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Uncoupled & Unfiltered

Uncoupled & Unfiltered

著者： Ksenia Muench
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Divorce isn’t polite, and this podcast isn’t either. Uncoupled & Unfiltered is where strong, self-sufficient adults come to get real about divorce—before, during, and after the papers are signed. Hosted by Ksenia Muench, MBA, a no-BS divorce strategist who’s been through the fire of high-conflict litigation, this show is for people who aren’t here to play games or drag anyone through the mud—but who are done taking crap and ready to move on.


If you’re dealing with a litigated divorce and trying to keep it fair, focused, and drama-free, this podcast is your new go-to. You’ll hear from legal pros, therapists, financial experts, and real people in the thick of it. Ksenia also drops unfiltered solo episodes full of straight talk, hard-earned lessons, and a healthy dose of tough love.


Divorce sucks. But you don’t. Let’s get through this with clarity, grit, and a little humor—because thriving after divorce is the real flex.

 人間関係 個人的成功 心理学 心理学・心の健康 社会科学 自己啓発 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • Divorce, Money & Mistakes: What Even the Financially Savvy Get Wrong

    Divorce, Money & Mistakes: What Even the Financially Savvy Get Wrong
    2026/08/04

    Divorce isn’t just an emotional transition—it’s a major financial turning point. In this episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, host Ksenia Muench sits down with Jamie Lima, founder of Secured Split, to unpack the financial mistakes people often make during separation—even those who consider themselves financially savvy.


    Together, they explore the emotional and psychological factors that can influence financial decisions during divorce, often leading to costly oversights. But divorce doesn’t have to mean financial loss. With the right strategy and guidance, it’s possible to protect your assets, make smarter settlement decisions, and even position yourself to grow wealth after divorce.


    The conversation also dives into the growing role of AI and technology in divorce planning—highlighting both the opportunities and potential risks of relying on digital tools during such a complex process.


    Whether you’re navigating a divorce now or simply want to be better prepared, this episode offers practical insights to help you safeguard your financial future, avoid common pitfalls, and move forward with confidence.


    Key Topics Covered:

    • The most common financial mistakes people make during divorce
    • Key financial areas often overlooked in divorce settlements: Investments, Taxes, Retirement accounts
    • How emotions impact financial negotiations and long-term planning
    • Strategies to protect and potentially grow your wealth after divorce
    • The benefits and risks of using AI tools in divorce planning
    • The first steps to take to protect your financial future during divorce
    • How technology will shape the future of divorce financial planning


    “Your attorney is not your therapist. You need a therapist. You need a divorce coach. You need a financial planner. You need a tax person. You need all these people.” - Jamie Lima


    Connect with Jamie Lima:

    Website: https://securesplit.com/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamielima/


    Connect with Ksenia Muench:

    Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/

    Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/

    Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc

    Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com


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    Follow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.


    Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/
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    45 分
  • You're Not Divorcing a Person. You're Divorcing a Terrorist

    You're Not Divorcing a Person. You're Divorcing a Terrorist
    2026/07/28
    On today’s episode of Uncoupled and Unfiltered, I sit down with Stacey Mendelson — a woman who didn't just survive a high-conflict divorce; she reverse-engineered it.Stacey went in blindsided, abused, and completely unprepared for what family court was about to put her through. She came out the other side with primary custody, sole decision-making authority, and a financial settlement that actually secured her future. Now she takes other people's chaos and turns it into strategy.We're going there. The topics nobody wants to touch, the truths nobody tells you when you're in the thick of it, the stuff that actually matters when everything is on the line — and we are not holding back or sugarcoating a single word.Key Topics Covered:Custody assessments in high conflict dynamics — the mistakes moms make that can cost them their children, and what it actually takes to walk in preparedWhat judges really see — not the theory, the realityHow to choose the right attorney for a high conflict case, because the wrong one doesn't just lose your case, they can destroy itThe mediation myth — is it even possible when you're trying to divorce someone who has been terrorizing you?What you must know and do before you file — because the preparation phase is where cases are won and lost before they even beginTo call or not to call the police — the answer is not what you thinkWhat winning actually looks like for the person who is breaking free and building forward“Do not go through a custody assessment without being coached by somebody who really knows this arena, because it is fraught with landmines.” - Stacey MendelsonAbout Our Guest: Stacey MendelsonStacey Mendelson didn't just survive a high-conflict divorce — she reverse-engineered it. She went in blindsided, abused, and completely unprepared for what family court was about to put her through. She came out the other side with primary custody, sole decision-making authority, and a financial settlement that secured her future. Then she turned that hard-won knowledge into a mission.Today, Stacey works with women battling toxic exes and an unforgiving court system — teaching them how to tame abusive behavior, master legal strategy, and stop hemorrhaging money in litigation. She moves women out of survival mode and into control — protecting their children, gaining ground in court, and stepping fully into their strength.She's not here to hold your hand. She's here to arm you with everything you need to win.This Episode Is For You If:You are in or heading into a high-conflict divorce and have no idea what you're actually walking intoYou are in an abusive marriage and don't know how to get out without losing everythingYou've already made mistakes in your custody assessment and need to understand the damageYou feel like the court system is working against you and can't figure out whyYour attorney is costing you a fortune, and you're not sure they're the right fitYou've been told mediation is the answer and something about that doesn't sit rightConnect with Stacey Mendelson:Website: https://www.lifelinecoaching.ca/ Connect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/
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    46 分
  • Laurie Itkin: Spousal Support, Separate Property and the Pain-in-the-Ass Discount

    Laurie Itkin: Spousal Support, Separate Property and the Pain-in-the-Ass Discount
    2026/07/25
    In this episode of Uncoupled & Unfiltered, I'm sitting down with Laurie Itkin — founder of The Options Lady and a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst with over 600 mediated and litigated divorce cases under her belt across California.Laurie is the person you call when the money gets messy. She works as an advocate and strategic partner for one spouse, or as a neutral analyst for both, specializing in complex financial cases involving separate property claims, variable income, and forensic analysis to determine what "fair" really looks like when dividing a marital estate.We're diving into the financial realities most people don't understand until they're living them: proving separate property, why spousal support is one of the biggest divorce battlegrounds, how income gets minimized, and how the real numbers are uncovered to help ensure the outcome is as fair as possible. Because if you've been through a divorce, "fair" probably isn't the first word that comes to mind.Key Topics Covered:What a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst does and why experience mattersHow support numbers are determined: temporary vs. permanent supportSpousal support buyouts, calculations, assumptions, and discountsSeparate property claims, proof, mistakes, and timingInheritance, gifts, and loans, separate or community property?The house decision, challenges of keeping itPrivate judges vs. litigation and mediation“A house can't pay your bills, but a savings account, an investment account, a retirement account, that can pay your bills.” - Laurie ItkinFor more resources and information for those divorcing in California, check out Laurie’s YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/@LaurieItkin Connect with Laurie Itkin:Website: www.TheOptionsLady.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurieitkin/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LaurieItkin About Our Guest: Laurie Itkin, CDFALaurie Itkin is a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst with experience in over 600 mediated and litigated divorce cases across California. She works as an advocate and strategic partner for one spouse or as a joint neutral analyst for both spouses.Laurie specializes in complex financial divorces, helping clients identify, document, and value separate property claims, navigate child and spousal support concerns involving variable income, and understand how divorce decisions can impact their long-term financial future. She also provides financial analysis and forensic accounting support to help clients make informed decisions.Who This Episode Is For: You are in the middle of a divorce and have no idea if the financial picture you're being shown is the real oneYou are figuring out spousal support and trying to determine the fair amount or whether buyout is an optionYou have separate property in the marriage, and you're not sure you can prove it — or protect itYou are trying to decide what to do with the house and everyone around you has an opinion except an honest oneYou hired a financial advisor to help you through your divorce, and you're just now realizing that might not have been the right callConnect with Ksenia Muench:Website: https://www.thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com/ Website: https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thriveagaindivorcecoaching/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kvmuench/ Substack: https://substack.com/@thriveagaindc Email: ksenia@thriveagaindivorcecoaching.com 🎧 Listen, Subscribe & ShareFollow Uncoupled and Unfiltered on Spotify, Prime, and Apple Podcasts for weekly conversations about divorce, relationships, dating, and self-discovery. If this episode resonated, please rate, review, and share to help others find the show.Want to work with Ksenia? The next cohort is forming now- https://www.highconflictplaybook.com/
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    51 分
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