Do you truly know who you are at your best—and who you’re not?

In today's episode, I'm tackling what I believe is the single most critical but frequently missing ingredient in leadership: self-awareness. In an era where artificial intelligence has leveled the playing field of IQ, emotional intelligence—EQ—is the competitive advantage leaders can't afford to overlook.

I dive into how genuine self-awareness not only sets great leaders apart but empowers teams and transforms organizational culture. From Michael Phelps to NASA astronauts, we unpack what it truly means to tap into your innate genius, break free from conformity, and lead authentically—even under intense pressure.

If you've ever felt stuck, misunderstood, or misaligned in your role, this episode is the roadmap you need. We explore the practical tools and assessments I've used with executives and teams to unlock their true strengths and lead with unprecedented clarity and effectiveness.

• Why emotional intelligence (EQ) will be the defining factor in leadership as we navigate the AI-driven future.
  Powerful insights from the extraordinary genius of Michael Phelps and Katie Ledecky—and how this relates to your personal and professional life.
• A fascinating NASA assessment revealing why creativity and genius fade with age—and how to reignite yours.
• Real-life examples of my own journey in finding the leadership role that perfectly matched my unique strengths.
• Actionable advice on psychometric assessments such as Clifton StrengthsFinder and Enneagram, and how to practically leverage these results in your everyday leadership.
• How transforming your own self-awareness leads directly to transforming your team’s performance, culture, and trust.

Ready to uncover your genius and become the authentic leader you’re meant to be? Let's dive in.

Links:

https://www.stangibsonspeaks.com

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 00:00 - Intro: Why real leadership growth happens in the messy middle
• 01:00 - EQ vs. IQ: Why emotional intelligence matters more in an AI-driven world
• 02:00 - Lessons from Michael Phelps and Katie Ledecky: The unbeatable power of self-awareness
• 03:00 - Discovering and unleashing your personal genius
• 04:00 - NASA’s shocking research on creativity and why adults score lower than preschoolers
• 07:00 - The societal pressure to "norm and conform," and how it diminishes genius
• 08:00 - How I coach executives through deep self-awareness and identity transformation
• 09:00 - My personal journey: Finding my zone as a strategic communicator at Wells Fargo Financial
• 12:00 - The critical first 90 days of leadership: Listening deeply and building trust
• 15:00 - Using StrengthsFinder to unlock team genius and build authentic culture
• 17:00 - Powerful example of a global team discovering and affirming each other's unique strengths
• 20:00 - How to practically leverage assessments for lasting personal and team growth
• 22:00 - Overcoming limiting beliefs and creating a strong identity statement
• 23:00 - The neuroscience of transformation: Leveraging visualization and intentional habits
• 25:00 - Practical guidance on using Clifton StrengthsFinder and Enneagram assessments effectively
• 27:00 - Closing thoughts and how to connect further for meaningful growth

Your leadership journey begins and thrives with self-awareness. Hit play, and let's transform your approach to leadership—together.

Have you ever wondered what life might look like beyond the corporate world?

After decades in Fortune 500 companies, four years ago I got "that call"—the one telling me my position had been eliminated. But instead of panic, I felt clarity and peace because I already had a Plan B. In this episode, I'm sharing the ten powerful lessons I've learned since stepping out of corporate and into my own business full-time.

We'll unpack the importance of intentional living, self-awareness, resilience through difficult times, and why having your own Plan B is not just smart, but essential. These lessons aren't your typical motivational tips; they're born from real, raw experiences of life transitions, health challenges, and rediscovering true purpose.

If you're ready to embrace your journey, build authentic connections, and step boldly into your next chapter, this episode is for you.

• Finding clarity during life's toughest moments and why hardship can bring your purpose into focus
• Why investing in yourself and surrounding yourself with a strong team is key to personal growth
• Practical steps for becoming fiercely intentional about your time, your calendar, and your priorities
• How building a trusted accountability group can elevate your life personally and professionally
• Why authenticity and embracing your true self (even the messy parts!) is your greatest strength
• Understanding the power of having a solid "Plan B," and why it might someday become your "Plan A"

Grab a notebook—you might want to jot down these ten lessons and reflect on which resonate most deeply with you.

Links:

https://www.stangibsonspeaks.com

https://www.stangibsonspeaks.com/10-lessons

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 00:00 - Introduction: Welcome to Episode 5
• 01:00 - Why I launched the newsletter series (1,2,3 and Three Leadership Keys)
• 02:00 - A powerful Zig Ziglar quote on honesty and self-awareness
• 03:00 - The backstory: Leaving corporate life exactly four years ago
• 04:00 - Lesson 1: Real clarity comes in life's toughest moments
• 06:00 - Personal insights from my wife's cancer treatments
• 08:00 - Lesson 2: If you want real growth, invest heavily in yourself and your business
• 10:00 - Lesson 3: Productivity means being intentionally selfish with your time
• 12:00 - My personal daily and weekly time-management strategies
• 12:59 - Lesson 4: Everyone needs an accountability group (and why)
• 14:00 - Lesson 5: My favorite title of all time: "Grandstand"
• 16:00 - Lesson 6: The power of having your Plan B ready
• 18:00 - Lesson 7: You can't please everyone—and that's okay
• 19:00 - Lesson 8: Being kind beats being nice every single time
• 21:00 - Lesson 9: Be an owner, not a victim—take control of your narrative
• 22:59 - Lesson 10: The freedom and power of being authentically YOU
• 24:00 - Quick recap of the ten lessons
• 26:00 - Action step: Defining your personal Plan B
• 27:00 - Closing thoughts: Connect with me and keep growing intentionally
  
  

Wherever you find yourself today, these lessons are designed to meet you right where you are and equip you to take confident, purposeful action. Let's dive in—your next chapter starts now!

In this episode, join leadership expert Stan Gibson as he shares the remarkable story of his college football experience, where he witnessed firsthand the powerful transformation of a team going from "worst to first." Stan dives into how a new coaching philosophy centered on people-centric leadership drastically turned around a struggling football program, leading them to an incredible national championship victory.

Through personal anecdotes and memorable lessons, Stan reveals critical insights into effective leadership, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, surrounding yourself with the right people, empowering your team, and boosting morale through thoughtful, meaningful actions.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• How self-awareness and recognizing individual strengths lead to team success
• The significance of empowering team members and giving them a voice
• Real-life examples of transforming team morale and performance through thoughtful leadership
• Practical lessons from legendary football coach Darryl Mudra ("Dr. Victory")
• Strategies for turning setbacks into powerful comebacks, both on and off the field

This inspiring story provides valuable takeaways for anyone looking to build resilient, thriving teams and foster effective, empowering leadership.

Links:

https://www.stangibsonspeaks.com

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 00:00 – Welcome back to The Inspiration Podcast
• 01:00 – Preview of today's episode: Going from worst to first
• 02:00 – Stan’s personal journey as a preferred walk-on at Eastern Illinois University
• 03:30 – Experiencing a disappointing 1-10 season despite great talent
• 05:00 – Meeting new coach Darryl Mudra, "Dr. Victory," and his unique philosophy
• 07:00 – Importance of self-awareness and assembling the right team
• 08:00 – Introduction of legendary coaching staff, including Mike Shanahan
• 10:30 – Retaining talent from the previous unsuccessful team
• 11:00 – Empowering players to provide critical on-field feedback
• 13:00 – Boosting team morale through meaningful changes
• 15:00 – Understanding the difference between temporary incentives and genuine development
• 16:00 – The lasting legacy and impact of Mudra’s leadership approach
• 18:00 – Applying these lessons to Stan’s coaching opportunity
• 20:00 – Stan’s high school coaching challenge: going from an 89-6 defeat to competitive success
• 23:00 – Celebrating small wins and listening to player insights
• 24:30 – Final reflections on the power of people-centric leadership
• 25:00 – Closing thoughts: Identity transformation and self-awareness

Ready to turn setbacks into comebacks and lead with purpose? Let’s get started.

In this episode, get ready to dive into a candid conversation with John Combs, a highly respected leader and "Ambassador of Culture" in commercial real estate. John, CEO and visionary founder of River Rock Real Estate Group, shares powerful insights into building an authentic, people-first company culture that propelled his firm from zero to managing over 50 million square feet.

John opens up about his leadership philosophy, emphasizing the critical roles of listening, humor, celebrating individual wins, and empowering teams. From overcoming personal and professional challenges to practical advice on maintaining team morale and accountability, this conversation offers valuable wisdom for leaders in any industry.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• The story behind John's impressive journey and how he built River Rock Real Estate from scratch
• Why prioritizing happy clients, happy employees, and profitability creates sustainable success
• How to effectively use humor and genuine care to diffuse workplace friction
• The importance of adapting leadership styles to meet individual employee needs
• Practical tips for fostering a positive and empowering corporate culture

Join us as John shares both the trials and triumphs of leadership, revealing why authenticity and caring leadership are non-negotiable keys to lasting success.

Links:

https://www.stangibsonspeaks.com

https://www.melrobbins.com/book/the-let-them-theory/

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 00:00 – Welcome and introduction to special guest, John Combs
• 02:00 – John shares a humorous story about podcasting and overcoming technical mishaps
• 04:00 – Reflecting on John's leadership journey and notable achievements
• 07:00 – The early days: How Stan and John first connected professionally
• 10:00 – How John developed early leadership skills and personal growth
• 14:00 – John's leadership philosophy: genuinely caring about employees
• 17:00 – Practical leadership insights: adapting to flexible employee needs
• 21:00 – Creating a healthy employee culture with impactful wellness initiatives
• 26:00 – Overcoming personal and professional setbacks, including major career crossroads
• 31:00 – John’s courageous personal journey and its impact on his leadership
• 35:00 – How authentic leadership influences business success and employee satisfaction
• 38:00 – Reflections on building a successful company culture and meaningful legacy
• 42:00 – Lessons learned from working with and caring for horses
• 45:00 – John's "magic trick" for leadership success: listening and humor
• 48:00 – Closing reflections and key takeaways from John's wisdom

Tune in for an inspiring conversation that will challenge and encourage you to lead with authenticity and intentionality.

What does it take to excel both on the field and in business?

In this episode, I had the incredible pleasure of sitting down with former NFL player turned successful business executive, Fred Wakefield. Fred’s journey is truly inspiring—from his humble beginnings in small-town Illinois, to an eight-year professional football career with the Arizona Cardinals and Oakland Raiders, and now as a thriving CEO and founding partner of thriveCXO.

Fred is not your typical executive. He's someone who understands adaptability and resilience better than anyone I know. His unique experience of playing both offense and defense in the NFL—something few athletes ever do—became a cornerstone of his business leadership style. Fred shares the highs and lows of his athletic career, the pivotal moments that shaped his leadership approach, and how he translates those lessons into his consulting practice today.

If you've ever wondered how elite athletes transition into successful business leaders, or how to truly leverage your unique strengths and adaptability, this conversation is for you.

• How Fred navigated going undrafted in the NFL, overcoming setbacks, and ultimately securing an 8-year professional career.
• His unique experience playing both sides of the ball (offense and defense), and how adaptability became his superpower.
• Essential leadership lessons learned from his NFL coaches, teammates, and the challenging realities of professional sports.
• The crucial role faith and meaningful mentorship played throughout his life, both on and off the field.
• Practical insights into thriving in business and leadership roles after professional sports, including handling setbacks and "failing forward."

Whether you're an athlete, a leader, or someone simply looking for strategies on resilience and effective leadership, Fred’s story will motivate you to embrace challenges and continuously grow.

Links:

https://www.stangibsonspeaks.com

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 00:00 - Intro: Meet Fred Wakefield
• 02:00 - How Fred and I first connected through our mutual passion for Illinois sports
• 06:00 - Fred’s upbringing in small-town Illinois and early life challenges
• 10:00 - Navigating recruitment and choosing the University of Illinois
• 14:00 - Fred's NFL draft journey and overcoming disappointment going undrafted
• 19:00 - The intense reality of NFL training camp as a rookie
• 23:00 - How Fred earned his spot on the Cardinals and the power of adaptability
• 28:00 - Unique challenges of transitioning from defense to offense mid-career
• 33:00 - Life after the NFL: Finding a new purpose and transitioning to business
• 37:00 - Fred’s journey in entrepreneurship and founding thriveCXO
• 41:00 - The common pitfalls leaders face and how Fred helps them succeed
• 45:00 - Harnessing strengths, personality assessments, and the power of self-awarenes
• 47:00 - The integral role of faith throughout Fred’s life and career
• 49:00 - Fred shares about his family and personal achievements beyond football
• 52:00 - Closing thoughts: How to connect with Fred and live a purposeful life

In this episode, get to know leadership expert Stan Gibson as he shares his personal journey and the foundational principles behind The Inspiration Podcast. Stan opens up about the importance of having a Plan B, reflecting on his rich 40-year corporate leadership career, his journey into executive coaching, keynote speaking, and becoming an author and podcaster.

You'll learn why Stan believes deeply in self-awareness, emotional intelligence, and intentional living as cornerstones of effective leadership. Hear how his experiences—from his marriage of 43 years and becoming a "GrandStan" to his early days on the football field—have shaped his leadership style and commitment to helping others reach their highest potential.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why everyone needs a Plan B and how to start building yours now
• Stan’s unique approach to leadership coaching through his "three-legged stool" framework
• Real-life stories highlighting the importance of self-awareness and intentionality
• Insights drawn from Stan’s personal and professional experiences that shaped his coaching philosophy
• A powerful life-changing lesson inspired by a meaningful encounter and quote from the Dalai Lama

This episode sets the stage for a series filled with practical advice, real-world stories, and inspiring conversations aimed at helping you thrive personally and professionally.

Links:

https://www.stangibsonspeaks.com

Episode Minute By Minute:

• 00:00 – Welcome and introduction to The Inspiration Podcast
• 02:15 – The Listener’s Handshake: Getting to know Stan Gibson
• 04:20 – Lessons from the sitcom King of Queens on starting fresh
• 07:00 – Sneak peek at Season 1 guests and topics
• 10:45 – Exploring leadership "climbs" and overcoming challenges
• 14:10 – Why episodes are intentionally 30 minutes or less
• 16:30 – Stan’s personal journey: marriage, family, and becoming "GrandStan"
• 21:05 – Leadership lessons learned from college football
• 24:30 – Stan’s corporate experience and the critical importance of having a Plan B
• 28:45 – Stan’s three-legged stool of leadership explained: Emotional Intelligence, Fitness & Well-being, Productivity & Systems
• 32:10 – A powerful life insight from the Dalai Lama
• 35:15 – A friend’s profound perspective: "When death becomes certain, life becomes rich"
• 39:50 – The impact of intentionality in life and leadership
• 42:30 – Actionable advice: Identifying your personal "swim lane"
• 44:15 – Closing thoughts and invitation to connect further

Ready to build your Plan B and lead with intention? Let’s dive in together.