Why is it so hard to have a calm, productive conversation these days? In this insightful episode, Dr. Amelia Kelley sits down with communication strategist and TEDx speaker Greg Singleton to unpack why meaningful dialogue has become such a challenge and how we can bridge the growing divide in our relationships, communities, and workplaces.

Greg shares a powerful framework for understanding the three types of conversations we all engage in: emotional, social, and practical, and how confusing them can quickly turn connection into conflict. He and Dr. Kelley explore how ego, emotional reactivity, and lack of self-awareness derail communication, and what it really takes to listen without judgment, speak with empathy, and repair trust even when you disagree.

Whether you’re navigating tense political discussions, family disagreements, or workplace friction, this episode offers grounded tools to help you stay centered, curious, and connected even when things get heated.

Key Takeaways:

• “You can’t influence anyone you’re not willing to connect with.”
• Emotional awareness helps you recognize whether a conversation is emotional, social, or practical and respond accordingly.
• Curiosity disarms defensiveness and opens the door to understanding.
• Accountability and empathy are essential for rebuilding communication in relationships and society.
• Healthy dialogue doesn’t mean agreement, it means mutual respect.

• Watch Greg's TEDx Talk here: Unlocking Generational Communication
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In this heartfelt episode of The Sensitivity Doctor Podcast, Dr. Amelia Kelley is joined by physician and author Dr. Amna Shabbir for an honest and empowering conversation about perfectionism, what fuels it, how it shows up, and how to finally release its grip. Drawing from her personal journey through burnout, postpartum depression, and self-criticism, Dr. Amna shares how perfectionism often begins as a survival strategy and becomes a silent driver of stress, shame, and exhaustion.

Together, they explore how cultural expectations, early experiences, and identity all shape our relationship with perfectionism, and how healing starts when we allow ourselves to be fully human, flaws, limits, and all. This conversation is a compassionate reminder that you can still be ambitious, driven, and successful without being perfect.

Key Takeaways

• Perfectionism is not a personality trait, it is a survival mechanism that begins with our need to belong.
• The body often mirrors emotional pressure, and stress, guilt, and unworthiness can show up physically.
• Being excellent and being perfect are not the same; one fuels growth, the other drains it.
• We can unlearn perfectionism through self-compassion, awareness, and radical humanity.
• Asking for help or setting boundaries does not make you less capable, it makes you more whole.

Resources & Mentions

• Learn more about Dr. Amna Shabbir: https://www.dramnashabbir.com/
• Listen to her podcast: Success Reimagined with Amna Shabbir, MD -
• Join the Unmasking Perfectionism community: https://www.dramnashabbir.com/perfectionism
• Watch her TEDx talk here: Perfectionism has a solution - It's not what you think - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oNIzzM4Vg3s

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In this thought-provoking conversation, Dr. Amelia Kelley sits down with author, activist, and artist Jacob Tobia to challenge everything we think we know about masculinity. Jacob, known for their fearless writing and advocacy, dives into the myths that keep men trapped in cycles of silence, loneliness, and pain, and how both feminism and patriarchy have played a part in this misunderstanding.

Together, Amelia and Jacob explore why most men aren’t beneficiaries of patriarchy but co-survivors of it, how cultural conditioning disconnects men from their emotions, and what happens when we start seeing gender as a choice, not a cage. They unpack why the term “toxic masculinity” has lost its power, the loneliness epidemic facing men today, and how healing masculinity could actually heal us all.

This is a powerful and compassionate dialogue that bridges divides, offering a new path toward empathy, dignity, and freedom for all genders.

Key Takeaways:

• Masculinity isn’t inherently toxic; it becomes harmful when it’s forced, not chosen.
• Most men are co-survivors of patriarchy, shaped by systems that teach them to suppress emotion and vulnerability.
• The term “toxic masculinity” may be doing more harm than good, reinforcing shame rather than healing.
• There’s a rising loneliness crisis among men, with millions reporting having no close friends or safe spaces for emotional honesty.
• True equality requires empathy. We can’t free non-binary or feminine people without freeing boys and men from emotional repression.

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