundaries that protect your heart while opening it to the right person. Follow us on social media, share your own boundary stories, and join our community of daters who refuse to settle for less than they deserve.

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