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Feeling alone while being married is a special kind of heartbreak that too many parents experience. We dive deep into a raw, emotional question from a woman who's been married less than two years but already feels like she's drowning as a single parent despite having a husband at home.

The conversation takes an honest turn as we explore the warning signs that were present from the beginning - a pattern of uninvolvement that extended from his first child to their now shared children. Through both tough love and compassionate understanding, we unpack why some partnerships devolve into one-sided caregiving arrangements and what options remain when communication repeatedly fails.

This episode delivers crucial advice for anyone considering parenthood with a partner: observe their current parenting style carefully before proceeding. The reality is stark - people rarely transform their fundamental approaches to family responsibility after marriage or having more children. We also tackle the intense demands of stay-at-home parenting without the structure or breaks that traditional employment provides, while emphasizing the critical importance of financial independence for every parent, regardless of marital status.

Perhaps most powerfully, we examine the red flag that too many people overlook when dating someone with young children from a previous relationship. When a person has chosen the challenging path of single parenthood over staying in a relationship, there's almost always a significant reason - one that new partners should thoroughly understand before committing. Your most consequential life decisions will always be your career choice and who you have children with - choose wisely.

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