If you’ve ever found yourself halfway through a bag of chips or surrounded by Oreo crumbs, wondering what just happened, you’re not alone. Your cravings aren’t a sign of low willpower or weakness; they’re driven by shifts in estrogen and dopamine, and amplified during perimenopause and menopause. That “treat yourself” moment of comfort is actually one of the ways your body is trying to self-regulate.

In this episode, I’m breaking down why your cravings feel so hard to resist and how you can take back control without relying on willpower or giving up the foods you love forever. We’ll talk about the dopamine–estrogen connection, the cues that trigger cravings, and how low dopamine can push you toward food, wine, shopping, or scrolling for that quick hit of feel-good. You’ll also learn how stress magnifies cravings, what emotions often hide underneath them, and how to start catching yourself in the moment so you can choose differently.

I’ll share my strategy for creating a plan to calm cravings, replace them with healthier dopamine boosts, and develop your own “treat yourself” menu that supports your body instead of sabotaging it. You’ll leave this episode with tools you can use today, and the relief of knowing this isn’t about discipline, it’s about working with your brain and hormones to create real change.

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Your Takeaways

How stress and hormones team up to fuel cravings

The cue–reward cycle and how to break it

Why food feels like comfort, connection, and survival

Awareness: your first weapon against cravings

Simple swaps and small wins to rewire your rewards

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Grab Leslie’s Resources

FREE PDF: Natural ways to increase dopamine levels (https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ygZxPSHEVRca7pb37Og8qaaGMR1py7vl/view?usp=sharing)

Mini-Course: CALM the Cravings [Use discount code: HSS15 for 15% off!] (https://stan.store/leslieduffycoaching/p/calm-the-cravings)

Book a Wellness Shift Strategy Call - Your first step toward feeling clear, capable, and in control of your health again (https://calendly.com/leslieduffycoaching/wellness-shift-strategy-call)

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Mentioned in this episode

Estradiol and the reward system in humans (https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S2352154617302735)

Hormone sensitivity predicts the beneficial effects of transdermal estradiol on reward-seeking behaviors in perimenopausal women: A randomized controlled trial (https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10568486/)

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Connect with Leslie

Connect with me and learn more at LeslieDuffyCoaching.com (https://leslieduffycoaching.com/)

Send me a message and follow me on Instagram @LeslieDuffyCoaching (https://www.instagram.com/leslieduffycoaching/)

Watch the video version of this episode on YouTube @TheHormoneShiftShow (



If you’ve been hitting the gym, counting the calories, and still can’t budge the numbers on the scale, here’s the truth: it’s probably not what you’re eating. In midlife, fluctuating estrogen levels make our bodies more sensitive to stress, and we can’t handle the stress response as well as we used to. Your overscheduled life, that coworker you can’t stand, or even the clothes that don’t fit right, can spike your blood sugar just like a candy bar would. The result? Higher cortisol, stubborn belly fat, crappy sleep, and sluggish digestion.

In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on how stress messes with your hormones in midlife and creates weight loss resistance, and why pushing yourself harder isn’t the answer. I’m also sharing my four-step CALM method to get out of fight-or-flight, lower cortisol, and put your body back in fat-burning, hormone-balancing mode. It’s time to start working with your body instead of against it.

If you’ve been doing everything right and still feel stuck, this episode will help you to connect the dots and finally break free.

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What You’ll Learn

Why stress is basically a Snickers bar — minus the fun

The three types of stress and how chronic stress affects your weight

How hormones like cortisol drive stress-related weight gain

The CALM Method for regulating your body, not just your habits

Why letting go, slowing down, and shifting your mindset can actually help you lose weight.

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Resources from Leslie

Get your Free Episode 1 Worksheet! (https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Ow6p1S0C8X5fvoJ0q0UUqEAT_HKoGskt/view?usp=drive_link)

Free PDF: The CALM Plate —Get your free printable resource (https://stan.store/leslieduffycoaching/p/the-calm-plate)

Mini-Course: CALM the Cravings [Discount code: HSS15] (https://stan.store/leslieduffycoaching/p/calm-the-cravings)

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Mentioned in this episode

Huberman Lab | Control Stress for Healthy Eating, Metabolism & Aging with Dr. Elissa Epel (https://youtu.be/ulHrUVV3Kq4)

Anti-inflammatory properties of the vagus nerve: potential therapeutic implications of vagus nerve stimulation (https://physoc.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1113/JP271539)

Can Meditation Slow Rate of Cellular Aging? Cognitive Stress, Mindfulness, and Telomeres (https://nyaspubs.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1749-6632.2009.04414.x)

The Chain Mediating Effect of Negative Perfectionism on Procrastination: An Ego Depletion Perspective (https://www.mdpi.com/1660-4601/19/15/9355)

Estrogen Improves Insulin Sensitivity and Suppresses Gluconeogenesis via the Transcription Factor Foxo1 (https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6341301/)

Impact of the Baltimore Experience Corps Trial on cortical and hippocampal volumes (

If you’re a woman over 40 and you barely recognize yourself in the mirror… your energy’s in the tank, your emotions are all over the place, and you’re wondering what happened to the “you” you used to be, you’re not alone. And you’re not broken.

I’m Leslie Duffy, a registered nurse, life coach, and certified functional hormone specialist. After 20+ years of helping women reclaim their health, I created The Hormone Shift Show to give you the answers nobody else is talking about.

This is the strategy podcast for women ready to stop guessing and start feeling like themselves again. Here’s what you won’t get: endless to-do lists, restrictive diets, or morning routines that take 2 hours. Here’s what you will get: science-backed tools you can use right now to balance your hormones, regain your energy, and finally breathe again.

Your 40s and 50s aren’t the beginning of the end; they’re your window of health. What you do today shapes how you age and thrive for decades to come.

So if you’re tired of pushing through and ready to rewrite your next chapter, hit follow now.

Your comeback starts here.

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Connect with me and learn more at LeslieDuffyCoaching.com (https://leslieduffycoaching.com/)

Send me a message and follow me on Instagram @LeslieDuffyCoaching (https://www.instagram.com/leslieduffycoaching/)

Watch the video version of this episode on YouTube @TheHormoneShiftShow (https://www.youtube.com/@TheHormoneShiftShow)