If you’re in a heterosexual relationship and you’ve got kids, chances are you’ve had at least ONE argument with your partner about the mental load… even if you don’t realize it.

Today, women are expected to pay half the bills but still handle the lion’s share of the cooking, cleaning, childcare, and household management. So, how do you get OUT of that cycle, and start to distribute these tasks more equitably?

Paige Connell, aka SheIsAPaigeTurner on Instagram and TikTok, has been tirelessly advocating for working moms on social media, highlighting what the mental load looks like. She’s a mom of four, and absolutely fits the definition of rebellious mom.

In this conversation, we talk about the complexities of the mental load that women often bear in heterosexual relationships, particularly in the context of parenting.

We also discuss the invisible work of caregiving, the societal conditioning that leads to unequal distribution of household responsibilities, and the importance of communication and accountability between partners.

Paige eloquently shares her experiences as a mother of four and highlights the systemic issues surrounding childcare and emotional labor, emphasizing the need for a collective effort to address these challenges and model healthy relationships for future generations.