If you’re the one who remembers the birthdays, plans the date nights, manages the group chats, and loads the dishwasher (because no one else seems to notice it’s full), this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, Stacey opens up about what happened when she finally stopped doing it all and what she learned about herself, her nervous system, and the stories that keep so many women in midlife over-functioning in their relationships.

If you’ve ever thought, “If I don’t do it, it won’t get done,” this one will hit home.

You’ll hear why it feels so hard to step back (even when you’re exhausted) and how to make small but powerful changes that allow space for support, help, and actual partnership.

Whether you're in a relationship or just realizing how often you take the lead in your life, this episode offers honest reflections and practical tools for letting go of the mental load.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• The hidden belief that keeps women stuck in the “go-to” role

• Three doable ways to shift the dynamic and stop doing it all

• Why letting people show up for you is vulnerable and necessary

• What really happens when you stop filling every gap yourself

Overfunctioning in relationships leads to burnout.

You deserve rest, support, and space.

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