How often are you the person getting in your own fucking way?

You say you want the thing.

More money. A better business. More confidence. More experiences. A bigger life.

Then, somehow, you find yourself doing everything except the thing that might actually get you there.

I’ve realised I’ve done this for years.

And the weirdest part? Sometimes it looked like I was being productive.

Planning. Designing. Learning. Changing ideas. Getting ready.

When really, I was hiding.

In this episode, I talk about why we cockblock our own success, what we might actually be getting from avoiding the scary stuff, and the slightly uncomfortable realisation that self-awareness means fuck all if we never do anything with it.

Because maybe you don’t need to stop having the thought.

Maybe you just need to stop automatically obeying it.

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What if constantly checking whether you’ve changed is actually getting in the way of changing?

In this episode, I talk about self-awareness becoming self-criticism, why uncomfortable feelings don’t always need fixing, and why progress might not mean never feeling anxious, scared or doubtful again.

Sometimes the change is simply in what you do when it shows up.

Maybe you don’t need to keep pulling the plant out of the soil to check whether it’s growing.

Give yourself a minute mate.

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I’ve always thought confidence came before the scary thing.

Turns out, most of mine came afterwards.

This week I’m talking about the things we keep putting in the “one day” pile, the quiet ways we wait for permission without realising it, and the difference between what you’re waiting for and what you actually need.

Maybe you don’t need to feel more ready.

Maybe you just need to make the next move.

Much love ❤️

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