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🌿 Show Notes — The Wonder Land, Episode 125: Edgeless Selfhood

In this episode, Alex and Amanda explore the way identity forms not from what we embrace, but from what we resist. What if the self isn’t a fixed thing, but a series of friction points—moments where we quietly say “no” to reality?

Together we trace the edges of personality as habitual preference, the commentary we mistake for selfhood, and the subtle ways we protest the unfolding of life. Through McKenna’s reminder that “half the time you think you are thinking you are actually listening,” we ask: what if presence, not preference, is who we really are?

✨ Key threads you’ll hear:

• The Self as Resistance — how friction and tension shape identity.

• Edges as Reaction Points — why each “not this, not now, not enough” reinforces boundaries.

• Personality as Habit — commentary mistaken for a stable “I.”

• Edgelessness — what dissolves when we stop insisting on shaping the moment.

• Practices of Dissolving — pausing before labeling, releasing the need to “have a take,” and living into awe.

  
  

At its heart, this is a conversation about becoming edgeless: moving through life not defined by what we push against, but shaped by what we love.

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✨ In This Episode:

Join us as today to find out how we wake up to the futility of echo maintenance and what that means. What is constantly being echoed and chased? What happens when you try to move closer to thought? What else is here all the time that is luminous and alive? We also explore freedom from the abstraction reflex and how the space or presence underlying all activity can be recognized.

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✨ In This Episode:

Alex and Amanda explore the profound simplicity of what it means to be fully connected to the present moment—not as a practice or performance, but as a lived *yes*. This isn't the "right now" that comes with urgency or productivity, nor is it about moral correctness. Instead, it's about the deep, unshakable alignment that arises when we land fully in the moment as it is—free from the stories of our past and the expectations of our future.

This kind of *right, now* doesn’t seek validation. It doesn’t need to be familiar, understood, or secured. It just *is*—a quiet, undeniable signal of completion, a subtle fullness that doesn’t ask for more.

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✨ In This Episode:

Join us for another episode that may sound like bad news, but is actually freedom. Today we explore the attempts to belong, and how the feeling of not belonging is actually deeply intuitive. What is going on when we feel heavy and dense, and what is this unease with a physical form and a reality that seems off? Listen in to find out!

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✨ In This Episode:

Alex and Amanda dive into the seductive promise of The One Thought—the fantasy that a single realization, insight, or answer will finally make us feel whole, happy, or safe. But what happens when even the most profound thoughts can’t quiet the longing?

This episode explores:

• ​ Why we chase completion through clarity
• ​ How imagination and memory fuel wanting
• ​ What opens up when we stop seeking the answer and instead live the question

🌊 This conversation is for you if:

You’re tired of self-help loops, spiritual promises that never land, or the pressure to figure it all out. Come sit with us in the stillness between thoughts.

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Today in The Wonder Land we explore the loom, the weave, the threads, and how much relief and freedom from burden that can arise when we open up to the whole phenomena, rather than threads that seem isolated and out of place. The threads of experience are vast, so what happens when we get tangled with certain threads, and how can we see the whole tapestry more deeply?

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In this episode Alex and Amanda explore how words can move us away from the fullness of experiencing. Naming it may tame it, but feelings are not to be tamed. They are what experience and aliveness are made of.

What is hiding in the depths of the wordless experience of feeling?

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