“You’re not tired.” “That’s not what happened.” “We’re doing it my way.” Could these everyday responses be quietly disconnecting us from the people who matter most?

In this episode of The Leader in You, we explore how dismissing someone’s feelings can fuel conflict—and how patterns learned in childhood follow us into the workplace. From parenting moments to team disagreements and a discussion of royal family tensions, we unpack what happens when fear drives the conversation.

Discover how slowing down, understanding your own emotional triggers, and replacing judgment with curiosity can help you break painful patterns and find your way back to connection. At work or at home, repair begins with making room for each other’s experience.

The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where teams can thrive.

Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team.

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TESA - TEAM EMOTIONAL SAFETY ASSESSMENT
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CONFLICT RESOLUTION MASTER PROGRAM
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Connect with Dr. Lola Gershfeld:

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Dr. Lola Gershfeld, a distinguished organizational psychologist, has dedicated her career to delving into the intricate layers of employee engagement, team dynamics, and wo...

What happens when leaders make emotional connection part of everyday work?

In this episode of The Leader in You, hosts Dr. Lola Gershfeld and Polina Marian welcome back Dr. Jaime Goff and Aric Bostick to reflect on their presentation at the ATD OrgDev Conference. Together, they explore how attachment science, emotional awareness, and small moments of connection can help leaders build trust and navigate difficult conversations.

From understanding “now” and “later” responses to conflict to recognizing emotional triggers, the conversation offers practical ways to interrupt patterns that leave teams feeling stuck. Through personal stories and conference insights, they discuss how making time, staying curious, and helping others feel seen can strengthen relationships at work and at home.

Tune in to discover how the Emotional Connection (EmC) process can help you slow down, tune in, and lead with greater connection.

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Dr. Jaime Goff

Aric Bostick

Watch our ATD OrgDev Conference presentation here.

The Leader in You is the go-to podcast for anyone who wants to create a workplace culture where teams can thrive.

Envision a future where you are more grounded, confident, and in sync with your team.

CONNECT:
EmC Leaders
Facebook
Twitter
LinkedIn
YouTube Channel

RESOURCES:
TESA - TEAM EMOTIONAL SAFETY ASSESSMENT
RESOURCES & DOWNLOADS
CONFLICT RESOLUTION MASTER PROGRAM
CONTACT US

Connect with Dr. Lola Gershfeld:

LinkedIn: Dr. Lola Gershfeld
Instagram: @drlolaemc

Connect with Polina Marian:

LinkedIn: Polina Marian
Instagram: @livewithfivekids

Dr. Lola Gershfeld, a distinguished organizational psychologist, has dedicated her career to delving into the intricate layers of employee engagement, team dynamics, and wo...