What happens when the judge takes off the robe?

In this episode, I sit down with Judge Jessica Goodey, our very own “Judge Judy with more heart.” We talk about law, leadership, and life ... from redefining justice with empathy to rediscovering joy after divorce.

Jessica shares what it’s like behind the bench when the courtroom closes: the hard days, the heartbreak, the humor (yes, there’s a “make my kitty purr” story 😳😂), and the quiet rediscovery of self-trust and fun.

This one’s for anyone rebuilding after a big life change, learning to speak up for their happiness, or remembering that even the most powerful people are still beautifully human.

“Some days are hard on the bench. But you don’t let a shitty day become a shitty tomorrow.”

Tune into The Mess and the Magic for this heart-centered, no-robes-required conversation about courage, kindness, and starting over.

Who this episode is for:

• Anyone navigating divorce, reinvention, or a big identity shift

• People curious (or anxious) about how court actually works

• Women in leadership leveling up despite imposter syndrome

• Service-minded pros who want to lead with empathy and boundaries

• • Folks craving practical ways to carry less home from hard days

  
  

  Key Takeaways:

• • Access to justice: Justice Court is the “people’s court.” You can appear without an attorney; the goal is clarity, fairness, and being heard.

  • Human first: Kindness, dignity, and respect change courtroom experiences, even when outcomes aren’t happy.

  • Leave room for joy: Hard days happen; don’t let a “shitty day” become a “shitty tomorrow.” Support teams (and small rituals) matter.

  • Speak up for yourself: You don’t need to be 100% “ready” to lead. Raise your hand, ask for the role, learn as you go.

  • Rebuilding after loss: Choosing your own happiness may cost routines and roles, but it opens space for self-trust, fun, and saying “yes” again.

  • Courts are public: You can observe proceedings in person or via Zoom. Great way to demystify court before you ever need it.

    
    

  Links:

  • Observe Judge Goodey’s court: Justice Court info & public Zoom access page

  • Small Claims & Evictions (Clark County/Las Vegas): How to file, deadlines, forms

  • Judge Jessica Goodey bio/contact: For courthouse tours / community education

  • Books mentioned:

    • None of This Is True (novel)

    • The Paris Assignment (historical fiction)

    • A Court of Thorns and Roses series by Sarah J. Maas

  • Show mentioned: Love Life (streaming)

  • Local arts shoutout: The Smith Center (Las Vegas)

  
  

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In this episode of The Mess and the Magic, Casey sits down with Lisa Condon: Business strategist, international bestselling author, founder of the Gratitude Program, and self-proclaimed spark. With certifications ranging from Six Sigma Black Belt to Scrum Master, Lisa blends process with heart to guide leaders into values-driven lives and businesses.

Lisa opens up about her messy twenties—leaving a promising corporate career, divorce, the sudden loss of her mother, and the anxiety and depression that followed. Through it all, she discovered the radical clarity of gratitude, eventually channeling a “download” that became her Nine Steps of Gratitude framework.

Together, Casey and Lisa dive into:

• Living from values instead of pressure

• How to ask intentional questions that spark transformation

• Why gratitude is not fluff, but a verb

• The power of being a Reflector in Human Design

• Identity shifts, loss, and the courage to choose alignment

• Building community in new places, and outgrowing relationships with love

This episode is as heartfelt as it is strategic, as inspiring as it is actionable—perfect for anyone navigating their own messy middle.

Key Takeaways:

• Gratitude is a verb. It’s more than a list—it’s how you live, act, and breathe daily.

• Nine Steps of Gratitude: ground, reflect, accept, thank, ignite, transform, uncover, decide, emerge. You’re always somewhere in this cycle.

• Intentional questions spark clarity. One question can unravel years of “shoulds.”

• Your flavor matters. Just like champagne vs. hamburgers, own your unique flavor in business and life.

• Messy seasons are teachers. Lisa’s twenties taught her about loss, resilience, and alignment.

• Reflector power (HD). As 1% of the population, Lisa reflects others’ truths back to them, a superpower in coaching.

• Loss isn’t just death. It’s also loss of direction, identity, and old versions of self.

• • Alignment over approval. Not everyone has to be your people—and that’s freedom.

  
  

  Who This Episode Is For:

• • Women navigating big life transitions (career shifts, loss, new seasons)

  • Coaches, leaders, and healers seeking values-driven strategy

  • Anyone curious about gratitude as a practical tool, not just a buzzword

  • Listeners interested in Human Design and Reflector wisdom

• • High achievers learning to release the “shoulds” and live authentically

  
  

  Resources Mentioned

• • Lisa’s Website: lisacondon.com
  • Casey's Website: www.highestself.me

• • The Gratitude Program – Lisa’s signature framework

  • Nine Steps of Gratitude – ground, reflect, accept, thank, ignite, transform, uncover, decide, emerge

  • Books & Tools Mentioned:

    • The Four Agreements – Don Miguel Ruiz