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The Nature of Pleasure

The Nature of Pleasure

著者： Nicole Siegel
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 You’ve read the books. You’ve done the jade egg. You’ve tried every sex workshop this side of Bali. You know your attachment style and your rising sign. And yet… You’re still wondering if you’re doing sex wrong—or if everyone else is just faking it better. You’re not sure if you’re broken—or if sex is just broken in this culture. Still googling “low libido” at 2am. Still waiting for your sex drive to catch up to your healing. The Nature of Pleasure is your antidote to the fluff. It’s the real talk your nervous system’s been waiting for—equal parts sensuality, science, and side-eye. This podcast isn’t here to fix you. It’s here to show you that your body isn’t the problem. From bonobos to burnout, from forest floor to bedroom floor, we explore how pleasure actually works—biologically, emotionally, erotically, ecologically—and why so many of us are still trying to earn what we were born to feel. It’s smart. It’s grounded. It’s just woo enough to make your past self from three retreats ago raise an eyebrow. The Nature of Pleasure is the sex ed you need when embodiment becomes another performance. Let’s stop performing and start listening—because your body’s been speaking this whole damn time.2025-2035 Nature of Pleasure Podcast スピリチュアリティ 人間関係 社会科学 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • SPECIAL BONUS EPISODE: Erotic Archetypes Do Not Exist (Why You’re Not a Type—You’re a Whole Goddamn Ecosystem)

    SPECIAL BONUS EPISODE: Erotic Archetypes Do Not Exist (Why You’re Not a Type—You’re a Whole Goddamn Ecosystem)
    2025/09/26
    You’ve been told to find your erotic type.Your blueprint. Your flavor. Your lane.But what if that identity you’re clinging to—the one that once felt so freeing—is now boxing you in?In this sharp and tender episode, Nicole unpacks why erotic archetypes don’t actually exist as fixed truths—and why your most turned-on, most alive, most you self can’t be contained by a quiz, a category, or a kink label.You’ll meet the clients who only feel safe in anonymous sex, the ones who call themselves “energetic” but are really just under-touched, and the many humans out there confusing trauma patterns for preference. (Hint: it’s most of us.)This isn’t about shaming the frameworks—it’s about expanding beyond them.Because you were never meant to be a type.You were meant to be a whole goddamn ecosystem. 🧨 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why erotic identities often form as adaptive strategies—not truthsHow nervous system conditioning can masquerade as desireThe real reason some people crave anonymity or "can’t handle touch"What integration actually looks like in your erotic lifeHow to go from one-note sex to erotically multilingual ✨ Key Quote:“You’re not broken. You’re just a mammal who learned to survive inside a box.” 🌿 Resources & Links:🚨🔥 HOTTEST DEAL OF THE SUMMER 🔥🚨Reset Your Erotic Rhythm is at its lowest price EVER—September only! Price doubles in October and every month until December!😳💦https://www.bodycompass.me/self-paced-course-rese-erotic-rhythmcouples 📲 THIS IS A NEW PODCAST AND WE NEED YOUR HELP! Help This Podcast ThriveIf your body hummed, your brain lit up, or you whispered “WTF yes” during this episode…💌 Don’t keep it to yourself.✨ Download the episode🌱 Leave a review (it’s podcast gold and helps us reach more pleasure-curious weirdos)👯‍♀️ Send it to that one friend who totally vibes with eco-intimacy, sacred sex, or just needs a little erotic permission slip today.Tag @bodycompass.me if you share—it seriously means the world 💫 🌿 Resources & Links: To work with Nicole 1 to 1: Email bodycompass.me@gmail.com or schedule a free 30 minute consultation with her here. Freebie #1--->Free Erotic Body Reconnection Kit (Previously 3 Best Sexological Bodywork Practices)The 3 most impactful practices from My Erotic Literacy Vault—field tested in sessions, and personally loved by yours truly—to Melt Freeze, Rebuild Trust, and Restore Erotic Aliveness.Free Download | Created by a Certified Sexological Bodyworker® Freebie #2--->Download our ultimate FREE erotic symptom decoder: The DSM-XXX: Desire & Somatics Mythos✨ Our 100+ page reference guide for anyone who’s ever been told their sexuality is dysfunctional—when really, it’s just been misinterpreted. 🌿👉 DOWNLOAD HERE Freebie #3--->Take the Portal Quiz: Your Erotic Survival PatternThe hidden pattern running your pleasure life—and how to burn it to the ground.👉 TAKE THE QUIZ HERE Find me on Insight Timer 💫 𖤓 ૐ 🧘🏻‍♀️ ✧˖° 🪬 🌿 Go Deeper with Self-Ritual:Reset Your Erotic Rhythm👉 Explore the CourseA self-guided intimacy journey for rebel lovers who’ve woken up—and are done dragging their unwilling partner behind them.Erotic Initiation: Decolonize & Re-Green👉 Explore the CourseA 1 hour ritual for the exact moment you hear yourself say, “I just feel...disconnected.” Bedroom Burnout👉 Explore the CourseA reclamation for the tired partner whose eroticism has been drained dry by the relentless weight of domestic and emotional labor—ready to finally drop the load, reclaim your body, and be held, desired, and honored without carrying everything (and everyone) on your back. The Goddess Solution👉 Explore the CourseThe Spiritual Sex Masterclass for the Sacred Skeptic. The First Body Memory👉 Explore the CourseAn audio pilgrimage through the first body memories of women who never learned to hate their skin. Contact Nicole directly here--->bodycompass.me@gmail.com
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    14 分
  • The Missing Ingredient in Pelvic Healing (No, It’s Not Breathwork, Kegels, or Another Wand)

    The Missing Ingredient in Pelvic Healing (No, It’s Not Breathwork, Kegels, or Another Wand)
    2025/09/24
    In today’s episode, I’m speaking to pelvic PTs, bodyworkers, and the brave souls navigating chronic pelvic pain—and naming what most pelvic healing protocols still leave out: pleasure.That’s right. Pleasure is the missing ingredient.You’ve done the stretches.You’ve done the breathwork.You’ve bought the jade eggs, the pelvic wands, the fancy internal tools.And still… the pain returns.The tightness lingers.The disconnect stays.We’ll talk about why the exclusion of pleasure from clinical and therapeutic spaces isn’t just an oversight—it’s a direct reflection of our culture’s discomfort with eroticism, embodiment, and true consent. And we’ll explore what becomes possible—physically, emotionally, erotically—when we finally allow pleasure to be part of the healing conversation. 🧠 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:Why most pelvic PT programs still leave out erotic awarenessThe cultural fear of pleasure in clinical spaces—and how it hurts patientsWhat a fully functioning pelvis actually includes (hint: it's more than tone and function)How erotic disconnection reinforces chronic symptomsWhy treating the pelvis like a machine limits long-term healingA story from a training that cracked this conversation wide openThe nervous system magic that happens when pleasure is normalizedWhy reclaiming the erotic isn’t indulgent—it’s essential 💋 For the Clients Who’ve Been Left Wanting:If you’ve done all the right things and still feel disconnected from your pelvis...If you’re tired of being treated like a diagnosis instead of a whole person...If you’re craving more than symptom relief—you want to feel alive again...This episode is your invitation to imagine a world where your pelvis is not a problem to fix, but a powerful source of clarity, strength, and sensuality.🚨🔥 HOTTEST DEAL OF THE SUMMER 🔥🚨Reset Your Erotic Rhythm is at its lowest price EVER—September only! Price doubles in October and every month until December!😳💦https://www.bodycompass.me/self-paced-course-rese-erotic-rhythmcouples 📲 THIS IS A NEW PODCAST AND WE NEED YOUR HELP! Help This Podcast ThriveIf your body hummed, your brain lit up, or you whispered “WTF yes” during this episode…💌 Don’t keep it to yourself.✨ Download the episode🌱 Leave a review (it’s podcast gold and helps us reach more pleasure-curious weirdos)👯‍♀️ Send it to that one friend who totally vibes with eco-intimacy, sacred sex, or just needs a little erotic permission slip today.Tag @bodycompass.me if you share—it seriously means the world 💫 🌿 Resources & Links: To work with Nicole 1 to 1: Email bodycompass.me@gmail.com or schedule a free 30 minute consultation with her here. Freebie #1--->Free Erotic Body Reconnection Kit (Previously 3 Best Sexological Bodywork Practices)The 3 most impactful practices from My Erotic Literacy Vault—field tested in sessions, and personally loved by yours truly—to Melt Freeze, Rebuild Trust, and Restore Erotic Aliveness.Free Download | Created by a Certified Sexological Bodyworker® Freebie #2--->Download our ultimate FREE erotic symptom decoder: The DSM-XXX: Desire & Somatics Mythos✨ Our 100+ page reference guide for anyone who’s ever been told their sexuality is dysfunctional—when really, it’s just been misinterpreted. 🌿👉 DOWNLOAD HERE Freebie #3--->Take the Portal Quiz: Your Erotic Survival PatternThe hidden pattern running your pleasure life—and how to burn it to the ground.👉 TAKE THE QUIZ HERE Find me on Insight Timer 💫 𖤓 ૐ 🧘🏻‍♀️ ✧˖° 🪬 🌿 Go Deeper with Self-Ritual:Reset Your Erotic Rhythm👉 Explore the CourseA self-guided intimacy journey for rebel lovers who’ve woken up—and are done dragging their unwilling partner behind them.Erotic Initiation: Decolonize & Re-Green👉 Explore the CourseA 1 hour ritual for the exact moment you hear yourself say, “I just feel...disconnected.” Bedroom Burnout👉 Explore the CourseA reclamation for the tired partner whose eroticism has been drained dry by the relentless weight of domestic and emotional labor—ready to finally drop the load, reclaim your body, and be held, desired, and honored without carrying everything (and everyone) on your back. The Goddess Solution👉 Explore the CourseThe Spiritual Sex Masterclass for the Sacred Skeptic. The First Body Memory👉 Explore the CourseAn audio pilgrimage through the first body memories of women who never learned to hate their skin. Contact Nicole directly here--->bodycompass.me@gmail.com
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    12 分
  • The Ecological Collapse of Your Pleasure—and How to Rebuild It (Trophic Cascades- The Somatic Magic Hidden in Nature’s Most Powerful Chain Reaction)

    The Ecological Collapse of Your Pleasure—and How to Rebuild It (Trophic Cascades- The Somatic Magic Hidden in Nature’s Most Powerful Chain Reaction)
    2025/09/12
    What do wolves, rivers, and sex have in common?In today’s episode, we explore the trophic cascade—a phenomenon from the wilds of Yellowstone National Park—and how it offers a powerful metaphor (and literal somatic strategy) for reviving your body’s natural capacity for pleasure.If your body feels stuck, numb, or like it’s lost its desire, this episode is your invitation to stop forcing and start rewilding. You’ll learn how one gentle shift in your nervous system can ripple through your entire erotic ecosystem—no overhaul, fixing, or faking required. 🐺 In This Episode, We Cover:What happens when pleasure collapses—and how to recognize itThe story of Yellowstone’s wolves and how it mirrors your erotic bodyWhat a “trophic cascade” is and why it matters for your nervous systemThe difference between somatic and cognitive healing (and why it matters)How introducing “predator energy” can thaw numbness and awaken turn-onA real client story: from shutdown to reawakened desire with a 5-minute daily touch ritualThree ways to spark your own pleasure cascade—starting today🚨🔥 HOTTEST DEAL OF THE SUMMER 🔥🚨Reset Your Erotic Rhythm is at its lowest price EVER—September only! Price doubles in October and every month until December!😳💦https://www.bodycompass.me/self-paced-course-rese-erotic-rhythmcouples 📲 THIS IS A NEW PODCAST AND WE NEED YOUR HELP! Help This Podcast ThriveIf your body hummed, your brain lit up, or you whispered “WTF yes” during this episode…💌 Don’t keep it to yourself.✨ Download the episode🌱 Leave a review (it’s podcast gold and helps us reach more pleasure-curious weirdos)👯‍♀️ Send it to that one friend who totally vibes with eco-intimacy, sacred sex, or just needs a little erotic permission slip today.Tag @bodycompass.me if you share—it seriously means the world 💫 🌿 Resources & Links: To work with Nicole 1 to 1: Email bodycompass.me@gmail.com or schedule a free 30 minute consultation with her here. Freebie #1--->Free Erotic Body Reconnection Kit (Previously 3 Best Sexological Bodywork Practices)The 3 most impactful practices from My Erotic Literacy Vault—field tested in sessions, and personally loved by yours truly—to Melt Freeze, Rebuild Trust, and Restore Erotic Aliveness.Free Download | Created by a Certified Sexological Bodyworker® Freebie #2--->Download our ultimate FREE erotic symptom decoder: The DSM-XXX: Desire & Somatics Mythos✨ Our 100+ page reference guide for anyone who’s ever been told their sexuality is dysfunctional—when really, it’s just been misinterpreted. 🌿👉 DOWNLOAD HERE Freebie #3--->Take the Portal Quiz: Your Erotic Survival PatternThe hidden pattern running your pleasure life—and how to burn it to the ground.👉 TAKE THE QUIZ HERE Find me on Insight Timer 💫 𖤓 ૐ 🧘🏻‍♀️ ✧˖° 🪬 🌿 Go Deeper with Self-Ritual:Reset Your Erotic Rhythm👉 Explore the CourseA self-guided intimacy journey for rebel lovers who’ve woken up—and are done dragging their unwilling partner behind them.Erotic Initiation: Decolonize & Re-Green👉 Explore the CourseA 1 hour ritual for the exact moment you hear yourself say, “I just feel...disconnected.” Bedroom Burnout👉 Explore the CourseA reclamation for the tired partner whose eroticism has been drained dry by the relentless weight of domestic and emotional labor—ready to finally drop the load, reclaim your body, and be held, desired, and honored without carrying everything (and everyone) on your back. The Goddess Solution👉 Explore the CourseThe Spiritual Sex Masterclass for the Sacred Skeptic. The First Body Memory👉 Explore the CourseAn audio pilgrimage through the first body memories of women who never learned to hate their skin. Contact Nicole directly here--->bodycompass.me@gmail.com
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    11 分
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