This week on Vibin’ & Kinda Thrivin’, Alessandra checks in from a cold morning with a real, unfiltered heart-to-heart. She talks about showing up authentically even when it’s uncomfortable,why pretending everything’s fine isn’t her style, and how protecting your peace sometimes means getting honest about who you are and what you stand for.

It’s a mix of soft resets, small routines, hyperfixations, and gentle life upgrades, plus a reminder that joy, pride, and taking care of yourself can be their own form of resistance.vAs always, we end with a little advice corner for anyone feeling stuck, spiraling, or unsure what their next move should be.

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This week we’re getting a little more structured- with her 35th birthday around the corner, Alessandra gets real about the stuff she thought she’d have figured out by now: finances and money anxiety, routines and time management, friendship breakups in your 30s and more!

Before diving into Spill the Tea, she introduces a new weekly segment Things I’m Currently Vibin' With where she'll share what she's been loving this week. Then she tackles two wildly relatable write-ins: one from a burnt-out work-from-home “couch goblin” who can’t find the energy for life after 5PM, and another from someone who feels trapped in a “broke but aesthetic” lifestyle fueled by credit cards and pressure to look like they’re thriving. Expect tough love, empathy, and practical “start small” steps because if nobody has it all figured out, we might as well figure it out together.

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Snowed in, emotionally thawing, and having one of those “we need to talk about it” weeks.

In this episode, I’m coming to you from a literal winter tundra with 28 inches of snow, cabin fever, too much time to think, and a heart that feels a little heavier than usual. We chat about what it means to exist in the world right now as a sensitive, empathetic human and why pretending everything’s fine just isn’t my vibe, plus how I’m learning to hold space for both joy and grief at the same time.

Then we get into some very real Spill the Tea moments: balancing different versions of yourself, friendships that feel weirdly competitive, money honesty in relationships, and outgrowing party culture in your 30s without losing your people.

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