In this episode of The Deal Vault, the team kicks off a new series digging into the five core values that shape how their whole team operates: extreme ownership, steady and genuinely nice, wildly transparent, trusted partners, and relentless execution. Starting with extreme ownership, they break down what it actually looks like in practice, from the "perfect representation of your role" test to the crucial difference between taking ownership and taking blame.
The conversation gets personal fast, with the hosts admitting the small things they refuse to take ownership of at home, before diving into real scenarios: how to respond when a borrower didn't understand loan terms, how to interject in a stalled deal without overstepping, and why owning even 1% of a problem is a better starting point than defending yourself entirely. They close by recommending "Extreme Ownership" by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin, and challenge listeners to identify which of the five values comes hardest to them personally.
You'll Learn How To:
- Apply the "perfect representation of your role" test when something goes wrong
- Distinguish between taking ownership of a situation and simply taking blame for it
- Recognize when to interject and offer help in a stalled deal, even when it's not officially your responsibility
- Start practicing extreme ownership by identifying and owning just 1% of a problem
- Separate genuine negligence from ordinary mistakes that deserve a growth mindset instead of blame
Who This Episode Is For:
- Investors and business owners building a team culture around accountability
- Anyone who struggles to take ownership without becoming defensive
- Listeners curious about the internal values driving a lending company's day to day decisions
- Team leaders looking for a practical framework to coach employees through mistakes
- Fans of "Extreme Ownership" by Jocko Willink looking to see the concept applied in a real business
Episode Highlights
[0:25] –Introducing a new series on the company's five core values
[2:04] –An icebreaker: what unofficial core value would you add to the list
[3:26] –"No bad weeks," and why one rough day doesn't define the whole week
[6:11] –An unspoken "kick butt and take names" motto attributed to the company's CEO, Damon
[8:01] –Defining extreme ownership: full responsibility, proactive problem solving, and thorough follow up
[13:23] –What extreme ownership actually looks like in practice when something goes wrong
[14:21] –The "perfect representation of your role" test for learning from a mistake
[17:50] –The reverse test: how bad would it feel to say "none of this is my fault"
[23:35] –Why taking ownership is not the same as taking blame
[26:53] –The distinction between an honest mistake and true negligence
[27:46] –Extreme ownership as moving the focus from who caused it to how do we solve it
[28:15] –Recommending the book Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin
[29:11] –Why owning just 1% of a problem is a strong starting point
[30:34] –Closing challenge: identifying which of the five values is hardest for you personally
Key Takeaways
- Extreme ownership starts with asking what the perfect representation of your role would have done differently, rather than immediately deciding whose fault a problem is.
- A useful gut check is asking how it would feel to say "none of this is my fault." If that feels wrong, there's a percentage of the problem worth owning, even if it's small.
- Ownership and blame are not the same. Blame assigns fault; ownership asks what you can bring to the table to help solve the problem, regardless of who caused it.
- Genuine negligence, doing something you clearly weren't supposed to do, is different from an honest mistake. Extreme ownership is about growth and improvement, not punishing every imperfection.
- Owning just 1% of a problem is a strong and realistic starting point for anyone who finds full accountability intimidating. Most people who take that first step end up owning far more once they engage honestly.
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