Separation can feel overwhelming — especially in the first few weeks when emotions, parenting concerns, finances and practical decisions all collide at once.

In this new episode of The Ex-Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast, Australian family lawyers Alex Wynn and Liza Friedwald discuss the most important things to focus on in the first 30 days after separation.

They cover practical safety considerations, communicating with children, protecting important financial information, managing conflict, and the legal mistakes people commonly make early after separation.

This episode is designed to provide calm, practical guidance for people navigating one of the most difficult periods of their lives.

In this episode, we discuss:

• What to do immediately after separation.
• Safety and family violence concerns.
• Separation under one roof.
• Protecting financial information and important documents.
• Parenting and supporting children through separation.
• Property settlement considerations.
• When to seek legal advice.
• Common mistakes to avoid in the early stages.

Key Takeaways

• Prioritise safety for yourself and your children.
• Avoid making major legal or financial decisions in the heat of emotion.
• Gather important financial and personal documents early.
• Keep children out of adult conflict wherever possible.
• Good early advice can help prevent expensive mistakes later.

Chapters

00:05 – Introduction to The Ex-Files
01:07 – Navigating the First 30 Days of Separation
02:24 – Safety and Practical Considerations During Separation
06:35 – Stabilizing the Situation for Children
09:51 – Understanding the Grief Cycle in Separation
11:31 – Financial Preparations for Separation
15:07 – Legal Aspects of Divorce and Separation
16:59 – Navigating Separation Under One Roof
19:32 – The Importance of Legal Advice During Separation
23:31 – Understanding Power Dynamics in Relationships
24:53 – Addressing Family Violence and Safety Concerns
28:45 – What Not to Do After Separation
31:33 – Planning for the Future Post-Separation

Resources

• 1800RESPECT – https://www.1800respect.org.au

• Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia (Family Law section) - https://www.fcfcoa.gov.au/fl

• Services Australia – https://www.servicesaustralia.gov.au

Contact (Email)

• Alex Wynn – alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au
• Liza Friedwald – liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au

Keywords

family law, separation, divorce, Australian family law, parenting arrangements, property settlement, separation advice, first 30 days after separation, family violence, children and separation, legal advice, separation under one roof

Disclaimer

This podcast provides general educational information only and is not legal advice. You should obtain advice specific to your circumstances before making legal or financial decisions.

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And much more, including additional tips on safeguarding your legal rights and emotional well-being during the separation process.

Tune in to Alex and Liza, who will ensure you feel prepared and informed as you navigate your separation within the framework of Australian family law.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au
Liza Friedwald - liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au

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In this powerful episode of "The Ex Files - The Divorce and Separation Podcast," hosts Alex and Liza address the critical issue of violence in family law disputes. When violence is a factor, the legal process becomes even more complex and sensitive, with the safety and well-being of all parties, especially children, taking centre stage.

Join Alex and Liza as they discuss:

1. Understanding the Impact of Violence:
   • How allegations or evidence of violence influence family law proceedings, particularly in cases involving children.
2. The Legal Process:
   • What to expect when violence is alleged, including the court's approach to assessing risk, protecting vulnerable parties, and making custody and property decisions.

This episode provides essential insights into how violence is handled within the framework of Australian family law, offering guidance for those facing these difficult circumstances.

Tune in for a comprehensive discussion from Alex and Liza, which will empower you with the knowledge to navigate family law disputes where violence is a key concern.

Contact Alex and Liza on the emails below or check them out on Social Media.

Alex Wynn - alex.wynn@keypointlaw.com.au
Liza Friedwald - liza.friedwald@keypointlaw.com.au

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