This episode dives deep into the parts of the journey most men rarely speak about: the silent battles with doubt, the unspoken weight of family expectations, and the complicated relationship with love and vulnerability.

Joined by Cash Lansky, the conversation unfolds with raw honesty, touching on how the fear of appearing weak often keeps men from opening up, even when vulnerability is the key to true healing. Together, they explore the ways love can both mend and magnify wounds when self-love is still a work in progress, and how family can inspire greatness or quietly break a man down without ever saying a word.

Rather than glorifying success or resilience, this dialogue shines a light on the hidden cost of becoming — the emotional toll, the broken relationships, the internal wars fought in silence. It’s a necessary, unfiltered look at what manhood truly demands and the courage it takes to face it all honestly.

This is the journey most men are too scared to speak on — and for once, with Cash Lansky’s voice in the mix, it’s being brought into the light.

What does it take to become a leader when no one ever showed you how?

In this powerful episode of The Wiggle Room, Guild Mortgage President and COO David Neylan shares the raw, untold story behind his leadership: raised by a single mother at 16, abandoned by his father, and shaped by a life that demanded he grow up fast.

David opens up about the grit it took to survive eviction notices on the front door… the quiet strength of a mother who never once bad-mouthed the man who left… and the weight of becoming the dad he never had. From sweeping floors at a karate dojo to leading a national company — this is a story of resilience, humility, and the deep humanity that makes true leadership unforgettable.

What if everything you’re fighting so hard to control is the very thing keeping you stuck?

For years, Sarah Keller did what she thought she was supposed to do—grind, hustle, push forward, no matter how exhausted or unfulfilled she felt. She built a thriving career, but behind the success was a woman quietly losing herself. Then, life handed her an ultimatum: keep gripping or finally let go.

In this raw and powerful conversation, Sarah shares how surrender became her greatest strategy—how walking away from a toxic relationship, unlearning survival mode, and even stepping back from the business she built led to more success, more freedom, and more peace than she ever imagined.

If you’ve ever felt trapped in the life you worked so hard to create, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew about success. Because sometimes, the life you’re meant for is waiting on the other side of surrender.

🎧 Press play and ask yourself: What could you gain by finally letting go?

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