In this episode, I’m the guest on the Out of Step Podcast with my friend and coach Andrew Carruthers , and we go deep on something I know so many of you hairstylists and salon owners feel but rarely talk about: the invisible boxes we build around ourselves, and what it actually costs us to stay inside them.

We talk about what happened in 2020 when everything that I thought made me “Me” was suddenly taken away — and what I found when I finally had to just sit with myself. We talk about the wild shift from being behind the chair (where validation comes in constant, beautiful waves) to coaching, content, and the long, quiet wait for it to all mean something.

And we talk about the journey I’ve been on this past year of asking: what am I actually here to do? Not what sounds clean in an Instagram bio. Not what the marketing experts told me to say. What’s actually true for me — and what happens when I finally give myself permission to live there.

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If you've been feeling like you're doing all the right things — taking the courses, going to the shows, following the educators — and still feel like something's missing, this episode is for you.

Misty is talking directly to the stylist or salon owner who has already built something worth loving, but finds themselves buried under everyone else's opinions about how to grow it. The problem isn't that you need more strategy. The problem is you have too many voices in your head and not enough quiet to hear your own.

In this episode, Misty breaks down:

• Why the growth-obsessed, relationship-oriented stylist is burnt out in a different way than the industry usually talks about
• How constant consumption of education creates a false sense of productivity — without anything actually changing
• What you actually need more of (hint: it's not another podcast)
• Why connection with other ambitious women in the industry might be the most underrated tool for your growth
• The announcement of something Misty has been dreaming up for years — an intimate retreat in Costa Rica, spring 2027, for the stylists who are done pretending they need another keynote speaker

This one's for the stylists who already know a lot — and are finally ready to trust what they know.

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If you've been wondering whether your AI use is helping or quietly hurting your business — this episode is the one you didn't know you needed.

Misty sits down with her longtime friend, branding and marketing educator Jodie Brown, for a candid, no-shame conversation about how we're using AI tools like ChatGPT and Claude — and what we might be losing in the process. Jodie is a 15-year hairstylist-turned-online-business-owner who now works with beauty educators and creative entrepreneurs on branding, content strategy, and finding clients without chasing virality. She is a fundamentals girly — and this conversation reflects that.

Listen to Jodie's Why you should stop using AI to edit your content Episode on Sought After Educator podcast.

They talk about the real reason AI content feels flat (hint: it's not just the words), why outsourcing your ideas is literally atrophying your creative muscle, and the specific ways AI use can turn a creation process into a consumption process. They also get honest about where AI is actually useful — and where it's just expensive procrastination.

This isn't an anti-AI episode. Misty uses Claude to edit podcast descriptions, pull clips, and organize voice note brain dumps. Jodie has AI tutorials inside her own program. But both of them agree: there's a version of AI use that is genuinely helpful, and a version that is quietly eroding your brand, your trust, and your creativity.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why AI-generated content is flattening brand voices across the beauty industry — and why your clients notice
• The "intern analogy" for understanding what AI actually is (and isn't)
• What Misty realized when she stopped using AI to generate her own ideas — and what came back
• The difference between a creation process and a consumption process (and which one AI can trigger)
• Why Jodie calls over-reliance on AI "the new procrastination busy work"
• The ethical line when it comes to using AI for knowledge you don't actually have
• Real, practical use cases for AI that DON'T flatten your voice
• Why your opinion, your perspective, and your lived experience are non-negotiable in 2026
• The "show me instead of telling me" prompt that Jodie uses to unlock new creative angles
• Why Misty believes the real message is: stop outsourcing the human experience

Find Jodie Brown:

• Instagram: @‌itsjodiebrown
• Podcast for hairstylists: Hairstylist Rising
• Podcast for educators + coaches: Sought After Educator

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