This Season II Finale is a double feature. Enjoy 80 minutes of crying, laughing, real talk and allowing ourselves to hang loose and be silly with improv actor, teacher and facilitator Stacie B.

I know that this finale will inspire you to think of how you express yourself, what things may be repressed within you, and an overall picture of how expression impacts us through a lot of our trademark vulnerable storytelling which we hope you know us for by now.

What You'll Learn:

• How creating safety is fundamental to authentic self-expression
• Why crying can be one of the most powerful forms of expression and emotional release
• The concept of "gold beneath clay" - how trauma creates protective layers that hide our true selves
• How play and improv can help adults reconnect with their authentic voices
• Ways to build internal safety when external validation isn't available
• The importance of allowing opposing viewpoints to coexist without judgment

Guest Bio:

Stacie B is an improv facilitator at FLS Plus (formerly Speechless), where she helps individuals and organizations tap into the power of play and self-expression. With a focus on creating safety and building confidence, Stacie specializes in helping women, particularly those whose first language isn't English, find their authentic voices.

Resources Mentioned:

• FLSplus.com | https://flsplus.com/
• The United States vs. Billie Holiday (film) | Referenced when discussing oppression of self-expression
• Sarah Silverman's show "I Love You, America" | Example of having meaningful conversations across differences
• Tara Brach's Golden Buddha metaphor | Story about removing protective layers to reveal authenticity

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How can we use technology to amplify our lives rather than drain them? I traveled to Switzerland to reconnect with my old roommate to discuss this very important question on my quest for gumption.

Check out this episode with engineer Islam El Ashi, as he takes us on his journey from optimizing ads for Twitter to using his abilities to help Syrian refugees, send a camera into the stratosphere, and now to help build the world's biggest internet computer blockchain.

His perspective will get you thinking about your everyday life and relationship with technology from a lens that will help you amplify your gumption versus letting tech drain it.

• How to distinguish between technology that amplifies your life versus replacing it
• Why the barriers between us and understanding technology are often self-imposed
• The unexpected innovation that emerges when necessity meets limited resources
• How experimentation with technology can create moments of profound joy and connection
• Why "breaking things open" to understand them builds confidence and capability
• Simple ways to reclaim your relationship with technology starting today

Islam El Ashi is a Palestinian-Canadian tech engineer who formerly worked in ad tech before embarking on a journey of self-discovery to redefine his relationship with technology. After working with Syrian refugees in Lebanon, sending a GoPro camera to the stratosphere, and conducting numerous experiments, he now works at DFINITY in Switzerland on the internet computer blockchain, while maintaining a thoughtful and intentional relationship with the technology in his life.

• Islam's Space Balloon Project | YouTube
• In Search of Gumption | Omar Shaker's Substack

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In this deeply moving episode, Omar speaks with an anonymous guest who shares the raw journey of supporting his brother through two suicide attempts within a single year. Their conversation reveals how modern treatments beyond traditional medication can create seemingly miraculous transformations for those struggling with suicidal ideation.

What You'll Learn:

• How to approach supporting someone contemplating suicide with compassion rather than judgment
• The critical importance of maintaining boundaries while showing up for loved ones in crisis
• Insights into cutting-edge treatments like electric brain stimulation therapy that offer hope where traditional methods fail
• Why equanimity—accepting what is without resistance—can be transformative in high-stakes mental health situations
• How the healthcare system's limitations create barriers to effective mental health treatment
• The balance between having "gumption" to persist and knowing when to adjust your approach

Guest Bio:

The guest (who remains anonymous to protect his brother's privacy) brings decades of experience in the healthcare space, particularly around mental health innovation. His personal journey supporting his brother through multiple suicide attempts transformed his understanding of both clinical treatments and emotional resilience.

Resources Mentioned:

• Wisdom 2.0 Conference | A community exploring mindfulness in the digital age
• Dr. Gabor Maté's Work on Trauma | Understanding the connection between trauma and mental health
• Rick Doblin and MAPS | Research into psychedelic therapies for mental health
• David Simas - My American Story | On bridging divides through listening
• Loving Kindness Meditation (Metta) | Practice for cultivating compassion
• Dr. Kristin Neff - Self Compassion | Research on self-compassion and mental wellbeing
• Electric Currents Treatment for Depression | NPR article on emerging therapies

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We all have a story to tell and stories have a profound impact on what we do. Which stories can save lives? Which stories can be a form of healing for others?

In today’s polarized world, this episode could not be more timely.

My guest, Dr. Gautam Gulati - or Dr. G- is a speaker, doctor, and “Status Quo Agitator”. He is the founder of The Well Home and host of the multiple award-winning podcast Super Humans.

He takes us with him on a trip to Kenya, where a treacherous accident opened him up to the power of storytelling, and created the framework that shaped his current life and work.

After listening, we want to hear from you in the comments, what stories shaped who you are? Which of your stories do you feel are important to share with the world?

• How a traumatic accident during a safari in Kenya transformed Dr. G's outlook on life and led to his "go, be, do" philosophy
• Why sharing our vulnerable stories isn't about us, but about giving others permission to explore their own experiences
• How Dr. G uses storytelling as medicine through his podcast Superhumans
• Why our homes play a critical role in our health outcomes and quality of life
• How symbols can serve as powerful reminders of our core values and identity
• The importance of embracing your "black sheep" identity to think differently

Dr. Gautam Gulati ("Dr. G") is a physician, entrepreneur, and self-described "Status Quo Agitator." As the founder of The Well Home and host of the award-winning podcast Superhumans, Dr. G blends his medical expertise with creative storytelling to help people transform their health narratives. His work focuses on changing how we approach wellness by redesigning our living spaces to support health and prevent disease.

• The Well Home | https://thewellhome.co/
• Superhumans Podcast | https://www.wellplayed.health/superhumans/
• Dr. Gautam Gulati's Website | https://iamdrg.com/
• Carl Jung's "Man and His Symbols" (mentioned in conversation)

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How do we challenge our stereotypes about other cultures and humanize others beyond what we assume?

My guest today, Mina Girgis, believes that learning about music and listening to other people’s music is the path forward. What happens when we bring curiosity to the music we listen to?

Mina is a musical anthropologist and current Director of Education, Campus and Community Engagement at UC Berkley CalPerformances. Mina is also the founder of The Nile Project, where he used the power of human connection via shared musical culture to tackle one of Africa’s most challenging sustainability conflicts: The River Nile. Whether yo are into classical music, to gypsy music, or electronic and hiphop, we’ll cover how any music tells a story that can help us understand life and humans on a more fundamental level.

Sample performance from the Nile project:

• How Mina's journey from accidental DJ to ethnomusicologist shaped his understanding of music's community-building power
• Why music offers a unique pathway to challenge our stereotypes about other cultures
• The story behind The Nile Project and how it used music to address complex geopolitical water conflicts
• How traditional music education can sometimes be traumatizing and ways to rediscover our authentic musical voices
• The difference between commercial music and music that fosters genuine cross-cultural understanding
• What ethnomusicology teaches us about using music as a tool for humanizing others

Mina Girgis is the Director of Education, Campus and Community Engagement at UC Berkeley's Cal Performances. An ethnomusicologist by training, he is also the founder of The Nile Project, which brings together musicians from the 11 countries along the Nile River to create music that addresses water conflict and sustainability. Previously a Senior Fellow at the Othering and Belonging Institute, Mina's work consistently explores how music can foster community, challenge stereotypes, and build bridges across cultural divides.

• The Nile Project - Bringing together musicians from the 11 countries of the Nile basin
• Illuminations: Human and Machine - Cal Performances' thematic program exploring technology and creativity
• Othering and Belonging Institute - Research and community engagement focused on building a world where all people belong
• The Nile Project Albums: Aswan, Jinja, and Tana - Three albums highlighting different regions of the Nile

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There are many voices that tell us to express our truth, but almost none that tell us to do so with grace and respect to our loved ones and their truth.

Our anonymous guest spent 14 years building his own sense of safety before coming out as a homosexual man in a society that was directly opposed to it.

It is remarkable how he created space for his mother, a member of that society, to live her own story.

Our guest today bravely shares his journey of conscious self-acceptance, while waving a tapestry of love to hold his family despite their conflicting views on homosexuality.

“I wanted us to go through it together. I did not want to become someone they did not recognize”

-A new perspective for what it looks like to speak your truth, while holding space for others.

-A model for how knowledge can help build a sense of self that is shielded from society.

-A deep probe into how the gay identity is engineered for a Western society. How the Arab homosexual identity is inspired by it but does not relate to it.

-A big question in the end about the history of man and our relationship to nature.

There is a segment of the conversation that took us on a riff where my guest shared a lot of the history of homosexuality and the “scientific”-ization of it with Freud and Eugenics.

He masterfully pieces together the bits of history as he discovered them in his quest to understand how society reacted to homosexuality, from political will power, and the utility of the Gay identity.

We decided to cut it from the episode but will make it available as a stand alone 9 min segment this week.

Stay tuned for a follow up soundbite at findgumption.com

• Desiring Arabs Paperback – Illustrated, September 15, 2008

  by Joseph A. Massad (Author)

• Orientalism Paperback – October 12, 1979

  by Edward W. Said (Author)

• Desperate housewives scene: Bee’s son comes out

• Juste une question d'amour,TV Movie 2000 1h 28m

• Contracorriente (VOST) 2009 ‧ Romance/Drama ‧ 1h 50m

What do you want? What do you value? What do you long for? What is yearning to heal? What do you want to be possible for your community or for the world?

What if your body already knows all the answers to these questions?

“Resilience is the ability to somatically, holistically renew ourselves during and after oppressive, threatening, or traumatic experiences. We are able to shift ourselves, physiologically and psychologically from traumatic hyperalert states to calmed cohesive states. It is the ability to regain a sense of hope and imagine a positive future.“ - Staci K. Haines

What You'll Learn:

• How our bodies carry wisdom that can guide us toward healing and transformation
• What somatics is and how it differs from conventional views of the body
• The power of making declarations about what we long for and committing to those visions
• How Staci used somatics to help her mother create a beautiful end-of-life experience
• Practical techniques for working with heartbreak, resentment, and finding balance within yourself
• Why our bodies often already know how to heal, even when our minds are struggling

Guest Bio:

Staci K. Haines is a pioneer in the field of somatics, with over 22 years of teaching experience. She has founded several organizations including Generative Somatics and Generation Five, which support social justice movements through somatic practices. She is the author of "The Politics of Trauma: Somatics, Healing, and Social Justice" and "Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma," which has been translated into multiple languages.

Resources Mentioned:

• The Politics of Trauma
• Strozzi Institute Somatic Programs: Declaring a New Future
• The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying
• Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma

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How does one take care of heartbreak? What messages do we get from society when going through a heartbreak? And how does it actually impact us compared to breaking an arm or a leg?

In this most vulnerable episode, I discuss all of the above with my Sherin Wafaai, my ex-partner. Together we tell our two-sided story and then dive into what her vision for a place that can tend to heartbreak is. If you stick to the end, you'll also get to hear one of my poems read by her called "Heart Break Hotel."

What You'll Learn:

• Why heartbreak deserves the same care and attention as physical injuries
• How our bodies physically respond to emotional heartbreak and the potential health impacts
• The vision for a "Heartbreak Hotel" - a sanctuary dedicated to healing from relational loss
• How to move through separation with grace, dignity and mutual respect
• Why self-soothing and community support are both essential components of healing
• The role of awe and reverence in recovering from heartbreak faster

Guest Bio:

Sherin Wafaai is a psychologist, user experience researcher, and Omar's ex-partner. With her background in psychology and personal experience with heartbreak, Sherin shares her vision for creating dedicated spaces where people can properly heal from emotional wounds with community support.

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