You’re told to mourn the Beis HaMikdash, but you’ve never seen it. So what are you actually supposed to feel during the Nine Days and on Tisha B’Av, and how do you get there without faking it? We sit down with Rabbi Don Jarashow to chase an honest answer: mourning isn’t a mood you either have or don’t have; it’s sensitivity you can practice.

We talk about why the classic Nine Days customs (less music, fewer pleasures, pulling back from comfort) aren’t meant to make you miserable. They’re meant to create space. When you limit what usually fills your attention, you finally have room to notice what exile means, what it means to say the Shechinah is in pain, and what it means to want redemption and geulah in a real way. Don shares a vivid story that reframes grief across time and makes the question of “mourning what you never had” land in the gut.

From there we get practical and personal: what “awaiting redemption” can look like when every person has a different mission and a different struggle. We touch on Avas Yisrael, on choosing an avodah that’s actually yours, and on how to end the Nine Days without spiraling into second-guessing. The goal is effort, alignment, and honesty, then knowing when to move forward into comfort and Nachamu.

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A crying mother is mourning her young son next door to Rabban Gamliel, and he can’t stop crying with her. It goes so far that his students worry for his health. That midrash is the doorway we use to talk about the Three Weeks, the destruction of Jerusalem, and why the loss of the Beit HaMikdash is not only national history but a personal wound that still reshapes Jewish life.

We explore what it means to live with a Torah that includes 613 mitzvot when so many are tied to the Temple service, Kohanim, Leviyim, and korbanot. The absence is not theoretical. It affects how complete Jewish practice can feel, and it changes how we experience exile, community, and longing. We also push past the usual framing of mourning as “remembering the past” and ask a sharper question: what if much of our pain today is heavier because we lack the clarity that the Beit HaMikdash once provided?

That clarity is described in vivid images: the smoke rising straight from the mizbeach, the Leviyim singing on the steps, the Kohanim doing avodah, and the open miracles that made God’s presence feel real. When that visibility is gone, suffering can feel like darkness with no map. We close with a practical, prayer-focused takeaway: slowing down in Shemoneh Esrei, especially the parts about rebuilding Jerusalem and restoring the service, so our longing becomes a real ask for redemption, understanding, and comfort.

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A deal can feel done long before it’s real. We start with a line you’ll hear from top real estate agents in New Jersey, “just wrap it up,” and unpack why it works: it pushes you past the comforting fog of “almost” and into the safety of a signed agreement. Using the gap between a letter of intent and a purchase and sale agreement, we lay out what can go wrong when you wait, even when everyone has good intentions.

From there, we pivot into the deeper takeaway: the most dangerous place for any meaningful goal is the intention phase. The longer you leave a commitment sitting in drafts, the more time you give obstacles to appear, like shifting terms, outside interruptions, second thoughts, or someone else moving faster and taking the opportunity. We connect that urgency to classic teachings on alacrity and follow-through, focusing on the practical discipline of finishing what you start.

We also share a memorable story about launching a major organization and why execution, not inspiration, is what separates “great idea” from real impact. If you care about productivity, habit change, spiritual growth, or simply getting the important thing done, this conversation gives you a clean mental model and a clear push to act. If it hits home, subscribe, share it with a friend who’s stuck in planning, and leave a review so more listeners can find the show.

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