Sneak preview of all our High Holidays events, details on free tickets and more.

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• Rosh Hashanah Evening Service | Sept 22 - 6:30PM
• Rosh Hashanah Day Service | Sept 23 - 9:30AM
• Shabbat Shuvah Dinner at Rabbi’s | Sept 26 - 6PM
• Shabbat at VA Pridefest | Sept 27 - Noon-8PM
• High Holidays Kids Event at Art Factory | Sept 28 - 5:30PM
• Kol Nidre Evening Service | October 1 - 7PM
• Yom Kippur Day Service | Oct 2 - 10AM
• Yom Kippur Yizkor/Neilah Service & Break Fast | Oct 2 - 6PM

Thank you to Rebbetzin Stefanie (tefillah), Robin, Sophia, Matt, Austin and Avi (service leadership and support), Pam (food and beverage), Jessica (kids), and all our volunteers.

FREE TICKETS for volunteering. Just go to Kehillah Cares and fill out the form.

FREE ONLINE LEARNING! Use coupon code KEHILLAH for free downloads of some awesome High Holidays lessons.

Services held at the offices of Commonwealth Autism unless otherwise specified.

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Live from the tiki room, it's Rebbetzin Stefanie! Stefanie discusses why she likes running a synagogue out of her house (although she wishes she had more Star Wars themed furniture), the value of community building, and shares some stories from the early days of dating Rabbi Patrick.

Get to know your rebbetzin with this very special episode.

QUESTION: are you more of a Halloween or Thanksgiving person? Make sure to answer the questions using Fan Mail! Stefanie wants to know.

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“Love your neighbor as yourself” is one of the most famous verses in the Torah. But what if your neighbor drives you crazy? What if you disagree about politics, values — or even reality?

In this episode, Rabbi Patrick explores what the Torah actually means by “love,” drawing on Leviticus 19, teachings from Rabbi Akiva, and wisdom from Pirkei Avot. You’ll learn how ancient Jewish values—like honoring others, subduing the ego, and treating the stranger as equal—can guide us through the fractured relationships of our time.

We also get practical: using Jedi-level communication tools like mirroring, labeling, and active listening, you’ll discover how to talk to people you don’t understand (or maybe even like) with curiosity instead of contempt.

💬 Whether you’re struggling with family tension, community division, or just trying to be a little more mensch-y, this episode gives you tools to do the work of loving your neighbor—starting with listening.

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Corruption isn’t just a political problem — it’s a human one.

Drawing on texts about bribery, justice, and moral courage, Rabbi Patrick helps us explore how unchecked corruption corrodes not only institutions but relationships and communities, and what it really takes to live a life of integrity, and to pursue justice the right way.

Because doing the right thing is never easy — but it’s always worth it.

Show notes can be found on Sefaria: https://www.sefaria.org/sheets/519905?lang=bi

UPCOMING EVENTS

• Adult Learning Class at Rabbi’s: Tuesday, July 22
• Home Hosted Shabbat at Rabbi’s: Friday, July 25
• Shabbat Morning Torah Study at Rabbi’s: Saturday, July 26
• Spiritual School: Wednesday, July 30

TICKETS: https://kehillahrva.org/calendar/

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How do people make friends as adults?

In this episode of the Kehillah RVA Podcast, Rabbi Patrick explores why true, lasting friendships are so rare — and so essential — in our adult lives.

We’ll talk about:

• Why adult friendships feel impossible sometimes
• How to tell the difference between a true friend and a “frenemy”
• What Balak and Balaam teach us about blessings and curses
• How showing up for others creates more than connection — it creates life

Drawing on Parshat Balak (Numbers 22:2-25:9), he reflects on what it means to be a friend who delights in others’ blessings, and how choosing abundance over competition changes everything.

Whether you’re craving deeper connection, or trying to be a better friend yourself, this episode will inspire you to choose blessing — and friendship — every time.

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You have questions—we have answers.

In this episode of the Kehillah RVA Podcast, Rabbi Patrick tackles some of the most thoughtful, funny, and heartfelt questions sent in by listeners. From what’s changed at Kehillah over the years, to how to build a Jewish library, to the best bagel in Richmond, no topic is too big—or too small.

We also talk about living in an interfaith family, what it means to be a secular Jew, how to stay open and kind in a demanding role, and how different generations connect (or don’t) to Jewish life. And yes, we even dig into movies and shows that get Judaism right… and wrong.

Consider this your guide to Jewish questions that everyone’s thinking—but not everyone’s asking.

And don’t forget: RSVP now for the next Home-Hosted Shabbat at Brittney and Austin’s in Midlothian on July 11 at 6 PM. Tickets are on sale now—kids are free, and you don’t need to bring a thing! And there are free tickets through Kehillah Cares. Email ineedhelp@kehillahrva.org for FREE tickets.

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July 7th is your last chance to order kosher meat from our friends at Hiddr Meats VA. Place your order on their website.

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Being Jewish comes with beauty, belonging—and fear.

In this episode of the Kehillah Podcast, we explore the quiet ways Jewish anxiety shows up in everyday life. From wondering whether to hang a mezuzah to deciding how (and when) to prepare our children for hate, Rabbi Patrick offers a reflection on what it means to be visibly Jewish in a world that doesn’t always welcome us.

With wisdom from Midrash, the Book of Ruth, and community voices, this episode is about more than fear—it’s about resilience, complexity, and the deeply spiritual act of showing up as ourselves, especially when it isn’t easy.

Links to content inspiring this week's episode:

https://www.sefaria.org/sheets/513882?lang=bi

https://www.sefaria.org/sheets/474052?lang=bi

Note: this episode was recorded at the start of the 12 Day War and has not been updated.

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Rabbi's out of town, but here are a few important announcements:

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See you soon!

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