Separation can feel overwhelming — especially in the first few weeks when emotions, parenting concerns, finances and practical decisions all collide at once.

In this new episode of The Ex-Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast, Australian family lawyers Alex Wynn and Liza Friedwald discuss the most important things to focus on in the first 30 days after separation.

They cover practical safety considerations, communicating with children, protecting important financial information, managing conflict, and the legal mistakes people commonly make early after separation.

This episode is designed to provide calm, practical guidance for people navigating one of the most difficult periods of their lives.

In this episode, we discuss:

• What to do immediately after separation.
• Safety and family violence concerns.
• Separation under one roof.
• Protecting financial information and important documents.
• Parenting and supporting children through separation.
• Property settlement considerations.
• When to seek legal advice.
• Common mistakes to avoid in the early stages.

Key Takeaways

• Prioritise safety for yourself and your children.
• Avoid making major legal or financial decisions in the heat of emotion.
• Gather important financial and personal documents early.
• Keep children out of adult conflict wherever possible.
• Good early advice can help prevent expensive mistakes later.

Chapters

00:05 – Introduction to The Ex-Files
01:07 – Navigating the First 30 Days of Separation
02:24 – Safety and Practical Considerations During Separation
06:35 – Stabilizing the Situation for Children
09:51 – Understanding the Grief Cycle in Separation
11:31 – Financial Preparations for Separation
15:07 – Legal Aspects of Divorce and Separation
16:59 – Navigating Separation Under One Roof
19:32 – The Importance of Legal Advice During Separation
23:31 – Understanding Power Dynamics in Relationships
24:53 – Addressing Family Violence and Safety Concerns
28:45 – What Not to Do After Separation
31:33 – Planning for the Future Post-Separation

Resources

• 1800RESPECT – https://www.1800respect.org.au

• Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law section) - https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl

• Services Australia – https://www.servicesaustralia.gov.au

Contact (Email)

• Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au
• Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au

Keywords

family law, separation, divorce, Australian family law, parenting arrangements, property settlement, separation advice, first 30 days after separation, family violence, children and separation, legal advice, separation under one roof

Disclaimer

This podcast provides general educational information only and is not legal advice. You should obtain advice specific to your circumstances before making legal or financial decisions.

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Tune in to Alex and Liza, who will ensure you feel prepared and informed as you navigate your separation within the framework of Australian family law.

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Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au
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1. Understanding the Impact of Violence:
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2. The Legal Process:
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Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au
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• Why women often feel unheard in relationships and how this impacts separation decisions.
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• The FCFCOA Explained: A deep dive into the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (FCFCOA) - its purpose, structure, and what to expect if your case is heard here.
• Other Key Institutions: Insights into other relevant bodies and organisations that play a role in the separation process, including mediation services and support agencies.
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• Alternative Dispute Resolution: Understanding mediation and arbitration as alternatives to court and how these processes can benefit you.
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Tune in for expert advice and clear explanations from Alex and Liza, ensuring you feel prepared and supported every step of the way.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media

Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au
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Tune in for an engaging conversation that explores the life and practice of Alex Wynn, one of the voices behind "The Ex Files."
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Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au
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This in-depth interview offers listeners a rare opportunity to get to know Liza personally and professionally, making this episode a must-listen for anyone interested in the field of family law or simply curious about Liza’s journey.

Tune in for an insightful conversation that delves into the heart of family law and the person behind the role, with Liza Friedwald.
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