In this episode of Unmasking Kink, I share my first experience attending a munch! What it's like, how to prepare and what you can expect when you walk into your first one.

We'll cover everything from event descriptions and table markers to conversation starters, group dynamics and what organizers really want you to know. Plus, I are tips on preparing ahead, how I accidentally stumbled into mine, and the lessons I walked away with.

Whether you're brand new to kink, or looking for community, this episode breaks down the who, what, when, where, why and how of munches in a way that's welcoming, real and a little bit personal.

Recourses mentioned - Show Notes – Unmasking a Munch

Finding Events & Munches

• FetLife – Events Search
• BDSM Events Calendar

Understanding Munches & Etiquette

• Wikipedia – “Munch (BDSM)”
• Threshold Society – Munch Etiquette
• EhBC – Munch Tips

For Newcomers to Kink & Events

• Kink Academy – “What to do when you’re new.”

Find all I’ve got going on at the website

• Unmaskingkink.com

Not every episode needs to be loud to hit hard.

This week, I’m exploring the very first kink I ever recognized in myself, masochism. What draws someone to enjoy pain? Is it something to worry about, or something worth understanding on a deeper level? I’m breaking down common misconceptions, unpacking the psychology, and tackling the big question: is masochism a mental disorder, or just another way humans seek sensation, control, and connection?

It’s a slower, more thoughtful vibe, but worth every second.

Articles referenced: Definition How to Tell if I have Self Defeating Personality Disorder What is a Masochist.

In this episode of Unmasking Kink, we delve into the tension between authenticity and acceptability in the kink community. Inspired by insightful posts from FetLife users Tittan and Vampyre, we explore the implications of sanitizing BDSM for mainstream comfort.

We'll discuss personal boundaries, the importance of consent, and the value of embracing the raw, unfiltered aspects of kink.

Whether you're a seasoned player or new to the scene, this conversation invites you to reflect on the true essence of kink and the importance of preserving its integrity.

Featured FetLife Writers:

• Tittan – “When Kink Gets Tamed: The Dangers of Vanilla-fying BDSM”

• Vampyre – “BDSM Isn’t About Making Outsiders Comfortable”