Why do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people?This conversation uncovers the deeper roots behind unhealthy relationship patterns, including attachment wounds, loneliness, emotional hunger, and unresolved pain. Learn how to recognize inconsistency, stop confusing anxiety with chemistry, set healthy boundaries, and choose fruit over potential.Healing begins when your identity is grounded in God’s secure love.

Resentment does not always look like anger. Sometimes it sounds like silence, sarcasm, shutdown, and the words, “I’m fine.”

In this episode, we talk about how resentment can begin with real wounds like betrayal, disappointment, feeling unseen, unsupported, or abandoned — especially when needs go unspoken and pain is rehearsed instead of processed. Over time, resentment can harden the heart, distort how we see others, ourselves, and even God, and become a prison that slowly poisons the person carrying it.

Through personal examples from our marriage and family histories, we unpack the connection between resentment and unforgiveness, and why healing begins with naming the hurt, bringing it into the light, and choosing forgiveness without pretending the wound did not matter.

Christian Dating, Red Flags, Healing, and DiscernmentIn this episode, we talk about the one thing no one tells you about Christian dating: it is not just about finding the right person, but becoming healthy enough to love well.We discuss dating red flags, emotional dependency, purity, boundaries, chemistry, covenant, spiritual maturity, and why marriage cannot heal what you refuse to bring to God.Whether you are single, dating, engaged, or preparing for marriage, this conversation will help you date with wisdom, healing, character, and biblical discernment.

The Truth We Had to Face to Save Our Marriage

Behind the smiles, behind the ministry, behind the dream we were chasing, our marriage was breaking. We were trying to build a life, pursue the American dream, and follow God, but inside our home, we were carrying pain, pressure, misunderstanding, and emotional distance.In this episode, we open up about one of the hardest seasons of our marriage: separating, almost losing each other, and learning how to face the truth instead of running from it. We also share the weight of discovering that our firstborn son would be diagnosed with autism, and how that reality stretched our faith, our marriage, our parenting, and our understanding of God’s grace.This is not just a story about divorce.

It is a story about disappointment, survival, surrender, healing, and what God can do when two broken people stop pretending and start rebuilding.We talk about marriage struggles, autism, parenting, faith, emotional pain, separation, the American dream, and how God met us in the middle of what almost destroyed us.What tried to break us became the place where God began to restore us.

Have you ever found yourself having the same argument over and over again and wondering why nothing ever changes?What if the dishes aren't really about the dishes?In this episode, we explore how many relationship conflicts are rooted in deeper issues such as unmet needs, unresolved wounds, painful experiences, unrealistic expectations, and internal struggles that often go unnoticed. We unpack why surface arguments are often symptoms of something much deeper happening beneath the surface.We share personal stories from our own marriage, including challenges we faced after Hurricane Sandy, seasons of disconnection, communication struggles, resentment, and the process of learning how to understand what was really happening underneath the conflict.Together, we'll discuss:- Why couples often fight about the same issues repeatedly.- How childhood wounds and family history affect present relationships.- The connection between pain, triggers, and emotional reactions.- Why resentment grows when expectations go unspoken.- The difference between being right and being Christlike.- How validation, humility, and healthy communication bring healing.- What it looks like to fight for your relationship instead of against each other.If you've ever felt stuck in recurring arguments, misunderstood by your spouse, or frustrated by patterns that never seem to change, this conversation will help you uncover what you're really fighting about and how to begin healing.

In Part 2 of our conversation on codependency, we talk about what it actually looks like to break free.We share how codependency showed up in our own relationship through trauma bonding, unhealthy attachment, a savior-needy dynamic, and looking to each other to meet needs that only God could truly heal.In this episode, we discuss how to:Name the pattern without shamePut God back in first placeRecognize the difference between love and fearBuild healthy boundariesPractice silence and solitude with GodRebuild your identity in ChristCodependency often creates a false peace, but healing begins when we stop denying the pattern and allow God to restore order in our hearts.Jesus has the final word over your healing, your identity, and your relationships.

What if what you called “love” was actually fear? In this episode of Unbroken with Eddie and Jocelyn, we talk about codependency and how it forms in toxic or familiar family dynamics, and how it shows up as rescuing, people-pleasing, needing constant reassurance, and making others the source of your peace, identity, and healing.

We share personal moments from our own journey, including Jocelyn trying to “love Eddie to health” and Eddie looking for unhealthy father-son security from church leadership.

Codependency can lead to panic, manipulation, shame, indecision, and staying connected to people God may be calling you to release. But true wholeness comes from Christ, not people.

In this episode, we begin the conversation on recognizing codependency and why healthy boundaries are the first step toward freedom.

Welcome to the first episode of Unbroken with Eddie and Jocelyn.In this episode, we introduce ourselves, explain why we started this podcast, and share the heart behind Unbroken: real conversations, real healing, and real hope.We share parts of our personal stories, how we came to faith in Jesus, how God brought us through seasons of pain, and how our healing journey shaped our marriage, ministry, and counseling work.Together, we talk about marriage, family, counseling, temperament, trauma, communication, and why brokenness does not have to be the end of your story.Through Christ, what tried to break you can become the place where God restores you.Scripture Reference:2 Corinthians 4:8–9“We are afflicted in every way, but not crushed; perplexed, but not driven to despair; persecuted, but not forsaken."