In this episode, Bruce is reflecting on Fatherhood and what it means to him. He invites you to their dining room table as all NINE little Paynes join the conversation to reflect on their favorite family traditions and give some honest feedback to their dad about areas he can grow.

Scripture References:

• "As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord has compassion on those who fear him." (Psalms 103:13)
• "Endure suffering as discipline: God is dealing with you as sons. For what son is there that a father does not discipline?" (Hebrews 12:7)

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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila address their children's many accomplishments and the drive for wanting to be the best by giving your best and, as parents, the importance of having expectations for effort.

Scripture Citations

• “A slacker’s craving will kill him because his hands refuse to work.” (‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭21‬:‭25‬ ‭CSB‬‬)
• “There is profit in all hard work, but endless talk leads only to poverty.” (‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭14‬:‭23‬ ‭CSB‬‬)
• “Don’t you know that the runners in a stadium all race, but only one receives the prize? Run in such a way to win the prize. Now everyone who competes exercises self-control in everything. They do it to receive a perishable crown, but we an imperishable crown.” (‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭9‬:‭24‬-‭25‬ ‭CSB‬‬)

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In this episode, to commemorate Mother's Day, Bruce and Kaila talk about the importance of the role of moms in a family, the impact their moms have made in their lives, and Kaila shares her purpose as a mom raising her children into adults.

Scripture Citations

• “About this time, a man and woman from the tribe of Levi got married. The woman became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She saw that he was a special baby and kept him hidden for three months. But when she could no longer hide him, she got a basket made of papyrus reeds and waterproofed it with tar and pitch. She put the baby in the basket and laid it among the reeds along the bank of the Nile River.” ‭‭Exodus‬ ‭2‬:‭1‬-‭3‬ ‭NLT‬‬
• ““Sir, do you remember me?” Hannah asked. “I am the very woman who stood here several years ago praying to the Lord. I asked the Lord to give me this boy, and he has granted my request. Now I am giving him to the Lord, and he will belong to the Lord his whole life.” And they worshiped the Lord there.” 1 Samuel‬ ‭1‬:‭26‬-‭28‬ ‭NLT‬‬

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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila answer some of their most frequently asked questions by others and give a little bit of insight into their lives as parents of nine and how they have had to adapt to meet the needs of their family.

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[01:45] What kind of car do you drive?
[04:09] Did you always want a lot of kids?
[07:59] When do you get "you" time?
[12:34] How do you do vacation?
[18:38] How do you cook/grocery shop?
[24:17] How do you manage everyone's schedules?
[29:06] Matthew 6 and closing prayer

Scripture Reference:
“So don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?’ These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need. So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s trouble is enough for today." Matthew 6:32-34

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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about the busyness of their schedule and open up about the vulnerability that comes from being busy and tired, when you feel like you’re running on fumes and have very little to give. Life can weigh you down, but it doesn't have to if you keep your eyes fixed on Jesus who rejuvenates our souls.

Episode 10: Q&A Form

[01:06] Intro: Busy Schedules
[04:32] Being Obedient when Tired
[06:48] Elijah at Mt. Carmel
[09:53] The Crash
[16:42] Refueling with Jesus
[21:00] Praying God's Word (Psalm 23)
[24:10] Episode 10 Preview
[26:15] Thank you & Prayer

Scripture Citations

• 1 Kings 18
• 1 Kings 19:1-13
• Psalms 23

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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about how they have shifted their perspective on parenting to reflect God’s love for sinners as they raise children who are being tempted by the devil and the cravings of the world. They talk about the importance of keeping your own spiritual walk strong, how to show God’s love and grace through patience and understanding, while making sure that we are being a living example of what it means to have a relationship with Jesus.

[01:45] Parenting through the ages

[03:42] Perception Change

[10:20] Dead to Sin

[15:30] Craving God vs the world

[20:00] Be Intentional

[23:13] Connect and Pray

Scripture Citations

• “Once you were dead because of your disobedience and your many sins. You used to live in sin, just like the rest of the world, obeying the devil–the commander of the powers in the unseen world. He is the spirit at work in the hearts of those who refuse to oven God. All of us used to live that way, following the passionate desires and inclinations of our sinful nature. By our very nature we were subject to God’s anger, just like everyone else. But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, that even though we were dead because of our sins, He gave us life when He raised Christ from the dead. (It is only God’s grace that you have been saved!) -Ephesians 2:1-5 NLT
• “For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and prine in our achievements and possessions. These are not from the Father but are from this world. And this world is fading away, along with everything that people crave. But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever.” -1 John 2:16-17 NLT
• “Now all glory to God, who is able to keep you from falling away and will bring you with great joy into His glorious presence without a single fault. All glory to Him who alone is God, our SAvior through Jesus Christ our Lord. All glory, majesty, power, and authority are His before all time, and in the present, and beyond all time! Amen.” -Jude 1:24-25 NLT

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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila are joined by their 16 year old daughter, Zoe, to talk about how people use their words, including cursing and putting others down, but how God wants us to use words to build up others, share our testimony, and give life to those around us.

[01:27] Intro to Topic
[03:24] Meet Zoe & talk about cursing
[07:55] Accountability
[15:14] "Shut your mouth"
[21:00] Good vs Bad consequences
[22:43] Zoe's Testimony
[26:55] Closing Prayer


Scripture References:

• “People can tame all kinds of animals, birds, reptiles, and fish, but no one can tame the tongue. It is restless and evil, full of deadly poison. Sometimes it praises our Lord and Father, and sometimes it curses those who have been made in the image of God. And so blessing and cursing come pouring out of the same mouth. Surely, my brothers and sisters, this is not right!” (‭‭James‬ ‭3‬:‭7-‭10‬)
• “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life.” (‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭4‬:‭23‬)
• “A good person produces good things from the treasury of a good heart, and an evil person produces evil things from the treasury of an evil heart. What you say flows from what is in your heart.” (‭‭Luke‬ ‭6‬:‭45‬)
• “The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences.” (‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭18‬:‭21‬)

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In this episode, Bruce and Kaila talk about the importance of setting a personal growth plan so that we can reach our full potential as individuals, which allows us to pour into our children, helping them to grow into productive adults who value a growth mindset, create measurable goals, and value learning from mistakes.

[01:54] The Laws of Growth (John Maxwell)

[07:35] Planning ahead

[14:22] Step One: Reflection

[22:29] Step Two: Preparation

[27:12] Step Three: Action

[32:48] Good kids don’t just happen

[34:38] Connect with the Paynes

[36:35] Prayer

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