This week's question comes from a protective mom navigating one of the most heartbreaking and misunderstood situations in family court.

Her teenage daughter refuses to go to her dad's house. She's crying, begging not to go, and sometimes won't even get out of the car. She's too old to physically carry, and her mom doesn't want to force her in a way that could be traumatic. At the same time, she's terrified that if she doesn't somehow "make her go," the court will accuse her of alienation or violating the parenting plan.

What is a protective parent supposed to do in a situation like this?

In this Friday Coaching Corner, we explore the difference between facilitating parenting time and forcing a child, why that distinction matters, and how to navigate these impossible moments in a way that supports your child while making reasonable efforts to follow court orders.

I answer the questions:

• What should I actually do when my teen refuses to get out of the car for parenting time?
• Where is the line between encouraging my child and forcing them?
• How can I show the court that I am supporting parenting time without traumatizing my child or appearing to alienate?

Whether you're living this situation now or simply wondering how you would respond if it happened, this episode offers practical guidance, a trauma-informed perspective, and a mindset shift that can help you navigate one of the most difficult parenting dilemmas protective parents face.

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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not legal advice, mental health treatment, or a substitute for advice from professionals familiar with your specific situation. Every parenting plan and court order is different. If you have questions about your legal obligations or your child's safety, consult with a qualified attorney and other professionals knowledgeable about coercive control and family court dynamics.

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Back-to-school season often brings more than new teachers, new classmates, and new routines.

For many protective parents, it also marks the beginning of a new round of smear campaigns.

Whether it's with teachers, other parents, coaches, family members, or professionals involved in your case, someone who uses coercive control often looks for opportunities to shape the narrative before you have a chance to tell your own story.

The result? Anxiety. Isolation. Self-doubt. And the overwhelming urge to defend yourself.

But what if your greatest strength isn't convincing everyone you're telling the truth?

What if it's learning to stay grounded in your values while allowing your consistency to speak louder than their accusations?

In this episode, we explore practical mindset shifts that can help you respond differently to smear campaigns while protecting both your peace and your credibility.

In this episode, we answer:

• How do I stop a smear campaign from taking over my thoughts and emotions?
• When should I respond to false accusations—and when is it better not to?
• How can I protect my credibility without constantly defending myself?

If you've ever found yourself replaying conversations, worrying about what other people think, or wondering how to protect your reputation without losing yourself in the process, this episode is for you.

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Artificial intelligence is everywhere, including family court.

More and more protective parents are telling me that their ex has suddenly started sending perfectly written messages, using AI to draft legal documents, or threatening to subpoena their ChatGPT conversations.

It's understandable to feel intimidated.

But does AI actually give an abusive person more power?

Or is it simply another tool that can be used well—or misused?

In this episode, I'm joined by divorce coach and author Rina Rosewell to unpack the growing role of AI in coercive control, post-separation abuse, and family court. We discuss both the opportunities and the limitations of AI, along with practical ways survivors can use it without becoming dependent on it.

In this episode, we answer:

• Should I be worried if my ex suddenly starts using AI to write messages or court documents?
• Can AI actually help me communicate, organize my case, and reduce the emotional toll of post-separation abuse?
• What are the limitations of AI, and why shouldn't it replace the support of safe, trusted people in your healing?

Whether you're curious about AI, already using it, or feeling anxious because your ex has discovered it, this conversation will help you separate fear from facts and use this technology in ways that support—not replace—your healing.

About Rina: Rina Rosewell is a CDC Certified Divorce Coach, High-Conflict Coach, and Amazon bestselling author of AI ARMOR: Your Digital Defense Solution for Coparenting with a Narcissist. She helps post-separation abuse survivors use AI strategically to communicate, document, and protect themselves when their ex weaponizes every interaction.

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