In this episode, Lydia T. Blanco reflects on her transformative decade in New York City, sharing insights on personal growth, the importance of community, and the life lessons learned along the way, from navigating the challenges of city living to embracing self-love and connection. Her journey is a testament to resilience, the power of faith, and relationships.

Key Takeaways

Lydia reflects on her 10-year journey in New York City.

Community is essential for survival and growth in the Big Apple.

Establishing connections with neighbors can create a sense of security.

Walking the city is a valuable way to learn and explore.

Being punctual can open doors to new opportunities.

Networking requires discernment in choosing the right spaces.

Self-love is a continuous journey, especially in a bustling city.

Creating a home is about more than just a physical space.

Gratitude for friendships and experiences shapes personal growth.

Chapters

00:00 A Decade in New York City

09:50 Building Community and Connection

19:33 Lessons in Mobility and Health

23:00 The Importance of Time and Punctuality

25:37 Navigating Networking and Relationships

33:56 Heartfelt Connections and Personal Growth

36:46 Reflections and Future Aspirations

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In this episode, Lydia T. Blanco explores the theme of finding satisfaction during transition. She shares her personal experiences and insights on navigating life's changes, emphasizing the importance of listening, surrendering to the process, and finding joy in the journey. Through her reflections on Pilates, community, and self-acceptance, Lydia encourages listeners to embrace their transitions and cultivate a deeper connection with themselves and others.

Key Takeaways:

Satisfaction in transition is a personal goal.

Listening during transitions is challenging, but it is necessary.

Being present is crucial for achieving satisfaction.

Rituals help ground us during times of change.

Resting on the pivot is essential for peace.

Surrendering to the process can lead to growth.

Expectations can hinder our satisfaction.

Finding joy in hobbies can ease transitions.

Deepening relationships is essential during change.

Transition is a learning experience, not just about getting to your destination.

Chapters:

00:00 Embracing Transition

03:50 The Challenge of Listening and Being Present

08:16 Resting in the Pivot

09:22 Surrendering Expectations

12:13 Finding Satisfaction in Transition

16:20 The Beauty of Unexpected Transitions

21:15 Practicing Gratitude in Transition

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Summary

In this episode, Lydia T. Blanco reflects on her recent trip home to the Bay Area, sharing insights on the importance of being present, healing relationships with family, and embracing personal growth. She discusses the significance of letting go of expectations and being intentional in her interactions, highlighting the transformative power of home and family connections. Lydia encourages listeners to nurture their relationships and approach their journeys with an open heart, emphasizing self-love and grace throughout the process.

Key Takeaways:

I had no agenda this time around.

I needed to be intentional without having to be so planful.

I have come a long way at 36 years old.

It is important to heal your relationship with home.

Setting the table has been extremely important to me.

If you have been feeling in your spirit that it is time for you to go home, even just visit, go.

I hope that you have experiences that allow you to have a different perspective on what it means to go home.

Love on your family members; it is time.

How you live your life is your business.

I am practicing grace and self love.

Chapters:

00:00 Returning Home: A Journey of Reflection

02:58 The Importance of Being Present

05:35 Healing Relationships with Home

08:08 Embracing Change and Self-Love

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In this episode, Lydia T. Blanco shares her journey of paying off over $150,000 of student loan debt. She discusses the emotional and financial struggles she faced, the importance of financial literacy, and the tactics she used to achieve financial freedom. Lydia emphasizes the importance of mindset shifts, living within one's means, and establishing systems for financial well-being. She encourages listeners to seek community support and to take an active role in their financial journeys.

Key Takeaways:

How to overcome the burden of student loans.

Financial literacy is crucial for managing student loan debt.

Writing down your numbers can help you face and come to terms with your debt.

It's important to know when to pivot in your career.

Living below your means can help with debt repayment.

Creating systems for financial well-being is essential.

Community support can be a powerful motivator in financial journeys.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Student Loan Debt Journey

02:37 The Burden of Student Loans

05:32 The Decision to Pursue Higher Education

08:40 The Path to Financial Freedom

11:13 Tactics for Managing Debt

14:11 The Importance of Pivoting

17:01 Mindset Shifts Around Money

19:52 Living Below Your Means

22:26 Creating Financial Systems

25:16 Investing and Saving Strategies

28:15 The Power of Community and Sharing

31:09 Emotional Aspects of Debt

33:58 The Role of Faith in Financial Decisions

36:28 Looking Forward to Financial Freedom

39:16 Conclusion and Encouragement

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In this episode, Lydia T. Blanco delves into the theme of expectations and how they shape our experiences in relationships and life. She emphasizes the importance of managing expectations, setting boundaries, and building trust, both with oneself and others. The conversation explores the concepts of radical acceptance, emotional regulation, and the importance of continuous learning and personal growth. Lydia encourages listeners to take their expectations seriously and to approach life with gentleness and self-awareness.

Key Takeaways:

Not everyone deserves all of you, and not everything deserves your best.

Trust goes both ways; self-trust is essential.

Radical acceptance can help protect your peace.

Your expectations are yours; they don't involve others unless agreed upon.

You may be the problem if your expectations are uncommunicated.

Emotional regulation is crucial for managing relationships effectively.

Create frameworks for joy and satisfaction in your life.

Be gentle with yourself as you navigate expectations.

Continuous learning is vital for personal growth.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction: A Personal New Year

01:13 Expectations: The Root of Our Discontent

05:14 Boundaries: Protecting Your Energy

08:25 Trust: Building Self-Trust and Relationships

12:26 Radical Acceptance: Embracing Reality

16:01 Emotional Regulation: The Key to Stability

19:39 Learning and Growth: The Continuous Journey

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In this episode, Lydia T. Blanco discusses the importance of organization and mindfulness in daily life. She emphasizes the need to declutter both physical and mental spaces, create systems for daily habits, and maintain cleanliness as a reflection of self-worth. Additionally, she emphasizes the importance of financial awareness, encouraging listeners to take stock of their subscriptions and be mindful of their spending. The conversation culminates in a call to action for listeners to get organized and excited about their lives.

Key Takeaways:

It's time to get organized for mental clarity.

Decluttering helps create space for new opportunities.

Having systems in place can improve daily habits.

Giving back should be done with a standard of quality.

Cleanliness reflects self-respect and gratitude.

Financial awareness is crucial for personal growth.

Writing down financial goals helps in tracking progress.

Mindset shifts can change how we view our finances.

Taking inventory of subscriptions can save money.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Organization and Mindfulness

05:54 Creating Systems for Daily Habits

11:46 Cleanliness as a Reflection of Self

21:02 Mindset Shifts Around Finances

29:46 Taking Inventory of Subscriptions

35:50 Conclusion and Call to Action

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In this episode of Life Will Be, Lydia T. Blanco explores the themes of authenticity, joy, urgency, and intentional living. She emphasizes the importance of leading by example and living a life that inspires others. Through personal anecdotes and insights, Lydia encourages listeners to schedule joy, embrace challenges, and be mindful of their time. The conversation highlights the significance of community and sharing experiences for personal growth and connection.

Key Takeaways:

Claiming life for oneself is essential for authenticity.

Scheduling joy is crucial for a fulfilling life.

Having a sense of urgency can propel you forward.

Living intentionally can create a sense of urgency.

Sharing experiences can uplift and inspire others.

Leading by living means being an example for others.

Accepting challenges is part of personal growth.

Life is a series of conversations that shape our experiences.

Being mindful of time reflects respect for oneself and others.

Living abundantly requires intentional choices.

Chapters:

00:00 Claiming Life and Authenticity

02:51 Scheduling Joy and Intentional Living

06:10 The Importance of Urgency

08:53 Living by Design and Sharing Experiences

11:48 Leading by Living and Accepting Challenges

24:58 Living Abundantly and Intentionally

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In this episode of the Life Will Be podcast, host Lydia T. Blanco shares her journey of self-discovery, radical acceptance, and personal growth over the past two years. She discusses the importance of forgiveness, investing in creativity, and navigating relationships while emphasizing self-worth and self-love. Lydia also highlights the significance of practicing gratitude and positive self-talk as essential to mental health and well-being. The episode concludes with a reflection on the message of not worrying and trusting the process of life.

Key Takeaways:

• Lydia rebranded her podcast to reflect her journey of self-discovery.
• Radical acceptance is crucial for personal growth.
• Forgiveness is a vital part of healing and moving forward.
• Investing in creativity can lead to personal fulfillment.
• Friendship requires active effort and self-awareness.
• Self-worth is tied to how we perceive and treat ourselves.
• Practicing gratitude can enhance overall well-being.
• Positive self-talk is essential for mental health.
• Life is a journey of continuous learning and growth.
• Trusting the process and not worrying is key to peace.

Chapters:

• 00:00: Introduction to Life Will Be Podcast
• 01:28: Radical Acceptance and Self-Discovery
• 06:47: The Importance of Forgiveness
• 12:44: Investing in Creativity and Learning
• 18:55: Navigating Friendships and Relationships
• 28:36: Understanding Self-Worth and Self-Love
• 35:01: Practicing Gratitude and Positive Self-Talk
• 46:56: Conclusion and Reflection

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