Welcome to episode 19!

In our latest episode, we open the doors to the silent grief that men endure. The conversation moves beyond the physical absence of a child never held to explore the emotional chasm left behind, and how the lack of traditional mourning markers can render the pain invisible.

The dialogue stretches into the significant role of emotional intelligence as we, as fathers, share how we form an abstract connection with the unborn. Tokens like a pregnancy test become symbolic relics, carrying the weight of dreams unfulfilled. Our discussion is a raw look at the identity transformation that starts with the anticipation of fatherhood, the struggle to articulate the loss without physical anchors, and the search for solace in a world that sometimes forgets the father's pain.

In closing, we not only acknowledge but also embrace the idea that love does not dissipate with loss—it merely changes shape. We examine the potential for growth in the face of static love, and the empowerment found in channeling this love into parenting, creative endeavors, and life itself. This episode isn't merely an exchange of experiences; it's a testament to the enduring power of love and the resilience of a father's spirit in the aftermath of miscarriage.

Thank you for tuning in to find solace, gain understanding, and embark on your healing journey with us!

Sincerely,
Kelly & Chris

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References:
All There Is (Anderson Cooper podcast)

Welcome to episode 18!

We welcome back Sophie from Miscarriage Mumma Support to talk about ... grief.

Our conversations take on a reflective quality, encouraging listeners to peer into the corners of their own hearts that may harbor unprocessed grief. We underscore the necessity of sitting with our sadness and allow ourselves to be consumed by the full spectrum of our emotions. The journey we invite you to join is not just one of passive listening but an active pursuit of healing, as we navigate the tumultuous seas of love, loss, and the enduring power of naming our pain. With each story and insight shared, we hope to forge a path that leads to a more nurturing, understanding society for us all.

Thank you for tuning in to find solace, gain understanding, and embark on your healing journey with us!

Sincerely,
Kelly & Chris

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References:
All There Is (Anderson Cooper podcast)
TMDs E14: The Unspoken Agony of Life after Multiple Miscarriages (ft. Miscarriage Mumma Support)
TMDs E17: When Grief Becomes a Catalyst for Parental Health Advocacy (ft. Liz O'Donnell)

Welcome to episode 17!

Our latest episode welcomes Liz, a courageous mother, who recounts the heartrending story of her daughter Aaliyah's stillbirth. Through her raw vulnerability, we tackle the complex layers of grief and the importance of nurturing conversations about pregnancy loss, particularly for fathers. Liz's poignant narrative confronts the myths surrounding the 'safe zone' of pregnancy and exposes the dire state of maternal healthcare practices in the United States.

The journey through loss is fraught with challenges that test the very fabric of our being. This conversation is a call to arms for more sensitive workplace policies and societal understanding, paving the way for legislative reform that honors the depth of parental bereavement. Together, we highlight the necessity of compassionate communication and the power of advocacy in healing wounds that are often unseen but deeply felt.

In the throes of sorrow, there lies a resilience that binds us and propels us forward. In sharing the evolution of the nonprofit, Aaliyah in Action, we cast a light on the transformative power of channeling grief into purposeful action. The episode is a testimony to the strength found in solidarity and the creation of legacies that keep our children's memories alive. For anyone navigating the tumultuous waters of loss, this dialogue offers a beacon of hope and a reminder that even in the darkest moments, we are not alone.

Thank you for tuning in to find solace, gain understanding, and embark on your healing journey with us!

Sincerely,
Kelly & Chris

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Welcome to episode 16!

When we find ourselves grappling with loss, the journey can be isolating and profound. Mary Matt, a school psychologist and mother who has endured the heartache of losing her son Maverick, joins me to share her intimate experience with miscarriage, a chemical pregnancy, and stillbirth. Her poignant narrative reveals not only her personal anguish but also the broader issue of how religious platitudes can sometimes deepen the wounds of the grieving. Through her story, we uncover the delicate balance between faith, mourning, and the true meaning of support.

This episode takes an unflinching look at the impact of religious clichés when comforting the bereaved. We discuss the often-unintended consequences of saying things like "God won't give you more than you can handle," dissecting why such expressions, though well-intentioned, can fail those in their darkest hours. Mary's reflections guide us through her spiritual journey and the importance of authentic, empathetic companionship over theological commentary. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of how to navigate the intersection of grief and religion with sensitivity and respect.

Mary's courage in recounting her journey is a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the enduring love of a parent. Her dedication to her church's children ministry and her work with children are a beautiful homage to Maverick's legacy, inspiring us all to channel our deepest sorrows into acts of kindness and service. Join us as we honor the memory of Maverick and explore how love and purpose can emerge triumphantly from the depths of despair.

Thank you for tuning in to find solace, gain understanding, and embark on your healing journey with us!

Sincerely,
Kelly & Chris

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Welcome to episode 15!

As we sit down to share our journey through the heartache of miscarriage, my co-host Chris and I understand the profound spiritual crisis such a loss can ignite. Struggling with doubts and grief, we explore the turbulence in our faith, the questions that haunt us, and the stories that bind us together in our collective search for understanding. We've walked through the fire of losing what we held most dear and come out on the other side with a need to speak on the often-silenced sorrow that shrouds the topic within church halls.

Throughout the discussion, we peel back the layers of theological concepts that can seem like a lifeline but may also feel like salt in an open wound during times of crisis. Confronting the paradox of a compassionate deity overseeing a world filled with such personal tragedies, we engage in raw, unfiltered conversations about the nature of God's plan and our place within it. These dialogues serve not only as a catharsis but also as a bridge to connect with others who've faced similar trials, creating a sanctuary of empathy and shared understanding.

The series concludes with a reflection on the arduous path of grief and the tentative steps toward recovery after miscarriage. We extend a heartfelt thank you to our listeners for joining us on this deeply personal expedition. In solidarity, we offer comfort to others walking this road and reaffirm the significance of community support, the relief in knowing you are not journeying alone, and the courage it takes to share your own story.

Thank you for tuning in to find solace, gain understanding, and embark on your healing journey with us!

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Kelly & Chris

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Welcome to episode 14!

The raw, unfiltered echoes of our journey through the heartaches of miscarriage and the subsequent emotional odyssey of trying to conceive again are what you'll find in today's podcast. Our guest is Sophie from Miscarriage Momma Support, and she openly shares the scars left by multiple losses, reshaping her identity and life's canvas.

Wading through the aftermath of pregnancy loss presents a unique challenge for couples, a challenge that often goes unnoticed, particularly for men. It's a glimpse into the silent burden that partners bear, an unspoken sorrow that demands recognition and empathy from both within the partnership and the wider community.

The episode transcends personal narratives as we scrutinize the impact of language, especially in clinical environments where words have the power to either soothe or sting. Our collective experiences, along with insights from colleagues, highlight the dire need for sensitive communication in the face of such profound loss. By amplifying these stories, we aim to shatter the stigma, foster understanding, and ultimately, pave the way for a more compassionate dialogue around miscarriage and its long-reaching effects on relationships and society.

Thank you for tuning in to find solace, gain understanding, and embark on your healing journey with us!

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Kelly & Chris

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Holding your breath as you step onto the emotional tightrope of trying for a baby after a miscarriage, you're not alone in oscillating between hope and heartache. Our latest episode unfolds the poignant narrative of a father's perspective on the complex journey toward parenthood post-loss. We share the raw, sometimes unspoken truths of guarding your heart while nurturing the fragile sprout of hope with each subsequent pregnancy. From the nerve-wracking suspense of pregnancy tests to the healing power of embracing new life, we open up about the scars that shape our present joys and fears.

Thank you for tuning in to find solace, gain understanding, and embark on your healing journey with us!

Sincerely,
Kelly & Chris

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Welcome to episode 12!

Have you ever stood at life's crossroads, the weight of loss in one hand and the possibility of new beginnings in the other? In this episode I share how I navigated the tumultuous journey of deciding whether to expand our family after the heartache of miscarriage. This episode isn't just about recounting my own story; it offers an intimate and rare glimpse into the often unspoken male perspective on loss and the longing for fatherhood.

With raw emotion and vulnerability, I open a window revealing how my wife and I wrestled with the echoes of miscarriage, questioning the completeness of our family and the depths of our responsibilities as we pondered the risks and rewards of trying once more.

This isn't just my journey—it's a chapter many have walked but few have voiced, until now.

Thank you for tuning in to find solace, gain understanding, and embark on your healing journey with us!

Sincerely,
Kelly & Chris

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