"What do you want?”It sounds like a simple question, but sometimes it can stop us in our tracks.I remember moments where I felt frozen...like a rabbit in the headlights... not knowing what was really being asked of me, or what the other person truly wanted.Those situations can feel uncomfortable, even overwhelming. Do I answer honestly? Do I try to guess? Do I wait and hope for more clarity?In our upcoming session, we’ll share real stories of times we faced this exact uncertainty. More importantly, we’ll talk about how we worked through it — the small shifts in perspective and communication that helped us move forward with confidence.If you’ve ever found yourself caught between your own voice and someone else’s expectations, this conversation is for you.

The impact of team dynamics, busting myths about the workplace.We are talking about how does your team preform in the workplace. Is the organisation missing out on hiring opportunities as they aren't recruiting people that would be a good fit.

Work with us here:whatmakesthedifference.orgYou can ask Ali and Rich questions via our email: hello@whatmakesthedifference.orgJoin our LinkedIn and Facebook pages:https://www.linkedin.com/company/what... / whatmakesthedifferencecic Ali ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mojo-in-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can buy Rich’s books here:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-H...

At times we all feel that we are ignored, unseen and misrepresented. What are the causes of this, why does it happen and how we can look to find solutions to these problems.

In a world full of relationship advice, drama, and endless “hot takes,” sometimes the missing ingredient is the most obvious one: common sense.In this What Makes the Difference live session, we’ll break down:✅ Why many relationship struggles come down to poor communication — not saying what you really want or need.✅ How to separate emotional impulse from clear, logical thinking.✅ Practical tools to build better communication, respect, and trust.This conversation isn’t just for romantic relationships — it applies at home, at work, and with friends. Expect real talk, fresh perspective, and simple tools that could save you from a lot of unnecessary heartache.Work with us here:🌐whatmakesthedifference.org ⁠⁠⁠You can ask Ali and Rich questions via our email: 📧hello@whatmakesthedifference.orgJoin our LinkedIn and Facebook pages:https://www.linkedin.com/company/whatmakesthedifference/?viewAsMember=truehttps://www.facebook.com/WhatMakestheDifferenceCICAli ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mojo-in-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can buy Rich’s books here:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-H...

We are talking with Charlie Radclyffe, is a former Captain in the British Army and now Founder of the Veterans Law Project claiming compensation for injuries received during service and making claims after service life.

Date correction 2005 not 2003

You can find the Veterans Law Project here:

https://veteranlawproject.org.uk/

You can find out more about BLESMA here:

https://blesma.org/

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00:00 Introduction

10:00 Bridge jumping

16:20 BLESMA

19:30 Resources

25:00 Medical Records

36:30 Understanding key points

42:30 No fault awards, data collection

1:03:00 Additional harms

1:10:00 You are not alone

1:16:20 National Dialogue

1:18:40 Useful help

1:26:00 Takeaways

1:35:27 Outro

We are talking with Peter Kirkpatrick. He joined the RAF and moved from supply/logistics to mountain rescue.

Pete had a fulfilling career in the RAF and moved into the personal development arena working with people from disadvantaged backgrounds.

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You can buy Rich’s books here:

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⁠⁠⁠⁠00:00 Introduction

06:20 Soul Food

10:30 Awkward in acceptance

16:00 Learn, grow and progress

19:50 Grieving process

25:10 Hidden away

27:00 Born in Hull

31:00 On my arse

39:00 No you never

43:00 Right tribes

56:00Putting on your armour

01:00:00 Scouse 01:01:00 Takeaways and outro

We are discussing how to communicate better, resolve problems and navigate how to get out of drama. Work with us here: whatmakesthedifference.org ABRH.solutions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can ask Ali and Rich questions via our email: hello@whatakesthedifference.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠alirich@rethinking-trauma-and-transition.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join our LinkedIn and Facebook pages: https://www.linkedin.com/company/whatmakesthedifference/?viewAsMember=true https://www.facebook.com/WhatMakestheDifferenceCIC Ali ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mojo-in-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can buy Rich’s books here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk⁠⁠⁠⁠ 00:00 Introduction 03:00 On the Cusp 05:30 Where’s your head at! 09:30 Pressure off 13:20 My friend “John” 17:00 Create space 18:30 Work with us 19:10 Modelling 25:40 My friend “John” 28:30 Mutal understanding 29:50 Takeaways 31:40 Outro

We are discussing masking and what we choose share and who we choose to share things with. Making the wrong choice can have a harmful effect when it get weaponised against you. Work with us here: whatmakesthedifference.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ABRH.solutions⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can ask Ali and Rich questions via our email: hello@whatakesthedifference.org ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠alirich@rethinking-trauma-and-transition.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join our LinkedIn and Facebook pages: https://www.linkedin.com/company/whatmakesthedifference/?viewAsMember=true https://www.facebook.com/WhatMakestheDifferenceCIC Ali ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://mojo-in-mind.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can buy Rich’s books here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mr-Richard-Hilton/e/B0B1GXTH61/ref=aufs_dp_fta_dsk⁠⁠⁠⁠ 00:00 Introduction 01:45 Navigating trust 04:10 Jigsaw pieces 08:25 It is all F.I.N.E 13:15 Small gains 23:15 Relationships 26:20 Takeaways