Military marriages can start fast—and end complicated. From housing and healthcare incentives to legal nuances like the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act and state-specific divorce rules, military families face unique pressures. This episode unpacks what service members and their spouses need to know about marriage, divorce, retirement benefits, and child custody in a system where the usual rules don’t always apply. Whether you're in uniform or married to one, understanding your rights is key to protecting your future.

Tired of focusing on red flags? This episode flips the script to spotlight the green flags that signal a healthy, thriving relationship. From chemistry and honest communication to mutual respect and emotional safety, Heather Tessmer explores what makes a partnership truly worth investing in. Learn how to spot signs like feeling free to be yourself, resolving conflict with care, and bringing out the best in each other. Tune in and subscribe for more insights about creating healthier, more fulfilling connections.

How to Choose a Divorce Attorney with Heather Tessmer

Navigating a divorce is never easy, but choosing the right attorney can make all the difference. In this episode, we break down the key factors to consider when selecting legal representation based on your unique situation.

From simple, uncontested divorces to high-conflict battles, we discuss:

• When a DIY divorce might work—and when it won’t
• The pros and cons of collaborative divorce
• Red flags to watch for when researching attorneys online
• The credentials that actually matter—board certification, peer recognition, and more
• The must-ask questions during an initial consultation

Whether you’re just starting the process or feeling overwhelmed by your options, this episode will help you make an informed decision. Tune in now!

Resources:

• DIY Divorce www.txcourts.gov
• Collaborative divorce www.collaborativedivorcetexas.com
• State Bar of Texas www.Texasbar.com
• American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers www.aaml.org
• International Academy of Family Lawyers www.iafl.com
• Family Law board certified in Texas www.tbls.org

The Ever Argue With A Woman Podcast proudly welcomes our FIRST guest! Jacqueline Cisneros, Billing Director and mother of four, is spilling all of her co-parenting secrets...

Heather is here to break down premarital, postmarital, and many other types of marital agreements to protect you and your property!

So... you are telling me prenups are not only meant for rich celebrities?

That's right! Heather is here to break down premarital, postmarital, and many other types of marital agreements to protect you and your property!

What is a narcissist? What red flags are worth ending a relationship? Heather Tessmer, board-certified family law attorney, reviews some of her top red flags to look out for when dating. Stick around for a special Q&A this episode!

Divorce Attorney, Heather Tessmer, discusses how to find your perfect spouse! Heather touches on good characteristics in a mate, maintaining a healthy sex life, long-distance relationships, and so much more! In this episode, you will hear the love story of Heather and Kevin, a match made in heaven! So... how did this divorce attorney and military hunk fall in love? Listen now!