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The Nature of Pleasure

The Nature of Pleasure

著者: Nicole Siegel
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You’ve read the books. You’ve done the jade egg. You’ve tried every sex workshop this side of Bali. You know your attachment style and your rising sign. And yet… You’re still wondering if you’re doing sex wrong—or if everyone else is just faking it better. You’re not sure if you’re broken—or if sex is just broken in this culture. Still googling “low libido” at 2am. Still waiting for your sex drive to catch up to your healing. The Nature of Pleasure is your antidote to the fluff. It’s the real talk your nervous system’s been waiting for—equal parts sensuality, science, and side-eye. This podcast isn’t here to fix you. It’s here to show you that your body isn’t the problem. From bonobos to burnout, from forest floor to bedroom floor, we explore how pleasure actually works—biologically, emotionally, erotically, ecologically—and why so many of us are still trying to earn what we were born to feel. It’s smart. It’s grounded. It’s just woo enough to make your past self from three retreats ago raise an eyebrow. The Nature of Pleasure is the sex ed you need when embodiment becomes another performance. Let’s stop performing and start listening—because your body’s been speaking this whole damn time.2025-2035 Nature of Pleasure Podcast スピリチュアリティ 人間関係 社会科学 衛生・健康的な生活
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  • You’re Not Too Sensitive—Your Body’s Just Not on Board with Your Life
    2025/08/13
    Low libido. Pain during sex. Arousal that used to be there… but isn’t.Snapping at your partner over something small. Feeling like you’ve left your body entirely.What if none of that means you’re broken?What if your body is just trying to get your attention?In this episode, we dive deep into one of the most important reframes I offer my clients:Your body isn’t betraying you. She’s speaking to you.And if you listen, you’ll hear that she’s not saying “something’s wrong with you”—She’s saying, something’s wrong with the way you’re being asked to live.This episode is a permission slip. A sigh of relief.And an invitation to build an actual relationship with your body—not as a project to fix, but as a partner to trust. 🌿 In This Episode, We Explore:Why symptoms like low libido, pain during sex, and fatigue aren’t dysfunction—they’re communicationWhat it means when your body isn’t on board with your life, relationship, or patterns of productivityHow trauma, chronic self-betrayal, and objectification affect your body’s willingness to openThe difference between collapse and true restWhy your nervous system might be screaming “no” in a whisperHow to start building trust with your body again (like you would in any real relationship)A reframe for “being too sensitive” that will change everything ✨ If You’ve Ever Thought…“I should want sex… but I don’t.”“I feel numb, checked out, or exhausted all the time.”“Maybe I’m just broken.” This episode is your reminder:You’re not too much.You’re not not enough.You’re just wise enough to feel what others have been trained to ignore.🚨🔥 HOTTEST DEAL OF THE SUMMER 🔥🚨Reset Your Erotic Rhythm is at its lowest price EVER—August only! Price doubles in September and ever month until December!😳💦https://www.bodycompass.me/self-paced-course-rese-erotic-rhythmcouples 📲 Help This Podcast ThriveIf your body hummed, your brain lit up, or you whispered “WTF yes” during this episode…💌 Don’t keep it to yourself.✨ Download the episode🌱 Leave a review (it’s podcast gold and helps us reach more pleasure-curious weirdos)👯‍♀️ Send it to that one friend who totally vibes with eco-intimacy, sacred sex, or just needs a little erotic permission slip today.Tag @yourbodyisgreen if you share—it seriously means the world 💫 🌿 Resources & Links:Freebie #1--->Free Erotic Body Reconnection Kit (Previously 3 Best Sexological Bodywork Practices)The 3 most impactful practices from My Erotic Literacy Vault—field tested in sessions, and personally loved by yours truly—to Melt Freeze, Rebuild Trust, and Restore Erotic Aliveness.Free Download | Created by a Certified Sexological Bodyworker® Freebie #2--->Download our ultimate FREE erotic symptom decoder: The DSM-XXX: Desire & Somatics Mythos✨ Our 100+ page reference guide for anyone who’s ever been told their sexuality is dysfunctional—when really, it’s just been misinterpreted. 🌿👉 DOWNLOAD HERE Freebie #3--->Take the Portal Quiz: Your Erotic Survival PatternThe hidden pattern running your pleasure life—and how to burn it to the ground.👉 TAKE THE QUIZ HERE Find me on Insight Timer 💫 𖤓 ૐ 🧘🏻‍♀️ ✧˖° 🪬 🌿 Go Deeper with Self-Ritual:Reset Your Erotic Rhythm👉 Explore the CourseA self-guided intimacy journey for rebel lovers who’ve woken up—and are done dragging their unwilling partner behind them.Erotic Initiation: Decolonize & Re-Green👉 Explore the CourseA 1 hour ritual for the exact moment you hear yourself say, “I just feel...disconnected.” Bedroom Burnout👉 Explore the CourseA reclamation for the tired partner whose eroticism has been drained dry by the relentless weight of domestic and emotional labor—ready to finally drop the load, reclaim your body, and be held, desired, and honored without carrying everything (and everyone) on your back. The Goddess Solution👉 Explore the CourseThe Spiritual Sex Masterclass for the Sacred Skeptic. The First Body Memory👉 Explore the CourseAn audio pilgrimage through the first body memories of women who never learned to hate their skin. Contact Nicole directly here--->bodycompass.me@gmail.com
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    13 分
  • You Can’t Have Good Sex If You Hate Your Body (And No, It’s Not About “Learning to Love Yourself” in the Mirror)
    2025/08/07
    You can’t have good sex if you hate your body.Not soul-shaking, nerve-tingling, fully-present sex. Not even pretty good sex.And yet—even the most powerful, resourced, spiritually-attuned women I work with are still silently fighting with their reflections. Still caught in systems of self-surveillance. Still measuring their worth by a gaze that was never theirs to begin with.In this episode, I’m channeling a fiery session with a client who finally cracked open the truth: body image isn’t about beauty. It’s about power.We’re diving deep into the historical roots of body shame, the erotic cost of conformity, and what it really takes to reclaim your body—not as an image to fix, but as a living, feeling, sovereign experience. 🧠 In This Episode, We Cover:Why body image challenges are the last frontier of healingHow your erotic power became a site of political controlWhy it makes biological sense to love your body—and how hating it is a cultural implantThe PBQ (Professional Beauty Qualification) and the real cost of conforming to beauty normsHow body image challenges are stored in the nervous system, not your mindThe shift from being chosen to choosing yourselfWhy affirmations don’t work—and what somatic healing actually looks likeA new, embodied definition of beauty that is non-hierarchical, cross-generational, and pleasure-based🚨🔥 HOTTEST DEAL OF THE SUMMER 🔥🚨Reset Your Erotic Rhythm is at its lowest price EVER—August only! Price doubles in September and ever month until December!😳💦https://www.bodycompass.me/self-paced-course-rese-erotic-rhythmcouples 📲 Help This Podcast ThriveIf your body hummed, your brain lit up, or you whispered “WTF yes” during this episode…💌 Don’t keep it to yourself.✨ Download the episode🌱 Leave a review (it’s podcast gold and helps us reach more pleasure-curious weirdos)👯‍♀️ Send it to that one friend who totally vibes with eco-intimacy, sacred sex, or just needs a little erotic permission slip today.Tag @yourbodyisgreen if you share—it seriously means the world 💫 🌿 Resources & Links:Freebie #1--->Free Erotic Body Reconnection Kit (Previously 3 Best Sexological Bodywork Practices)The 3 most impactful practices from My Erotic Literacy Vault—field tested in sessions, and personally loved by yours truly—to Melt Freeze, Rebuild Trust, and Restore Erotic Aliveness.Free Download | Created by a Certified Sexological Bodyworker® Freebie #2--->Download our ultimate FREE erotic symptom decoder: The DSM-XXX: Desire & Somatics Mythos✨ Our 100+ page reference guide for anyone who’s ever been told their sexuality is dysfunctional—when really, it’s just been misinterpreted. 🌿👉 DOWNLOAD HERE Freebie #3--->Take the Portal Quiz: Your Erotic Survival PatternThe hidden pattern running your pleasure life—and how to burn it to the ground.👉 TAKE THE QUIZ HERE Find me on Insight Timer 💫 𖤓 ૐ 🧘🏻‍♀️ ✧˖° 🪬 🌿 Go Deeper with Self-Ritual:Reset Your Erotic Rhythm👉 Explore the CourseA self-guided intimacy journey for rebel lovers who’ve woken up—and are done dragging their unwilling partner behind them.Erotic Initiation: Decolonize & Re-Green👉 Explore the CourseA 1 hour ritual for the exact moment you hear yourself say, “I just feel...disconnected.” Bedroom Burnout👉 Explore the CourseA reclamation for the tired partner whose eroticism has been drained dry by the relentless weight of domestic and emotional labor—ready to finally drop the load, reclaim your body, and be held, desired, and honored without carrying everything (and everyone) on your back. The Goddess Solution👉 Explore the CourseThe Spiritual Sex Masterclass for the Sacred Skeptic. The First Body Memory👉 Explore the CourseAn audio pilgrimage through the first body memories of women who never learned to hate their skin. Contact Nicole directly here--->bodycompass.me@gmail.com
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    33 分
  • Why the Divine Feminine Gives Me the Ick (But I Still Want What She's Selling)
    2025/08/06
    You’ve whispered the affirmations. You’ve tried the womb meditations. You’ve side-eyed the white linen goddess circles while wondering, “Why does this feel…off?”Same.In this episode, I pull the glittery veil off the modern “Divine Feminine” movement — not to shame the longing underneath it, but to finally name what’s felt itchy, confusing, and quietly performative for so many of us.We’ll dig into:Why the version of the Divine Feminine flooding your feed isn’t ancient (spoiler: she’s more Victorian séance than temple priestess)The secret history of Spiritualism, Theosophy, and how gendered mysticism became a polished productWhat we’re really aching for beneath the hashtags and rose quartzHow we can reclaim pleasure, power, and embodiment without playing dress-up for the patriarchy This isn’t a call-out. It’s a reckoning. A remembrance. A path back to the real thing—the sacred, untamed, body-wired wisdom that no oracle deck can fully hold.If you’ve ever felt both drawn to and repelled by “feminine embodiment” spaces… this one’s for you.🚨🔥 HOTTEST DEAL OF THE SUMMER 🔥🚨Reset Your Erotic Rhythm is at its lowest price EVER—August only! Price doubles in September and ever month until December!😳💦https://www.bodycompass.me/self-paced-course-rese-erotic-rhythmcouples 📲 Help This Podcast ThriveIf your body hummed, your brain lit up, or you whispered “WTF yes” during this episode…💌 Don’t keep it to yourself.✨ Download the episode🌱 Leave a review (it’s podcast gold and helps us reach more pleasure-curious weirdos)👯‍♀️ Send it to that one friend who totally vibes with eco-intimacy, sacred sex, or just needs a little erotic permission slip today.Tag @yourbodyisgreen if you share—it seriously means the world 💫 🌿 Resources & Links:Freebie #1--->Free Erotic Body Reconnection Kit (Previously 3 Best Sexological Bodywork Practices)The 3 most impactful practices from My Erotic Literacy Vault—field tested in sessions, and personally loved by yours truly—to Melt Freeze, Rebuild Trust, and Restore Erotic Aliveness.Free Download | Created by a Certified Sexological Bodyworker® Freebie #2--->Download our ultimate FREE erotic symptom decoder: The DSM-XXX: Desire & Somatics Mythos✨ Our 100+ page reference guide for anyone who’s ever been told their sexuality is dysfunctional—when really, it’s just been misinterpreted. 🌿👉 DOWNLOAD HERE Freebie #3--->Take the Portal Quiz: Your Erotic Survival PatternThe hidden pattern running your pleasure life—and how to burn it to the ground.👉 TAKE THE QUIZ HERE Find me on Insight Timer 💫 𖤓 ૐ 🧘🏻‍♀️ ✧˖° 🪬 🌿 Go Deeper with Self-Ritual:Reset Your Erotic Rhythm👉 Explore the CourseA self-guided intimacy journey for rebel lovers who’ve woken up—and are done dragging their unwilling partner behind them.Erotic Initiation: Decolonize & Re-Green👉 Explore the CourseA 1 hour ritual for the exact moment you hear yourself say, “I just feel...disconnected.” Bedroom Burnout👉 Explore the CourseA reclamation for the tired partner whose eroticism has been drained dry by the relentless weight of domestic and emotional labor—ready to finally drop the load, reclaim your body, and be held, desired, and honored without carrying everything (and everyone) on your back. The Goddess Solution👉 Explore the CourseThe Spiritual Sex Masterclass for the Sacred Skeptic. The First Body Memory👉 Explore the CourseAn audio pilgrimage through the first body memories of women who never learned to hate their skin. Contact Nicole directly here--->bodycompass.me@gmail.com
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    38 分
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