In this episode, Arejay shares powerful, practical strategies for changing a negative lifestyle, even when you're surrounded by people who aren't ready to change. She encourages listeners to challenge the belief that "everyone is doing it" and instead focus on finding or creating supportive communities aligned with healthier, more positive goals. Arejay emphasizes starting small and being prepared for resistance from friends and family. Start, stay committed, seek out environments that reflect your ideal lifestyle, and confidently walk your own path until others are inspired to follow.

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After hitting an emotional threshold, Arejay turned to a kriya practice rooted in breath and movement—not just to cope, but to listen. In this raw and reflective episode, she shares how a 21-day challenge unexpectedly evolved into 110+ days of daily practice, teaching her to root instead of brace, adapt instead of collapse, and use her body as a source of wisdom. This isn't a how-to—it's a real-time unraveling of how spiritual tools can become personal lifelines.

Feeling stuck or lost in life? Rather than advice, Arejay shares some initial questions she might have for a client that was feeling this way. She explores the tension between your true desires and limiting beliefs shaped by family or society, guiding you to choose a path that feels authentically yours. Through intuitive coaching, energy awareness, and tools like Human Design, Arejay guides you to live with greater clarity, authenticity, and joy.

In this episode, Arejay shares simple, practical ways to stay grounded when life feels busy. She explains how starting with the exhale helps calm the nervous system, and why honoring your body's needs and reestablishing grounding routines—like a roots meditation—can bring you back to center. Arejay also encourages brain dumping to clear mental clutter, slowing down intentionally, and setting realistic expectations to ease the pressure of constant busyness. She closes by reminding listeners of the power of community and support in maintaining balance.

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If you identify as any of these, take some time to listen.
1) Intuitive/highly sensitive
2) You don't quite fit though you're never an outsider
3) Feel stuck even though you're capable and put in the work

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Ever feel like you're living a life that doesn't quite feel like your own? In this powerful episode, Arejay uncovers the subtle signs that you may be following someone else's rules instead of your own. If you've been questioning your choices, feeling stuck, or craving more meaning, this conversation invites you to reflect, realign, and take the first steps to live more authentically. Tune in for key insights that can help you reclaim your path and create a life that truly reflects who you are.

Arejay pulls cards from the Mystical Shaman Oracle Card Deck, asking these four questions:

1) What is happening right now?
2) What do we need to know?
3) What can we do?
4) How can we be supported?

Note: card readings are for entertainment purposes only and always subject to interpretation. They are not substitutes for advice from a qualified professional. Listeners are solely responsible for any decisions made or actions taken and their consequences. The Essence of Expression, Arejay (Rachel N. Jones) assumes no legal liability for damages, losses, or other consequences of the listener's decisions following the reading.

In this episode, Arejay shares the powerful journey of transforming from a disempowered empath into an empowered empath. Through a four-step healing process:

1. Learn to manage energy

2. Release the absorption story

3. Stop claiming emotions

4. Work with emotions as messengers

This episode is both a deeply personal story and a roadmap for empaths ready to move from survival to sovereignty.