In this episode, I’m the guest on the Out of Step Podcast with my friend and coach Andrew Carruthers , and we go deep on something I know so many of you hairstylists and salon owners feel but rarely talk about: the invisible boxes we build around ourselves, and what it actually costs us to stay inside them.

We talk about what happened in 2020 when everything that I thought made me “Me” was suddenly taken away — and what I found when I finally had to just sit with myself. We talk about the wild shift from being behind the chair (where validation comes in constant, beautiful waves) to coaching, content, and the long, quiet wait for it to all mean something.

And we talk about the journey I’ve been on this past year of asking: what am I actually here to do? Not what sounds clean in an Instagram bio. Not what the marketing experts told me to say. What’s actually true for me — and what happens when I finally give myself permission to live there.

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If you've been feeling like you're doing all the right things — taking the courses, going to the shows, following the educators — and still feel like something's missing, this episode is for you.

Misty is talking directly to the stylist or salon owner who has already built something worth loving, but finds themselves buried under everyone else's opinions about how to grow it. The problem isn't that you need more strategy. The problem is you have too many voices in your head and not enough quiet to hear your own.

In this episode, Misty breaks down:

• Why the growth-obsessed, relationship-oriented stylist is burnt out in a different way than the industry usually talks about
• How constant consumption of education creates a false sense of productivity — without anything actually changing
• What you actually need more of (hint: it's not another podcast)
• Why connection with other ambitious women in the industry might be the most underrated tool for your growth
• The announcement of something Misty has been dreaming up for years — an intimate retreat in Costa Rica, spring 2027, for the stylists who are done pretending they need another keynote speaker

This one's for the stylists who already know a lot — and are finally ready to trust what they know.

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If you've been wondering whether your AI use is helping or quietly hurting your business — this episode is the one you didn't know you needed.

Misty sits down with her longtime friend, branding and marketing educator Jodie Brown, for a candid, no-shame conversation about how we're using AI tools like ChatGPT and Claude — and what we might be losing in the process. Jodie is a 15-year hairstylist-turned-online-business-owner who now works with beauty educators and creative entrepreneurs on branding, content strategy, and finding clients without chasing virality. She is a fundamentals girly — and this conversation reflects that.

Listen to Jodie's Why you should stop using AI to edit your content Episode on Sought After Educator podcast.

They talk about the real reason AI content feels flat (hint: it's not just the words), why outsourcing your ideas is literally atrophying your creative muscle, and the specific ways AI use can turn a creation process into a consumption process. They also get honest about where AI is actually useful — and where it's just expensive procrastination.

This isn't an anti-AI episode. Misty uses Claude to edit podcast descriptions, pull clips, and organize voice note brain dumps. Jodie has AI tutorials inside her own program. But both of them agree: there's a version of AI use that is genuinely helpful, and a version that is quietly eroding your brand, your trust, and your creativity.

In this episode, you'll hear:

• Why AI-generated content is flattening brand voices across the beauty industry — and why your clients notice
• The "intern analogy" for understanding what AI actually is (and isn't)
• What Misty realized when she stopped using AI to generate her own ideas — and what came back
• The difference between a creation process and a consumption process (and which one AI can trigger)
• Why Jodie calls over-reliance on AI "the new procrastination busy work"
• The ethical line when it comes to using AI for knowledge you don't actually have
• Real, practical use cases for AI that DON'T flatten your voice
• Why your opinion, your perspective, and your lived experience are non-negotiable in 2026
• The "show me instead of telling me" prompt that Jodie uses to unlock new creative angles
• Why Misty believes the real message is: stop outsourcing the human experience

Find Jodie Brown:

• Instagram: @‌itsjodiebrown
• Podcast for hairstylists: Hairstylist Rising
• Podcast for educators + coaches: Sought After Educator

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In this solo episode, Misty gets honest about the one thing that separates the burnt-out in-demand stylist from the happy, peaceful, in-demand stylist: the inner work that happens before you ever walk through the salon door.

This isn’t about a new booking system or a price increase strategy. This is about YOU. Because the calm atmosphere, the clear communication, the client retention, the boundaries that hold — none of it starts at your station. It starts with who you are outside of it.

Misty breaks down the five habits that thriving stylists practice every single day, and why these skills aren’t salon skills at all — they’re life skills that bleed into your business in the most powerful way.

• Why hairstylists are the center of their communities — and why that makes your personal growth a ripple effect that goes far beyond the chair
• The 5 things happy, peaceful, in-demand stylists do differently (and how to build each one)
• Why clear communication is a self-development skill first — not a salon skill
• How carrying a calm, regulated energy directly affects your clients’ experience and your retention
• Why your boundaries are a self-worth issue, not a business issue
• What it really means to be present behind the chair — and how to clear the mental and emotional ‘mess’ that gets in the way
• How creating a safe space for clients starts with your own inner security — and a real story of owning a mistake that built unshakeable client trust

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In this raw and honest episode, Misty breaks down the dark side of self-awareness that nobody talks about: how awareness without action stops being a growth tool and starts becoming your identity. If you've ever caught yourself saying "I know I need to raise my prices," "I know I need to set boundaries," "I know I need to look at my numbers" — and then done absolutely nothing about it — this episode is for you.

Misty walks you through the three-step shift from awareness → acceptance → choice, and why skipping the middle step is exactly why you're spinning in the same patterns year after year.

In this episode you'll hear:

1. Why "awareness is everything" is actually incomplete advice
2. How self-awareness becomes a comfort zone disguised as growth
3. The difference between awareness and actual identity change
4. Real examples from salon life: pricing, boundaries, and money mindset
5. The one question you need to stop asking — and the one you need to start asking
6. A simple first step you can take TODAY to break out of the identity you've built around your stuck points

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Do you ever feel lonely — not the "I'm home alone" kind of loneliness, but the deeper kind? The kind where you're surrounded by people but can't find anyone who gets your ambitions, your struggles, or your desire to grow?

In this episode, Misty Jayne gets real about the funk she found herself in last year — and what she did to pull herself out of it. Whether you're a hairstylist in a suite feeling isolated, a salon owner craving deeper conversations, or a beauty professional who's ready to stop scrolling and start connecting, this episode is for you.

Misty shares:

1. Why hairstylists and salon owners are especially vulnerable to a unique kind of loneliness
2. How she went from struggling in silence to flying across the country solo to a retreat — and finding her business besties
3. The birth of The Messy Meetup, her intimate monthly digital community built for deep, real conversations
4. Why social media creates a false sense of connection (and what to do instead)
5. How to stop waiting for your people and start creating the rooms where they gather
6. Why you don't need a big budget or a big platform to build community — just a bat signal

If you're a hairstylist or salon owner who's into personal development, building a thriving beauty business, and showing up as your fullest self, this episode will light a fire under you.

What happens when the business blueprint isn’t enough? In this raw and honest conversation, Misty Jayne sits down with seven-figure entrepreneur, published author, and salon owner Kelly Cahen to talk about the pivot that changes everything — not just in your business, but in how you see yourself.

Kelly built two thriving hair salons and spent years coaching other salon owners on systems, financials, and management. But she kept hitting the same wall: her clients had all the tools and still weren’t moving. Why? Because the real entry point to business success isn’t strategy — it’s self-leadership. It’s knowing who you are, what you stand for, and what you’re no longer willing to tolerate.

If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who’s been doing all the things but still feels stuck, afraid to raise your prices, terrified to lose clients or team members, or quietly wondering if this is really what you want — this episode is your mirror.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

1. Why salon owners know exactly what to do — and still don’t do it (hint: it’s not a strategy problem)
2. The "Who the f*ck are you?" moment that reframed everything for Kelly
3. How fear of losing clients and team members keeps hairstylists stuck in their own way
4. Why pivoting your business identity feels like losing yourself — and how to do it anyway
5. The difference between awareness, acceptance, and actually making a decision
6. What self-leadership really means for women who wear too many hats
7. How to stop over-explaining, stop seeking approval, and start making choices for you
8. The friendship audit every woman in the beauty industry needs to take
9. Why the stories we create about other people’s opinions are keeping us small
10. Misty’s personal journey of stepping away from alcohol, identity shifts, and learning to experiment without commitment

Perfect for: Hairstylists, salon owners, beauty entrepreneurs, and any woman in the service industry who is ready to stop people-pleasing and start building a life that actually feels like hers.

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If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner who loves personal development, this episode might feel like a little bit of a wake-up call.

In this episode , Misty is sharing the perspective that took her years to understand: personal growth isn’t about controlling everything. It’s about learning how to respond differently when they show up.