When you start evolving, some friendships simply can’t come with you…and that hurts. In this episode, Ms. Shanita explores why growth often comes with grief, especially when it means losing people you once thought were permanent. Are they really changing… or are you finally seeing them clearly?

Tune in for a raw, unfiltered take on friendship breakups, outgrowing old bonds, and protecting your peace at all costs.

Segment Breakdown

• Intro: 0:00–1:30

• Opening Message: 1:30–3:30

• Main Body: 3:30–9:30

• Break (Reflect & Reset): 9:30–10:00

• Final Thoughts: 10:00–12:00

• Closing Remarks to Victims & Victimizers: 12:00–13:30

• Outro Tagline: 13:30–14:00

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🧠 Remember:

“I don’t chase closure, I choose clarity.”

This is The Real Era. And we’re just getting started.

She didn’t fall off , she found her flow.

But let’s be real: somewhere between healing and unplugging, some of us got way too comfortable. In this episode of The Real Era with Ms. Shanita: Unfiltered, we’re talking about how to embrace your soft era without losing your fire, your focus, or your future.

Because softness isn’t the problem, lack of structure is.

We’re breaking down the difference between rest and retreat, ease and avoidance, and how to stay aligned without abandoning your purpose.

⏱️ Segment Breakdown:

🎙️ Segment 1 – The Soft Era Confusion (0:30–2:30)

“Softness without structure? Will have you falling asleep on your own future.”

🎙️ Segment 2 – You’re Allowed to Rest, But Not to Retreat (2:30–4:30)

“You can light a candle and still close a deal.”

🎙️ Break Cue (4:30–5:00)

Quick pause with music to reflect

🎙️ Segment 3 – My Shift: What Softness Really Means (5:00–7:30)

“Is this softness or self-sabotage? Is this rest… or resistance?”

🎙️ Final Word (7:30–8:30)

“Protect your peace, but protect your purpose too.”

🎙️ Outro (8:30–End)

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Healing isn’t real if you’re still chasing who broke you.

🎙️ The difference between healing and performing strength

🎙️ Why the pursuit of validation keeps you stuck

🎙️ Questions to ask yourself when you say “I’m healed”

This is the episode for anyone tired of pretending to be okay while still checking their phone.

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You don’t need closure to move on, you need clarity.

🎙️ Why closure is often a trap for self-delusion

🎙️ How clarity frees you from emotional loops

🎙️ Ways to move without the apology you expected

This episode is a soft but solid call to stop chasing answers, and start choosing peace.

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Welcome to The Real Era with Ms. Shanita: Unfiltered. This is the space where truth meets healing — raw, honest, and without apology.

In this powerful opening episode, I’m introducing the mission behind this movement, the voice behind the mic (me!), and the audience I built this for: the ones who are done chasing closure and ready to choose clarity instead.

This isn’t therapy — but it might just feel like it!

🔍 Segment Breakdown:

00:00 – 00:25 — 🎶 Intro music & tone-setting

00:26 – 01:15 — My story: Who I am and why this podcast exists

01:16 – 02:00 — What this podcast isn’t (perfection, performance, playing small)

02:01 – 03:00 — Who this space is for (the bold, the healing, the done-settling crowd)

03:01 – 04:15 — What to expect: real talk on love, clarity, calling, and survival

04:16 – End — 🎧 Outro: the signature pledge + final words to listeners

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