When homeschooling feels overwhelming, discouraging, or just plain exhausting, it’s easy to wonder if you’re failing.

Be assured, you are not failing! Join Ginny and Mary Ellen as they discuss the moments every homeschool parent faces and offer practical, faith-filled ways to regain perspective, reconnect with your children, and rediscover your purpose.

Show Notes:

Homeschooling can feel like a long, discouraging journey. Some days everything clicks—but other days feel flat, frustrating, and unproductive. In this episode, Ginny and Mary Ellen remind us that failure is not what it feels like—and offer simple ways to reset your mindset and restore joy in your homeschool.1. YOU ARE NOT FAILINGIf you are listening to this, you are not failing.If you love your children, you are not failing.If you are trying your best, you are not failing.Homeschooling is hard, and the stakes feel high—but a few difficult days or weeks do not define your journey.2. REMEMBER YOUR PURPOSEThis is the foundation of everything.· You are not homeschooling to impress others· You are homeschooling to lead your children toward heaven· This is a long, eternal journey—don’t judge it by a rough season3. RECONNECT BEFORE YOU CORRECTWhen things feel off, step back and rebuild connection.· Play a board game· Go for a walk· Bake something togetherSometimes the best thing you can do for your homeschool is simply enjoy your children again.4. TAKE A BREAK—ON PURPOSEThe long journey includes rest.· Spend a week focused on enrichment: art, music, reading aloud· Go outside—hike, explore, observe· Visit a friend or take a short tripHomeschooling is not confined to a rigid schedule. The books will still be there.5. SHARE THE LOADHint: You don’t have to do this alone.· Ask your husband for guidance and support· Use a tutor or online class for a difficult subjectRelieving pressure in one area can restore peace everywhere else.6. SEEK CLARITY, NOT ASSUMPTIONSIt’s easy to feel behind—but feelings aren’t facts.· Use a standardized test to see where your children really are· You may find you are doing just fine7. KEEP THINGS IN PERSPECTIVEFinally, remember this:Our modern school system struggles in many ways. You would have to try very hard to do worse than simply loving, guiding, and teaching your children at home.A Final EncouragementThe homeschool journey is not measured in perfect days—it is measured in faithfulness. Stay the course, trust the process, and remember why you began.

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Kathryn struggles with meal planning, house cleaning, and having a chore system. She wants to be more organized. Where does she start?

Today, Ginny and Mary Ellen address Kathryn’s issues and how their simple solutions for her can help you build good housekeeping habits.

Show Notes:

First, forgive yourself.

You were not really trained for this job.

Today’s young moms were raised to:

• Get good grades
• Practice the piano
• Score a goal in soccer.

Don’t make the same mistake with your own children.

• Assign age-appropriate chores to each child.
• Teach them every aspect of running a house.
• Give them confidence in their abilities.

Hint: Share some of the workload with them. It’s a win-win-win!

The long journey begins with one step.

Moms with infants, if you don’t have a reliable bedtime or wake-up time, try this:

Try heading to bed at 10 with 30 minutes to:

• Wash up
• Say your prayers
• Hopefully, you’ll be asleep by 10:30.

Set an alarm for 6:30. If you have a coffee pot with a timer, set it for 6:45.

This is key: get up, say your prayers, and pour your first cup before waking the kids at 7:00.

This may solve more problems than bedtime ever will. If you start school at 9 am, you have two hours to get everyone fed, beds made, dishwasher unloaded, a load of wash started, and the kitchen cleaned up before school.

Set regular tidy times! Use the timer on your phone if necessary.

Take a full hour for lunch.

• If you start at noon, set tidy-up for 12:45.
• Dishes done, move the laundry to the dryer.
• Clean up the toddlers’ toys, and then put them down for naps/quiet time.

Set 30 minutes after school for chores.

• If kids finish their assigned jobs, they can be free earlier.
• Same with after dinner – another 30-minute tidy-up.
• Get the littles ready for bed.

Finally, run the dishwasher – even if it is not full. Sweep, run the vacuum, take out trash.

Save the big jobs – a thorough clean-up for Saturday morning. If the house is generally neat, it is a whole lot easier to mop and dust if everything is already put away.

Here’s a tip: Don’t have time to clean the bathroom? Keep Clorox wipes under the sink. Wipe down the toilet and vanity, and stow the brushes in the drawers.

Remember, in another age, kids were caring for gardens and farm animals at very young ages.

HOMESCHOOL ASSIGNMENT! Among the best of American children’s literature are the "Little House” books by Laura Ingalls Wilder. You can meet Laura, the little girl who would grow up to write the Little House books, here. Our kids need to know what they are capable of. Sacrificing for the family should not be limited to historical fiction.

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Ginny started homeschooling 40 years ago to protect her children’s innocence. Sadly, the world has only gotten worse, and kids are exposed to minefields of inappropriate stuff.

Over the years, Ginny has learned volumes. With those lessons learned, today, she and Mary Ellen discuss seven rules on how to navigate through it all.

They start with what younger kids can handle.

1. YOU, the parent, are the best judge of your child’s maturity level

• Not your friends and neighbors
• Not relatives who only see your children on holidays
• Not total strangers on social media
• You can, and should, tailor information based on maturity level.

2. Ask a question before you answer one to determine the maturity level

You may not entirely understand what your child wants to know.

Asking a question helps you give age-appropriate answers.

3. Strictly limit internet access

• More and more kids need phones, but they don’t need smartphones.
• Nip the habit of sitting behind a screen.
• Let them go outside and play.
• There’s just too much information, bad and good.
• Don’t let the online world substitute for you.

4. Encourage prayer

• When kids are too young to understand, an answer can always be, “Let’s pray for them.”
• If you say family prayers together, remember to include these intentions.

5. Don’t kid yourself!

Be prepared, there comes a time when they are simply going to be exposed, from scouts, sports teams, or cousins, to events that are complex and difficult to explain.

6. Start the habit of daily dinner time conversation

Younger years are when to start with some prompts:

• Three things you are grateful for.
• A person you helped today.
• What would you change about…

As they enter their teen years, your children will have developed the habit of discussing things with you and within the family. So how do we address a world we sometimes struggle to understand?

7. Faith First

The most important thing we can do when dealing with events and ideas is to apply Scripture and Church teaching to them. “This is wrong because Our Lord said….” or “Catholics have always supported this…”

Finally, Teach the Faith Everyday

This podcast is sponsored by Seton Home Study, a program that both Ginny and Mary Ellen have used with great success. If you aren’t using Seton, may we urge you to prayerfully reconsider using this thoroughly Catholic program –one where the Faith is integrated into literature, history and science. Your children need strong Faith formation to understand and navigate this crazy world.

Homeschooling Resources

Seton Catalog - Free

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