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  • Do Michael and I ever fight? What are my religious beliefs? How do I manage toddler tantrums? + more (a fun Q&A!)
    2025/07/08

    In this solo episode, I sat down in the studio and answered your most asked (and juiciest) questions — completely unfiltered. We covered it all: from whether Michael and I ever fight and how we actually handle disagreements to how we’re navigating toddler tantrums, sibling jealousy, and Milo’s transition to a big boy bed. I opened up about my religious upbringing, my personal beliefs today, and how Michael and I are incorporating religion and spirituality into raising our kids. Plus I talk about self-pleasure, managing screen addiction, letting go of control as a parent, my iPhone camera settings, and whether or not Milo and Coco get paid when they appear in my content. This episode is packed with honest reflections, funny stories, and hopefully some helpful takeaways for anyone in the thick of work, parenting, or just life in general.


    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod



    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    44 分
  • An intimate phone call with my dad (why he waited 16 years to have kids)
    2025/07/01

    In this episode, I’m kicking off a new mini-series I’m calling Don’t Hang Up, where I pick up the phone and call people in my real life (begging them not to hang up!) while I ask them deeply personal questions.


    For the first installment, I called my dad, Jimmy. I’ve always wondered how he feels about the fact that he and my mom waited 16 years after getting married to have kids. He was on such a different timeline than the one I’m on, and I wanted to hear directly from him what those years were like, what they were thinking, and how he feels about that choice now, in his 70s, as a grandfather.


    We talked about everything from their Studio 54 days, to aging, regrets, and what it means to be present as a parent and a grandparent. It’s a conversation I’ll never forget, and I’m so excited to share it with you.


    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod



    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    19 分
  • How To Raise Happier Kids AND Be Less Stressed Doing It (Dr. Laurie Santos)
    2025/06/24

    I was so honored to sit down with Dr. Laurie Santos for today’s episode — not just because she’s a Yale psychology professor and the host of one of my favorite podcasts (The Happiness Lab), but because I genuinely credit her course, The Science of Well-Being, with helping me shift my mindset in the thick of the pandemic. Back in 2020, I took her free online course through Yale University, and now, she’s created a version of that course specifically for parents, which made our conversation feel especially timely.


    As a mom of two young kids trying to balance full-time work and all the emotional noise of modern parenting, I showed up to this interview with a lot of questions. We talked about why so many of us feel like we’re drowning in decision fatigue, how to step away from the pressure of being a “perfect” parent, and what the science actually says about raising happy, healthy kids.


    Dr. Santos shared so many practical tools, like how to use your signature strengths in parenting, how to embrace unstructured play and independence, and why doing LESS might be the key to everyone in your family feeling better. We also talked about how to “parent yourself” with more compassion, how to show up better for your partner, and what we can learn from other cultures that seem to be doing this whole parenting thing with a bit more ease.


    Whether you’re in the thick of toddlerhood or not a parent at all, this one’s for everyone who feels like they’re trying to do it all and are finally ready to let go.


    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod



    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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  • The girl who catfished me finally came clean (my thoughts on Internet storytelling)
    2025/06/17

    Today, I’m sharing the jaw-dropping update to the catfish story I first told on the podcast which recently resurfaced as a viral video series across my social platforms. In this solo episode, I reveals the unexpected twist — an email from the girl who faked her own death and ghosted me for five years. I walk through the production of my 13-part storytelling series, reflect on monetization and meaning as a content creator, and read the real emails exchanged behind the scenes. (Including the follow-up emails she sent me that I never read aloud on social.)


    This episode is about truth, closure, boundaries, and what it means to turn something painful into something powerful. Plus: how I turned the story into a fundraising campaign for cancer research and the internet’s mixed reactions along the way.


    To listen to the full story of how I was catfished, listen to this episode: https://youtu.be/hJ_GV5oWjM4


    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod



    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    45 分
  • "My Family Had a Big Secret — Until I Wrote a Book About It."
    2025/06/10

    Alreen Haeggquist is a successful attorney and author who’s made it her life’s mission to advocate for women — but her journey to becoming that woman is one of the most harrowing stories we’ve ever heard.


    In this raw and deeply emotional conversation, Alreen shares her experience of being abused by her father (both emotionally and sexually), the silence that surrounded it within her large family, and the lifelong impact of her mother’s silence. For decades, Alreen kept her story a secret…until the day she decided to write it all down.


    We talk about the trauma of secrecy, the physical toll of unspoken pain, how becoming a mother changed everything for her, and what healing actually looks like. Today, as a sexual harassment lawyer, Alreen helps others reclaim their voices, even as she continues to find hers.


    If you’ve ever questioned whether speaking out is worth the cost, this episode might just change your life.


    TRIGGER WARNING: This episode contains discussions of sexual abuse and childhood trauma.


    Purchase Alreen's book, "Fired Up: Fueling Triumph from Trauma: https://amzn.to/3Hs3DgL


    For more information & to contact Alreen, visit her website: https://www.alreen.com


    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod



    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    56 分
  • Daniela Legarda on gaining millions of followers after tragedy struck (The Legarda Legacy)
    2025/06/03

    In this emotional and empowering episode of The Real Stuff, I sit down with content creator, singer, and entrepreneur Daniela Legarda for a raw conversation about fame, family, and healing after unimaginable loss. Daniela opens up about the tragic and sudden death of her brother, Latin music artist Fabio Legarda, and how that moment changed the course of her life forever.


    From building a multi-million following online to navigating the pressures of being a Latina influencer, Daniela shares what it’s really like to grieve in public, find spiritual meaning in signs from beyond, and reclaim your voice after trauma. She also talks about money, mental health, being sexualized online, and what it means to create content with purpose.


    Whether you’re a fan of Daniela Legarda or looking for inspiration on turning pain into purpose, this episode is filled with heart, hustle, and healing.


    Follow Daniela:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danielalegarda/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@danielalegardaoficial


    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod



    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    59 分
  • “I wasn’t infertile. I was being gaslit.” (Divorced at age 26)
    2025/05/27

    At 26 years old, this audience caller thought she was building a life — trying for a baby, working for her husband’s family business, and living in their shared home. But everything was a lie. In this anonymous caller episode, Lucie hears one of the most jaw-dropping divorce stories yet: a young woman tricked into thinking she was infertile while her husband was secretly preventing pregnancy for nearly a year. After losing her job, her house, her marriage, and even her dog, she found herself forced to rebuild from scratch. What follows is a raw, emotional, and ultimately empowering story about betrayal, resilience, and how rock bottom can sometimes be the start of everything.


    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod


    Find Lucie here:


    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/


    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink


    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink


    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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  • “I built a hit podcast…and then my co-host stole it.” (Emma Paige talks “Unhinged”)
    2025/05/20

    In this explosive episode of The Real Stuff, Emma Paige finally shares more about her side of the podcast drama that has taken over TikTok, Instagram, and the podcasting world. As the co-founder of the hit podcast Unhinged, Emma opens up about how the show began, the rapid rise in popularity, and the shocking moment she was locked out, ghosted, and ultimately erased from her own platform.


    What started as a promising creative partnership turned into a public breakup filled with legal battles, emotional tolls, and questions about ownership, fairness, and the cost of internet fame. Emma takes us behind the scenes of her fallout with her former co-host, the controversial launch of Unbothered, and what she’s learned along the way about business, boundaries, and betrayal.


    She reflects on launching her new podcast Too Much, the strength it took to rebuild from scratch, and why she believes it’s so important to speak out — not just for herself, but for other creators navigating similar conflicts in today’s fast-paced digital landscape.


    If you’ve been following this podcast drama or are curious about what really happens behind the scenes of a viral business feud, you do not want to miss this raw and revealing conversation.


    Follow Emma:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lifeofemmapaige/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lifeofemmapaige

    Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/too-much/id1791347406


    Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX


    To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.


    I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.


    Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod


    Find Lucie here:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink

    Website: https://luciefink.com/


    Executive Producer: Cloud10

    Produced by Dear Media.

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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    1 時間 11 分